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Posted: 9 years ago
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Shalu is so blinded in her love for raja that she fails to even listen to what is being told to her. She literally has no one to give her a proper guidance. Viplav and dhani tried to advice her but she refuses to even listen to them.

There can be two situations where people can advise either they genuinely care for you or they simply want you to act for them and utilize them properly then dump them like what raja does to shalu. The tripathi's are literally feeding the snake with milk and expecting it not to bite them.

One must realize and analyse what are intentions behind the people and what is the reason for their advise.I agree people may hurt each other but if one keeps repeating the same thing over and over then they should be a doubt as to why one keeps repeating things. Shalu must have a small doubt at least now on raja and why dhani and raja are against her.

She is not open minded and she has burden all over her head and her mind is simply stuck to what happened in the past and she started believing that dhani is no well wisher of her.Being stuck will not get her to the truth.She needs to think in every possible way to get to the bottom of solution.

Generally biased minds favor what they prefer or like and refuse to look at the truth or something which is unfamiliar.Such is case of shalu she fears facing the truth.

Do share your views.😊

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Thoughtprovoking posts as usual...
Its kts teaching,that manipulated shalu after her fathers,death...that dhaani was a bad luck,a bad omen that her rishta with Raj had broken off n also the death of her father...Tat dislike was somewhat instilled in her mind...n now with her marriage called off..she blames dhaanifor her fate...!!Its true too many resort or take an easy route blaming others for their problems when they themselves dont see or realize they may be wrong in first place...!!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Why no comments???seriously...wats rong with the forum????
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Gud post..sochne waali baat hai...
Sum learn from experiences and sum from others experiences...
Truely shalu can't recognize d fact let her learn by own..
She shld marry raja.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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I may sound rude, but I seriously want Shalu to marry that Raja and learn the lessons of life in a hard way. She is acting like a desperate creature now a days. She does not trust her brother , but is trusting Raja. I don't understand whether she is naive or immature or selfish or incapable of accepting truths. I have no sympathy for her. Even before this Raja track came ,she knew her family was facing problem in finding a groom due to her weight. But she hardly did anything about it.
I am not saying weight is an issue...
I am trying to say is if any shortcomings in one's ownselves , starts bothering the person or the people around, then better try to overcome that shortcoming and I guess that's how one can become a better person in life. Just my view.😊
Edited by akruti20 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Seriously fuys comment it n made it pink...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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What ever be the case ...I don't want shalu to marry RA... though she is weak...I think she can't be completely blamed😊
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Shalini is too immature and because of her mother her self esteem is also very low. Hence she keeps changing sides, she took her mother's side after her father's death thinking it is due to Dhani's ill omen . Now she is infatuated with the idea that Raja loves her. But I think after listening to Dhani's pep talk a small light bulb lit up dimly in her head!!!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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The forum is,dead n silent...hmmm
Pearl its hard tp make so many posts pink today...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Shalu is in love not with raja, but with the concept of being in love, being wanted, needed, and approved of. Unknowingly, as you say, she has come into Rajas den. She knows that to make her way into Rajas life and possibly heart, she has to please him and this makes her into a mole that goes against her own benefactors. A very sad but realistically depicted situation, thanks for the lovely and insightful post dear Pearl.

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