Discussion of the week-'I Love You!'

Discussion of the week- "Do things change after you say I love you to your special someone?"

In a bid to outdo other forums in terms to matter and acitivity, and to boost our own level of it, a bunch of us got together and thought of this idea. Thus presenting to you, Discussion of the week.

Every thursday activity hits rockbottom with nothing there to discuss. Thus this hopefully will help us overcome that hurdle. There are certain rules to this aspect though.

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On with This week's Discussion.

This was a monumental week as far as our very own Adi/Chandu jodi is concerned, lekin what remains to be seen is now that the two know that they have feeling deeper than liking how will that change their equation. Reverse physcology says that when you are assuared of whats going to happen, you do the exact opposite in most special circumstances. The precap showed Adi even going as far as insulting Kamini when she raise the issue of Adi Tara marriage. Loyalty and Fidelity I understand.

But, How does this sudden realisation affect Adi and Chandu. Not their own personal battles with their family, but their own personal interaction. Does saying 'I love you' change the way you look at your special someone? My friend told her bf those three words just to make her own birthday wish to him special than those of his other frnds. Does saying I love you, somehow elivate your position in the eyes of your special someone?

Give your opinion.

I hereby declare this discussion open.

as usual,nice topic riddhi....

Well yes,I do think that one does change their outlook towards the person,after the confession of love,and it does make everything abt that special someone even more special.And you think in a totally different way altogether.You wish to do something special for that person,and I think just saying "I love you" to a person,makes you special to that person.

yes I also think that things change after saying I LOVE U coz these 3 words give u strength to overcome any problem like in Adi-Chandni's case saying I LOVE U will make them confident and more focussed about their love.

good topic to discuss....these magic words have become important nowdays...just look around..you will heard from your friends, sister or anyone you know that they said these magic words to their gf, bf or their life partner....and after the magic words, they think their relationship started....

And that's exactly what happened with adi...he knew chand. loves him and but till she actually spoke the words, he tried to make her say I Love You! and as soon she said, he's ready to do anything, even he went against his brother and he's about to put sindoor...

But on other hand, just ask your grand parents, have they ever said these words to each other? i bet they'll say NO, they say they can feel the love and they dont have to express it thorough the words....

yes... things do change after u say ILU.. ppl start taking each other for granted and things arent the same as before..... though it does give the person confidence and all... but the courtship period where u are trying to know each other is more beatiful than the time after when u have said I love you...

Well I am back with my another point of view after saying I LUV U u feel ur responsibilities towards each other ,u want some more rights over each other,u always think about each other and start doing something spl for each other.In short there is a subtle but deliberate change in the behaviour towards each other.

I think things do change after saying those three magical words bt on a positive side.Confession of luv gives one a lot of confidence n strength.Like in Adi chand case now Adi ll not step bak as he knos chand also luvs him a lot.He now knos that their happiness lie in their 2gtherness.Confession of luv is very necessary to make ur relationship more beautiful. 😳 Kyunki:-


Mere haanth mein tera haanth ho
saari jaanatein mere saath hoon.
Tu jo pas ho phir kya yeh jahan
tere pyar mein ho jaaon mein faana.

😳

Originally posted by: preetijaiswal19

but the courtship period where u are trying to know each other is more beatiful than the time after when u have said I love you...

I think ur right preeti,but still,after u have said i luv u,the relationship goes to a different height,a different plane,a different level altogether.

If these 3 wordz r said genuinely,thn
ocourse life changes......i think its vry imp to spit out these 3 words at perfect time unlike chandn(still it was not too late).talking abt life after ILU thn it has to b totaly diff.partners feel more secured(specially gals ).secured in d sense both phsically n mentally.b4 thinking of ourselves we strt thinkin of the special 1 to strt wid nething(small instance-haircut..yea it happens).wid these 3 words spoken....our responsibilities,fear(hidden truth frm fly),privacy,SACRIFICES(on very small things...),emotions,Possesiveness n ofcourse LOVE increases.n v get to knw each other more..so i think life totally changes aftr the confession of love frm both d sides considering the feelings r genuine.

If these 3 wordz r said genuinely,thn
ocourse life changes......i think its vry imp to spit out these 3 words at perfect time unlike chandn(still it was not too late).talking abt life after ILU thn it has to b totaly diff.partners feel more secured(specially gals ).secured in d sense both phsically n mentally.b4 thinking of ourselves we strt thinkin of the special 1 to strt wid nething(small instance-haircut..yea it happens).wid these 3 words spoken....our responsibilities,fear(hidden truth frm fly),privacy,SACRIFICES(on very small things...),emotions,Possesiveness n ofcourse LOVE increases.n v get to knw each other more..so i think life totally changes aftr the confession of love frm both d sides considering the feelings r genuine.