The quotes...A single moment of misunderstanding can be so poisonous that it can make us forget the many loveable moments we spent together within a minute. When nails grow long, we cut nails not fingers. Similarly when misunderstanding grows up, cut your ego not your relationship. It is better to understand a little than to misunderstand a lot. What you allow is what will always continue.
Our problems, all come from nothing, they are all based on a misunderstanding that does not even exist. If you don't clear your misunderstanding in time they become the reason for distance forever. It is dreadful what little things lead people to misunderstand each other. Don't let a misunderstanding turn into a battle. The worst distance between two people is misunderstanding.
Misunderstanding has only one parent- ignorance. A third person never creates misunderstanding between two people. But the misunderstanding between two people creates space for the third. A mistake is to commit a misunderstanding. Anyone can run away, its super easy. Facing problems and working through them, that's what makes you strong...holds true.
Everyone faces challenges in life. It's a matter of how you learn to overcome them and use them to your advantage. Don't run from your problems. They will keep haunting you. Face them and you'll realize you're stronger than you think. We cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used when we created them. Running away from your problems is a race you'll never win...face your problems one at a time.
Face your problems and acknowledge them, but do not let them master you. Life is full of obstacles but don't allow your problems to overshadow your strength, you have to be strong to face different challenges of life. Don't look for someone who will solve all your problems. Look for someone who will never let you face them alone.Communication must be HOT...that's Honest, Open and Two way.
The single biggest problem in communication is the illusion that it has taken place.Communication to a relationship is like oxygen to life, without it , it dies. A genuine effort to understand another person goes a long way in the path to communication. Communication is actually important. To be able to tell the other what's on your mind without fighting or arguing.
The most important thing in communication is hearing what isn't said. Say what you mean, and mean what you say. But don't say it mean. A lot of problems in the world would disappear if we talk to each other instead of about each other.
Communication is key...Two people can be in the same relationship and yet see it in two different ways. Don't assume your partner knows everything you expect in a relationship. A relationship should be based on communication not assumptions. Trust, respect, loyalty and communication are the four essential parts of a successful relationship. Communication works for those who work at it.
Two things can destroy any relationship ...unrealistic expectations and poor communication. The truth may hurt for a while, but a lie hurts forever. Telling the truth and making someone cry is better than telling a lie and making someone smile. Speak the truth even If your voice shakes. Better to be hurt by the truth than be comforted with a lie. Tell the truth and shame the devil.
Pretty words are not always true, and true words are not always pretty. A lie has many variations, the truth none. Tell the truth, or someone will tell it for you. Ego is the only requirement to destroy any relationship...So be a bigger person, skip the "e" and let it "go". Be careful of whatever that comes out of your mouth, it may be something too hurtful to leave someone's mind. Be careful with your words. Once said, they can only be forgiven not forgotten. Open your mind before your mouth.
Words don't have the power to hurt you, unless the person who said them means a lot to you. Before you say something,,.,stop and think how you'd feel if someone said it to you. The words scar more than you think...think before you speak. If only ur tongue were made of glass, how much more careful we would be when we speak. Be sure to taste your words before you spit them out.
A moment of patience in a moment of anger prevents a thousand moment of regret...Words can inspire and words can destroy ...choose your well. We've all been hurt by words before. So before you speak, think about how your words might affect someone else. Before you assume, learn the facts. Before you judge understand why. Before you hurt someone, feel...Before you speak think.
Dhani attended the Reception with an intention to find out the truth and get the answers which she was looking for. She could have clearly told the truth that she has moved on without lying about getting married to Parshiya...she later understood the mistake she has committed and never once thought about Vidha's future...she should have at least et Viplav know about Vidha truth where in both of them deserve to know.
The misunderstanding created by Dhani does have a lot of impact on three of them...Viplav, Dhani and Vidha...it may be a temporary solution to escape from the problem but the main issue still remains. One or the other day Viplav will find out the truth and he does have his rights on Vidha as a father. The lies told by Dhani did hurt him a lot, had she spoke the truth the distance created between them could have been reduced through communication.
Dhani committed the same mistake twice she never confronted Viplav five years back nor did she confront him now...there were chances of the misunderstandings to be cleared...keeping the doubts to herself which are her assumptions only complicates the matter even more. Viplav will have no clue of what is going on in Dhani's mind and it is better that they sort out the issue by listening to what one has to say...there is no such problem which cannot be sorted by having a proper communication.
The only main issue is that both Viplav and Dhani have always involved a third party ie Kamini in their matters...Dhani has listened to what Km had to say but never bothered to confirm the same with Viplav at all...it is because of their differences they created a space for Km to interfere and allow more problems to be created in their lives.
Be it five years back or now still Dhani believes what km has told her but doesn't give Viplav to give her a chance to speak what he needs to say and assumes that he has a child and he made a mistake by marrying her.No matter how tough the situation be, if she gives a chance to Viplav to clear the misunderstanding then all the things will fall in place...this does not involve her alone, now even their child Vidha is related to it as well.
So she must let go of her ego and think about Vidha's future as well. Not everyone is like Parshiya who are ready to listen, understand the matter, try to help in solving the problem or at max stand by you during the difficult times...at times we do get to meet people like Kamini who take advantage of your situation and see to it that it benefits them...so the issue which is related to the people involved, should sort out the matter without involving the third party unless and until you are sure they are your well wishers.
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This TOTD is the combination of the past two episodes.
Jhanak
Udne Ki Aasha
Anupamaa
