Feel Pain if I hold your hand now?

Today’s episode was mind blowing and heartbreaking because each was trying to hurt the other. If you carefully listen to the words that both are saying is heartbreaking but when she was doing first aid she said that we should be holding each other hands and comforting each other he turned around and said that he was not bother if he no longer held her hand because it would remind him of the pain of losing the baby but I am ready if you want to hold my hand even after everything. How do you respond to that question because you have just lost your baby that was growing inside you, why he is saying if I hold your hand from now on it would just give and remind me of the pain of losing the baby what about the pain she is carrying.

I think she more or less did not want to see him in pain because of her that it was time to pack and leave, that what he said earlier “just bloody leave” if she no longer wants to understand him.

His words were very hash to heard, it’s like he just gave up on Imlie and want her far away.
Why is no one questioning how Imlie slip from the stairs and also why was the pram heading towards the stairs in the first place?

I hope I am making sense or did I hear wrong?

Originally posted by: screen22

Today’s episode was mind blowing and heartbreaking because each was trying to hurt the other. If you carefully listen to the words that both are saying is heartbreaking but when she was doing first aid she said that we should be holding each other hands and comforting each other he turned around and said that he was not bother if he no longer held her hand because it would remind him of the pain of losing the baby but I am ready if you want to hold my hand even after everything. How do you respond to that question because you have just lost your baby that was growing inside you, why he is saying if I hold your hand from now on it would just give and remind me of the pain of losing the baby what about the pain she is carrying.

I think she more or less did not want to see him in pain because of her that it was time to pack and leave, that what he said earlier “just bloody leave” if she no longer wants to understand him.

His words were very hash to heard, it’s like he just gave up on Imlie and want her far away.
Why is no one questioning how Imlie slip from the stairs and also why was the pram heading towards the stairs in the first place?

I hope I am making sense or did I hear wrong?

He have seen obsession, impulsive and emotional foolishness leads to her self destruction, he married her before she destroyed completely.. after Malini and gudiya entry he saw imlie was still the same. Last time he saved and this time if anything affects her it will affect her baby also.. from the day she was pregnant he was asking to take care of herself ànd baby emotionally and physically, she promised him but she hardly thought about it. She fighted with him for Cheeku on last track and after seeing gudiya she completely forgot she itself pregnant. Both lost their baby but it's affect and broke him a lot because he was telling her they would handle the situation on better way and Arylie knew Malini here for revenge from imlie hook or crook. He always supported her every time even when he knows things will go wrong but this time he lost the most whom he loved and he almost lost imlie too. Wish she values Aryan fear and pain of loosing someone. He reached his saturation point and gave up today by leaving the hands down, imlie realized on that moment what she done to him.

If she stays he will end up on hurting her badly and she will end up reminding him the pain she caused. It's good to seperate for time being and realize where they went wrong and come back together stronger. Aryan will realize but imlie?? It's depends on CVS.

Aryan's biggest fear of losing apne came true and due to his past trauma he's reacting irrationally. I feel like he pushed imlie away on purpose because he thinks whoever he loves dearly goes away from him 🥺

And yess for imlie leaving because she doesn't want to see him in pain anymore. She wanted to be his strength not reason for his pain 😭😭

Originally posted by: screen22

Today’s episode was mind blowing and heartbreaking because each was trying to hurt the other. If you carefully listen to the words that both are saying is heartbreaking but when she was doing first aid she said that we should be holding each other hands and comforting each other he turned around and said that he was not bother if he no longer held her hand because it would remind him of the pain of losing the baby but I am ready if you want to hold my hand even after everything. How do you respond to that question because you have just lost your baby that was growing inside you, why he is saying if I hold your hand from now on it would just give and remind me of the pain of losing the baby what about the pain she is carrying.

I think she more or less did not want to see him in pain because of her that it was time to pack and leave, that what he said earlier “just bloody leave” if she no longer wants to understand him.

His words were very hash to heard, it’s like he just gave up on Imlie and want her far away.
Why is no one questioning how Imlie slip from the stairs and also why was the pram heading towards the stairs in the first place?

I hope I am making sense or did I hear wrong?

@bold: u have pointed out the exact thinking of both of them today.

I had replied about the same in a different thread so copy-pasting my reply here:

Both of them were being an Ass to each other today and it was actually a 50-50 blame game, None of the 2 is actually to be blamed here it was just to accuse/hurt the other Matlab galti actual mein dono mein se kisi ki bhi nhi hai but ye zabardasti galtiyan bana rahe hai taki ek dusre ko blame kar sake. Imlie accused Aryan for not taking care of Gudiya which lead to the baby being in danger for which Imlie had to run up the stairs, OK sounds weird but valid as well. Aryan accused Imlie of running up the stairs despite his warning saying she did not trust him with Gudiya bcz the baby is AKT's child but this is valid but weird too. Why? If that was the case as Aryan thinks than Imlie would not have let him even in the periphery of Gudiya post knowing whose child is it but did Imlie do that? No right than what makes Aryan think so? Basically own insecurities and the blame game. Aryan is not able to deal with the fact that he lost yet another apne, he is in shock that the history has repeated, it is too much for him to bear that's why his entire rationality has gone down the drain proof is the Aryan-Sundar scene today. Sundar is the one stating facts to Aryan that it was an accident, it could happen to anyone, in a different situation but look at Aryan: he is blank, it's like he is not able to even hear other people now, it's all about what he has accepted in his mind and this fog inside his brain will take a lot of time to be clear.

@underline: that's bcz they are so involved in the pain and blame game now that they won't be able to have a rational thought process to think about it, they will simply separate tomorrow and the reasons will be brushed under the rug, i don't think they are going to explore this point.

Originally posted by: wasra

@bold: u have pointed out the exact thinking of both of them today.

I had replied about the same in a different thread so copy-pasting my reply here:

Both of them were being an Ass to each other today and it was actually a 50-50 blame game, None of the 2 is actually to be blamed here it was just to accuse/hurt the other Matlab galti actual mein dono mein se kisi ki bhi nhi hai but ye zabardasti galtiyan bana rahe hai taki ek dusre ko blame kar sake. Imlie accused Aryan for not taking care of Gudiya which lead to the baby being in danger for which Imlie had to run up the stairs, OK sounds weird but valid as well. Aryan accused Imlie of running up the stairs despite his warning saying she did not trust him with Gudiya bcz the baby is AKT's child but this is valid but weird too. Why? If that was the case as Aryan thinks than Imlie would not have let him even in the periphery of Gudiya post knowing whose child is it but did Imlie do that? No right than what makes Aryan think so? Basically own insecurities and the blame game. Aryan is not able to deal with the fact that he lost yet another apne, he is in shock that the history has repeated, it is too much for him to bear that's why his entire rationality has gone down the drain proof is the Aryan-Sundar scene today. Sundar is the one stating facts to Aryan that it was an accident, it could happen to anyone, in a different situation but look at Aryan: he is blank, it's like he is not able to even hear other people now, it's all about what he has accepted in his mind and this fog inside his brain will take a lot of time to be clear.

@underline: that's bcz they are so involved in the pain and blame game now that they won't be able to have a rational thought process to think about it, they will simply separate tomorrow and the reasons will be brushed under the rug, i don't think they are going to explore this point.

Both need to knock they heads together to get any sense through these thick skulls or one of them to listen and not say a word, just let the words out, at least you have a idea what the person is thinking 🤔.

Maybe he is no longer in love with Imlie words said can never be taken back so he said everything and hit a nerve, what person would stay if that person see pain when he looks at you. I don’t think I can forgive him for words said that just hit the nail in the heart.

My Hindi is not very good so sorry for not understanding, if you translate in English I will understand.

Originally posted by: screen22

Thank you for your reply

Both need to knock they heads together to get any sense through these thick skulls or one of them to listen and not say a word, just let the words out, at least you have a idea what the person is thinking 🤔.

Maybe he is no longer in love with Imlie words said can never be taken back so he said everything and hit a nerve, what person would stay if that person see pain when he looks at you. I don’t think I can forgive him for words said that just hit the nail in the heart.

My Hindi is not very good so sorry for not understanding, if you translate in English I will understand.

@bold:- these 2 are very much in love and their love has turned into complete madness in their hurt and broken promises that's why they are trying to hurt each other.

He didn't say i will see pain when i look at u but he said when u will hold my hand than that will remind me that i lost my cheeku bcz of your carelessness and impulsiveness and that will cause me pain so if u r ok with me hurting then here is my hand, hold it.

And that was the breaking point for Imlie bcz her subconscious knows that he is right she was being impulsively careless when she ran up the stairs despite his warning leading to her fall and that makes her pull away and finally she decided to separate. Also, she was scared to the core, scared of his love turning into hate if she stayed. In her conversation with Arpita she says this clearly, that he is Aryan Singh rathore his tolerance can end, his anger can end but if (stops) then has a flashback of Aryan's words of how her carelessness killed Cheeku, continues but if what i am thinking of (Aryan's love for her) ends than everything will end with it.

I don't know if u r aware of this but this is actually going like the story of Shiv-Shakti, someone on twitter even did a thread on it. But u will be able to connect to it only if u are aware of the story.

Regarding the hindi part from my previous post here is the translation:- Basically no one was at fault between Arylie but they were playing a 50-50 blame game today more likely i would say they were competing on who will hurt/break whom more reason? Broken promises & Trust. Imlie broke her promise to ASR of him not loosing any of his apne till she is alive, ASR broke his promise to Imlie of watching over Gudiya and keeping her safe ( but were these promises broken deliberately? NO yaar it was all just happening in flow basic human reactions given by both of them) but they are too hurt with each other's words and the loss of Cheeku to sit down and talk like humans so that's why separation is required.

Man i am in love with this track really, whoever wrote this won my heart.❤

Why is Aryan behaving as if Imlie cannot have a child again. She is only 20 and can have children again.

instead of supporting her in this difficult time he is blaming her…

What about Imlie’s pain both physical and mental.