Communication is actually so very important...to be able to tell the other what's going on your mind without arguing or fighting. Without communication, even the strongest relationships fall apart, there is no proper growth in such relationships. The worst distance between two people is misunderstanding.
The quote...Communication is the life line of any relationship. Without it, the relationship will starve itself to death. Communication and trust are the two main ingredients for a successful relationship. Communication to a relationship is like oxygen to life without it, it dies...holds true.
Communicate, even when it's uncomfortable or uneasy. One of the best ways to heal is simply getting everything out. A relationship should be between two people not the whole world. Protect your relationship. Don't let outsiders to destroy what took you years to build.
This quote is so true...Toxic people have an incredible ability to triangulate third parties into abusing victim. This is done on purpose so the toxic person's hands "stay clean" from the abuse.
When God gives you a new beginning, repeat the same mistakes. If you do it often, it isn't a mistake; it's just your behavior. Forget it enough to get over it, remember it enough so it doesn't happen again. Apologizing is important but not doing the same mistake again is far more important...in case you commit the same mistakes you end up with the same results.
A mistake repeated more than twice once is a decision. It is not a mistake to make a mistake. But it's a mistake to repeat the same mistake. Mistakes are meant for learning not for repeating. Its not how we make mistakes, but how we correct them that defines us.
It is important to set healthy boundaries in a relationship in the first place. Lack of boundaries invites lack of respect. There should be an open communication between the partners. Lack of one leads to many misunderstandings, there should be openness and honesty regarding any matter related to them.
And allowing an intruder in your relationship shall weaken your bond. Assumptions are the termites of relationships.
While choosing to lead your life with someone means you decide to tackle all the issues with your partner and make that person in your life a priority above others especially third parties...It takes a lot to maintain such long term relationships.
The third parties disrupts the equilibrium, the peace in the relationships, they can mess up a blissful relationship. You can't keep a clean reputation hanging out with messy people. Bad company corrupts good character. So trust the vibes you get, energy doesn't lie.
If you let go off guard then the intruders/ outsiders think they are welcome in. You need to protect the things that could lead us into the way of an intruder. When you allow wrong people in your life and house then peace, hope, love, faith shall be missing.
First of all allowing Km in their relationship itself started creating more problems in Vidha's lives. Dadi did warn dhani to be alert and set boundaries in their relationship, but she paid no heed to her advice. Viplav allowing km to get very close to him was a not a wise choice, he should have set boundaries himself which he clearly did not.
He keeps listening to her but has never once let Dhani speak about how she came to conclusion to go to a night school...is it not his duty to know about the happenings in his wife's life when such an issue cropped up ...the story should be heard by him from the beginning then he could have known who was behind all the mess.
Allowing Km to interfere in their lives created more than enough problems fro vidha...such intruders only know howto steal happiness and peace from people's lives and destroy the relationships which took many years to be built.
There was no need to lie at all ...Dhani should have interacted with viplav regarding the might school, and viplav should have informed her the danger in that red light area... with her not informing anyone in house about her whereabouts how would anyone know if anything could have happened to her.
Secondly when she knew she couldn't read why bring the medicines in the first place...it could have been lethal to dadi...she should have refused to bring them, for those women in AN are every ready to blame her...had she not learnt her lesson when she without knowing placed a non-veg order and bua made a mole out of mountain hill...when is dhani going to learn from her mistakes...once was more than enough, it is of no use to keep apologizing for the mistakes which she had unknowingly done.
Hopefully Dhani and viplav clear up their misunderstandings by having a proper communication and learn their lesson not to let any outsider involve in their matters and also set their boundaries for the intruders as well.
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This TOTD is the combination of the past two episodes. I dedicate this post to Nuss aapa, while interacting with her such strong points came up and they should have been highlighted in the show as well instead of portraying the protagonists as dumb people.
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