{ Anand Sagar's Ramayan AT #2 } - Page 104

Originally posted by: bhakti2

Oh thank you dear I will give them kisses from you!😛 (That will let me kiss them extra😳) You have such a sweet chota chota bhai! I did not know. It is so nice😛 you must be showering him all the time with love! I am glad and grateful to have your advice about the playtimes - I know you are studying such things and i want very much to do the right things for the children so they have happiness each day and strength too for hard times. It seems we cannot escape these hai na even we want to protect them. It is hard for the heart. Haan - the aunties are still here. One of them keeps hitting my face almost each day - there is a mark there But I have taken yours and Varnitas good advice and i will not keep her words in my heart and i will not think of my children as ugly. Vaise - they look much like my husband and he is very sweet looking. You say right though - I miss him so that it hurts. I do not want to tell him they are slapping me as he would feel unable to help and this would be unfair. Soon they will travel to their home again - then in my heart i will have a little party hai na?😆

You know i think it might be sounding strange to some ( but not to you dear i think) but more than anyting i find comfort for all this, for worrying on Varnitas health bhi, whenever i keep the company of Sri Ram. I feel as if i can be with him and with Sita Ma in my prayers, and it is just as they say - karunasagar - a vast ocean of mercy.

Many kisses to your sweet little brother!❤️

OMG, your aunt hits you!😲😡 If I were in your place I would slap her back, or at least threaten to report her to the domestic violence center, but I guess that has something to do with my upbringing because I've been taught never to take insults lightly, but it's different for you, right? I doubt there's a domestic violence center in India, because our culture forces us to be quiet when we're being abused. But Bhakti, now I'm worried about you.😭 If she hits too hard and the abuse becomes really bad, especially in your husband's absence, is there any place you can go until he comes back? Sometimes, being quiet and not protesting to their abuse makes them hit you more. Do you have friends living nearby where you can stay for a while until your husband returns? I really want to slap that aunt of yours right now!😡

Originally posted by: Thabs

yaar yahan jab bhi athi hun tho varni ki yaad athi hai

Originally posted by: JanakiRaghunath

OMG, your aunt hits you!😲😡 If I were in your place I would slap her back, or at least threaten to report her to the domestic violence center, but I guess that has something to do with my upbringing because I've been taught never to take insults lightly, but it's different for you, right? I doubt there's a domestic violence center in India, because our culture forces us to be quiet when we're being abused. But Bhakti, now I'm worried about you.😭 If she hits too hard and the abuse becomes really bad, especially in your husband's absence, is there any place you can go until he comes back? Sometimes, being quiet and not protesting to their abuse makes them hit you more. Do you have friends living nearby where you can stay for a while until your husband returns? I really want to slap that aunt of yours right now!😡

But take care of your children more than anything, dear. Try not to let them see you hurt, because that affects children a lot and will make them anxious for your wellbeing. Like I said, try to engage them in different activities like telling them stories, watching TV, singing songs, etc. I hope the aunties leave soon.

Originally posted by: JanakiRaghunath

I don't understand hindi Thabs.😭

Originally posted by: Piya26

she saying...whenever i come here...i miss varni a lottt

any news about her janki?

Originally posted by: bhakti2

Nahi Janaki dear please please do not be worried for me - main bilkul theek hoon haan - i could not bear it if i had given to you something more to worry for Soon this auntyji will go onward and i will breathe deep again. But i wanted to say how much i appreciate the kind things you tell me toward the children - how to keep them happy. I did not think how it would seem to Chottu if he is seeing his maa being hit. I thought he is too young to see. Maithili is so young so young you know, but I did not think that perhapsshe still would be made somehow unhappy by my tears. So you have given me strength to keep them safe and happy while my husband is not here to be strong for us. So i am thanking you for your strength that you share with me through your words.

I hope soon we will have some news of Varnita - have you been able to know anything? I feel very worried until we will know something😭

Of course I would worry about you Bhakti, as you're like a sister to me. When will the aunty leave? I will be counting the days also.

It's not at all your fault of Chhotu sees his mummy being hit. It's that evil aunty's fault.😡 She sounds just like the cruel saas of Indian television! But whenever possible try to keep Chhotu away from her. It's probably not easy since you're all living in the same flat, but children are deeply affected when they see their parents in distress. Maithili like you said is too young to understand anything, but Chhotu will understand and he may even tell his father.