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mehraan

@mehraan

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+ 5

Posted: 9 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: premparbat
Sorry Meher ... I am not with you on this one .

Of course this is a huge thing that Dhani insulted everyone and she does not remember therefore refuses to apologize . Viplav is caught between her and his family ... And in reality if ever compared of course couples fight and this is their first ... They say hurtful things to each other ...

Despite all that fight no one throws a marriage on each other's face ... Unless it's real serious .

Viplav has not given her a chance even to speak and slapped her and wants to break off .

Whatever his reason he also vowed to stick it out . Which one is him ? Why should Dhani be under this constant threat of him leaving her . Did he not say I will never leave you ?

Despite all my sympathy towards Viplav he has let me down today .. Proved that a man is a man who can run after a girl to marry her and then when fancy takes him run away from her .

Viplav will suffer and we all wanted to see a brooding Biplav and Mishal making it historic . Well he has his chance.

I can understand ur anger but again im voicing it out He is not a God but a flawed human jus like all of us...But u cant deny the fact that he gas always loved dhasni with all his heart,supported,encouraged n sided with her when noone else have... Im not siding with him cos he did right by slapping or mouthed mean n hurtful words...But I can understand the breakpoint of his anger that has reached to tat level which cant be bought down but needed to explode...He didnt give her the reason to explain,simple cos he was in no mood to listen...What she did was unbearable for him...She accusef his grandad n dunno watelse cos I hadnot watched it ...I will also blame Cvs for making him use those words which can be hurtful but then this is the reality of many lives too...I had seen separation n divorces on small issues in my friends circle n also family...Then this is very big thing for a MAN to see his family ,an elderly person right infront of his eyes getting insulted. .

.Vipu never threatened to leave her anytime after marraige...nor he voiced or indicated it...He has always been around her shielding n protecting...Its his family tat wanted it...n made her insecure...

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Rama

@rama_2010

Dazzler

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Posted: 9 years ago

#12

Jus watched the episode n the reason for separation is a solid one...

Apart from the kamini scene.. the epi was good. I too felt dhaani reaction was ott.. Cvs cd hv handled it better.. then the slap also would not happened...

Anyways. .. I don see the PrecaP as a dream.. Vips is slow in analysing things... he will come to know soon..

My guess with the new time ... the track changes to leap..

This week is going to be fast paced...

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mehraan

@mehraan

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Posted: 9 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: wtpmjgda.
Completely agree with you!!!! I can't understand why every one is getting angry on viplav!!! According to me his reactions are very obvious!!!!! He is a human being, not god, he always will do the perfect things is not expected!!!!
Still he is a great human being, so he will definitely rectify his words and deeds very soon.. Because he can't leave without dhani.. 😉
I have complete faith on Viplav, you all too keep your faith and love as it is towards him, he will not disappoint us for sure.. 😳

m not siding with him but jus trying to understand him today...He has always been a very good hubby ,but I want to cut some slack for wat he did today...! Its an obvious reaction from him...! I will wait for tomorrow to judge him...

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REVATHI RADHAKRISHNAN

@revathirk

Voyager

Posted: 9 years ago

#14

yes mehrn di...agree with u...no grandson will tolerate the insult of his dada...n .its out of frustration n anger...viplav behaved in that manner...

but smwer i feel...its a plan of viplav n dhaani i dont knw y...

but if noticed...viplav used his left hand to slap dhaani...y in the world he will use left hand !!!!..n that too if observed it was not forceful as if he just wnt to show dt...feeling as if everything is preplanned by viplav...may be i m wrong...😆😆 atlast he is a man of his words...he respects women...n he cant do like dis...especially to his love...hv to wait n watch...😊😊

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Mishfan

@Mishfan

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Posted: 9 years ago

#15

Honestly, I am not going to make too much out of the precap. This is shown to grab everyone's attention.

I strongly believe Viplav though blurts out hastily, & makes up for his mistakes soon enough.

There is no Viplav without Dhani...he knows that too well.

He will soon put 2 & 2 together.

My only fear is Viplav will hurt himself badly becoz he did not believe in Dhani soon.

Remember what he did when he overheard Kanak admitting to Shalu a while back.

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mehraan

@mehraan

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Posted: 9 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: anjaliii
agree meher...😊
cannot blame viplav for slapping dhaani..its natural..
but the precap...hopefully i think its just a promo for tmrw episode..actual epiosde will be different..
if viplav will said those words..do u think they will unite after clearing misunderstanding..its dhaani dear... and kis mooh se wo maphi mangoongi... so wait for tmrrw..
i love today episode a lot especially dhaani-dt confrontation...eisha and aroon bakshi sir hats off👏👏👏

The words r harsh n hurtful n no wife would want to hear it ...im sure dhasni will be devastated n broken for these r the least words tat she would be expecting...No amount of hugs or kisses can justify the intensity n the torment of those words tat remain wounded in heart...!! I pity her state n I wish I could hug her ...Eisha has evolved as a strong performer n im amazed as the range of her delivery has widened...

Vipu...I can jus say for wat he did today was natural reaction n I will judge him tomorrow as to wat n y he mouthed tat...I can still feel he has not gotten over with the past errors of dhaani in last week n now this has accumulated to hurt her verbally n also his grandad emotional blackmailing of lrave the house has taken him into other zone...

I think leap arpund n Mus will resolve then

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Archu

@cocoatree

Stunner

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Posted: 9 years ago

#17

Thanks for calming down Mehr !

As far as concerned both the characters are flawed. And it's difficult to judge person depends upon the situation when time and circumstances bound to happen. And both of their actions justified today.Again both are bounded and blurred by enemies. Daring Dhani had no left choice but to save his dignity, self respect, womenhood anyone in her place would do that..And I felt there is no need to clutch his collar, since he becomes eldermost person of family. Roaring n fiery actions is highly enough to reach the point but since its all out for ratings drama then I should stop accounting it..Vip arrived at a wrong moment every time he used to get in middle of the conversation. Really hate to watch slapping drama while this Ph loves to give often. You had given a pragmatic view of today's hungama that it goes obvious with the human shades. Let me wait for it goes for tomorrow. It's difficult to gun this moment. !!!

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Nuttyme

@Nuttyme

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Posted: 9 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: mehraan

I just wish guys u all please calm down...! Trust me im in chaos n I feel mourning everwhere...

Separation that is bought on is not a halwa that thry kiss n make up...True to this ,in real life too couples separates and divorces on solid issues...This tat bought on is a major one, Many who who are watching the show from start knew it thatvDhasni will unmask dt n not Vipu...n tats wats happening ...n im happy Cvs stuck to it! Vipu wont welcome it happily...rather the scene he jus saw how she badmouthed his grandad any son,potha,nathi,anyone will raise his hand...He has immense respect n love for his family n especially his grandad n this was bound to happen...

Coming to the next thing is precap...Watever he said,he didnt mean it...He is guilt ridden cos of his wifes attitude of accusing his grandad,jus some mts bac she twisted kts hand,did batameezi with her,the asthana filing,Dts court drama n now all this...I did say before simewhere all these things are still in the back of his head...he has not forgotten n somwhere he stills held dhasni responsible for the errors she committed n he is ashamed on tat aspect...N now wat he said in mandir is his hurt,anger,disappointment,anguish n pain coming out inform of those bitter,crude words...HE doesnt mean it but he is agreeing to it since he wants to satisfy himself by turning or forcing himself to dislike her which he cant!! This is very much natural when couples badmouth worse se worse stuff to each other...

So guys pleasecalm down...Married ladiess Cmon at least u must be aware what im saying...I had a dejavu of some incidents of my life not tat its fully related, yes partly it resembled how a small thing is blown in proportion n one leads to another n tu tu main main!

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Hi Mehr..

Yes its a temporary phase... the justification you give for viplavz reaction holds good for Dhani as well.

I am sorry... but I cant give the benefit to viplav just because its his family. Dhani has been taking enuf shits from them and this time dashrat had crossed all his boundaries.

If he is justified in snapping relationships on the basis of what he has seen... then why not dhaani? In my eyes dashrath has used words no one dares to use ... and anyone in dhanis place will have that reaction.

To me... its entirely viplavs problem because he is refusing to see beyond the sugar coating of his family. The words that he spoke in the precap is very hurting... and I dont think husband and wife can just say lets snap ties just because you are not giving respect my family deserves. Not a couple of Vidhaaz character.

I dont expect a smart lawyer of his kind to not sniff and find folly!!

I dont know... am sorry... I cant be sympathising with viplav.

Is it the same Viplav who once wanted to move out of AN when raja got married to Shalini? He dared to take on his family.. what stops him now? WHy did he never question on how did Dashrat get the bail? How did he not suspect anything fishy? Cmon!!!

Man of his character... should first talk it over with his wife and then come to a conclusion... not simply react. I admired the character cozz he always understud her viewpoint... but if he is choosing to snap ties with dhani... then he is being a fool.

He will eventually end up marrying kamini... which will only make his family happy... if he really is happy with kamini then his love for dhaani can not be called impossible.

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pearl82

@pearl82

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Posted: 9 years ago

#19

Just saw the episode...VIP and dhani cannot be blamed...even in real life this is the case...I cannot completely blame VIP...he is in complete darkness...even before coming to temple dhani didn't tell him the truth...she had just told him that she was going to meet dt to seek his forgiveness...every girl tend to go mad if she hears her in-laws or anyone bad mouthing her mother or any member of her birthplace...dt knows that...so very cunningly he made her spill the bean...Yes what VIP said would have hurted her much...but remember VIP will be equally hurt...our dear hero has become a normal human being...but still I like him...I can't hate him...😆...it will take long Time for dhani to forget and forgive...but I believe their love will crush their egoes...it will have to...VIP slapped her...I didn't like it...dhani also had slapped him...😆...ikrs cvs love slaps I think...😆

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Riti_MRfan

@Riti_MRfan

Explorer

Posted: 9 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: pearl82
Just saw the episode...VIP and dhani cannot be blamed...even in real life this is the case...I cannot completely blame VIP...he is in complete darkness...even before coming to temple dhani didn't tell him the truth...she had just told him that she was going to meet dt to seek his forgiveness...every girl tend to go mad if she hears her in-laws or anyone bad mouthing her mother or any member of her birthplace...dt knows that...so very cunningly he made her spill the bean...Yes what VIP said would have hurted her much...but remember VIP will be equally hurt...our dear hero has become a normal human being...but still I like him...I can't hate him...😆...it will take long Time for dhani to forget and forgive...but I believe their love will crush their egoes...it will have to...VIP slapped her...I didn't like it...dhani also had slapped him...😆...ikrs cvs love slaps I think...😆

Yes dhani also slapped viplav without any fault of him, at that time Dt played his mind game and this time too..

I can't blame vipu for all this, I know he shouldn't slap but still.. I think he is also getting hurt for his deeds, I am scared that he will hurt himself for that slap.. And somehow I feel dhani will not get angry with viplav, she loves him, she will understand his condition, so she will try to prove everything in front of viplav..

Edited by wtpmjgda. - 9 years ago

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