Thought of the day...Self help is the best help !!!

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Posted: 9 years ago
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The quote "The best place to find a helping hand is at the end of your own arm" holds true. We must at all the times try to help ourselves and not wait for the others to come to our aid.

When we put in our best efforts then our problems will surely be solved through some good people or external forces...if we are lazy and expect people to understand our problems we will never overcome our obstacles.

Be there for others but never leave yourself behind...keep pushing yourself because no one else is going to do it for you. If people do refuse to help at times don't be disappointed the words of Einstein can motivate us...I'm thankful to all those who said no, because of them I did it myself.

God helps those who help themselves. One who relies on themselves struggle with obstacles and difficulties keeps gathering strength and power at every step...as one goes further difficulties vanish and success is achieved.

Nothing more is sweeter than fruits of one's hard work...self reliant people know how to face any obstacle in their life and overcome them as well...they are also ready to help others in need of help. There by your inner strength is your outer foundation.

Don't depend too much on any one in this world...because even your shadow leaves you when you're in darkness. The saying ...A bird sitting on a tree is never afraid of the branch breaking, because her trust is not on the branch but on her own wings holds true...so always believe in yourself.

It is your road and yours alone...others may walk with you but no one can walk it for you...People aren't always going to be there for you, that is why you need to handle things on your own.

Dhani had to trust and rely on herself when she had to face another obstacle...viplav wasn't there to help her out...she had to trick the goons so that she and kamini could escape...a quick thinking is sometimes essential when one faces with unforeseen circumstances...dhani did the same, she was self reliant.

After facing and overcoming so many obstacles in her life she became much stronger...she is able to sort out and handle the problems on her own. In the episode it was no different...she gained her confidence and courage at the right time.

Problems don't come knocking at our door, we need to be well prepared beforehand itself...and relying upon oneself can help one overcome obstacles in a much easier way...it is certain that we are able to aid ourselves.

Do share your views.😊

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Wow wat an intro yaar!!!👏👏👏
Well said self help is d best help...
N our dhaani is strong enf to handle all d problems as she was earlier...😊
A luv can make a person strong or weak...it depends upon us..😊
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hello Revathi 😃 thank you for reading and sharing your view...yes dhani has become stronger...she is able to tackle the situations much better now...yes love can indeed strengthen or weaken a person..till then take care.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Wow wow wow...DAY BY DAY im amazed how ur presenting it so well with such captivating n insightful thoughts...I loved this thought very much n very real...ALL of us,are dependent on something or the other in life n yet when that thing isnt around...we shudder to think or be restless as to how we will or would manage or gather ourselves...!!!ONE has to prepared for any outcomes n situation in advance n should be self reliant enough to deal with any set of problems,cos at the end of the day,its urs n not the burden or the headache of the others ,theway we understand ours,no one can...so Selfhelp is the best help here...THIS is a true fact...
I jus love the EINSTEIN quote n that bird reference...Come to think of it...I just loved these two pointers u have bought in to explain it so well...Thanx Swathi!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Thanks a lot for ur beautiful post swati,
Forgot d episode, its d thought that matters.u r inspiring me through ur writing.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Amazing post !! Swathi !!
Your exemplary and intellectual notions for every episode looks absolutely great !!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hey Pearl,
Love the opening Quote--- indeed the best place to find help is within yourself.
We all have the inner strength hidden away somewhere. It's during ttimes of danger, you need to act strongly & rapidly.
Though the episode was somewhat dull, you have found a good message in it.
We got to see a stronger Dhani thinking & plotting quickly to escape from the goons, knowing her husband cannot help her this time.
But little does she know there is more danger lurking at her in the form of Kamini.

Thanks again for an intellectual thought!




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Posted: 9 years ago
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hi swathi..missed your post was busy..got to it today.. sound and acceptable post.. exemplies the message of self reliance a great strength to have.. thanks for the inspiring content that continues to motivate us .. thanksfor making thelinks with the daily episodes of Ishq.. gives meaning to the episodes... with regards to dhani she shows great presence of mind ..a strong sense of survival which also believes in fighting off the predator... dhani was propelled with a sense of purpose.. to save kamini and herself too.. pity she is unaware of the guile that makes up kamini...
for future ..dhani now needs to help her self by looking out for feelers of the conspiracies being hatched in her household... share her concerns with viplav.. dhani needs to help her self by raising herawareness and questioning facts.. and fighting off gullibility... thanks mate looking out for more words of wisdom...much love hammie
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hello Mehr 😃...aww that's sweet of you...thank you for reading and sharing your view...True we must prepare ourselves to face any situations in life...yes it is our problems and we can't expect people to be there for us 24/7...you are right in saying the way we understand ourselves no one can...loved reading your thoughts...till then take care.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hello Dr Joy 😃...aww that's sweet of you ...thank you for reading and commenting dear...till then take care.

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