Value what you have !!!

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Posted: 9 years ago
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In the episode sita mai has pointed and reminded the ladies a truth to value and be happy for dhani as she is going to start a new life all over agan instead of being sad over her bidai. These ladies have gone through a lot in their lives and very lucky are few among them to experience a new life.

People like kanak and DT are literally dwelling in the past and keep reminding themselves of the hatred which they bore towards dhani and they fail to recognize the danger lurking somewhere behind them in the form of raja. Had they truly valued viplav they wouldn't have to look for an outsider for comfort or advice. The very reason they are highly unhappy is because some where the name dhani the widow is involved and they fail to see what is the message being given to them.

Sometimes we get reminded of the past, may be dwell in the past that we totally forget to remember that we deserve to be happy and we need to appreciate and value our present the most. The present is what makes our future and our future self is going to thank us for valuing the present. What ever may have happened in the past can either make us stronger or weaker. But giving value for what we have with us now at present is the biggest gift we can give our selfs.

Do share your views.😊
Edited by pearl100 - 9 years ago

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Very positive post pearl...
Yes they tried to show d fact abt d widows dey r facing n very well executed by them...they r trying to teach many small lessons d fact reality of our Indian traditions d conditions of widow..a harsh reality...👏👏👏 well said..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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What a post swathi...we really forget to appreciate the present...we sometimes mourn over the past...or worried about the past...we must enjoy the present...Good one indeed👏
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Posted: 9 years ago
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As human beings, we have a tendency to either focus on the past or the present. Rarely, do people focus on and live in the present. This may be because we're all working towards achieving something in the future or perhaps reminiscing memories good or bad from the past. DT and Kanak are both stuck in their ways and thoughts because of the ideologies that've persisted for centuries. Ironically, their hatred for Dhani has a lot to do with what they had planned for Viplav's future. For them to accept Dhani wholeheartedly , they need to acknowledge Dhani's newfound marital status. They need to get over their ancient superstitions and start afresh for Viplav's sake. I liked Viplav's reply to his mother's taunt on Thursday's episode when he said that Dhani was no longer a widow.

Great post, Pearl! You bring out some good points. :)
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Thank you reathirk 😃 True the Cv's are teaching us small but significant lessons through the show especially the one we forget. It is kind of rare to learn a small lesson in tv land these days we are very lucky to watch such a beautiful serial which shows reality grounds of the victims of the society.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Thank you pearl 😃 true it is quiet dangerous to dwell in the past which will only rob our happiness from our present as well as future.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hey Dazzling ...thank you for sharing your view...For DT and kanak to change their mind set it is not that simple their ideologies have been rusted and it takes enormous efforts to bring out the changes. They simply refuse to change, they are so used to have control over people that they just can't tolerate to let viplav go out of their hands.True we strive to achieve a lot in the future and forget to live in the present moment.

Edited by pearl100 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hey pearl...nice post..
Yes, ppl less care abt their future and past and think mostly on the present..KT is a widow but still she is hating dhaani..instead she should feel happy that his son gave life to widow..


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Thank you for your reply sura😃 ...i don't expect kanak to do such a thing...widow or not kanak will never go against her wishes.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Delightful to read your insightful notions for every episode..
Very well expressed Pearl ..DT/KT should come out from their customized shell which had no value anymore..They need to apply their own vision to realize value of every relations. They never regretted for their misdeeds.Both had done numerous sins in the name of norms. At least they space up themselves to do some good deeds in future..Whatever they have done in past gonna to chase them badly leading to a feeble note..It's too late for them..These two need to undergo a major blow through outsider and there will be a repenting time to value VIPs infinite love for his family..RA is a very lesson to learn their own mistakes.

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