why are boys so passive??

we all know there were discussions abt girls voting guys more than guys voting girls,i never thought that was true coz i believed guys do vote for girls,but today i was forced to believe that guys voted out the most talented girl of indian idol,deepali.

if girls are voting heavily for guys like chang and all,and despite of their weak performance they never step to bottom,then why can't u guys vote for girls.plz do vote for ur favorite female contestants more than u do to ur male contestants coz they need u more than boys,boys will b voted much more by girls of india and other places.plz do vote for them.