I felt Aryan was frustrated and helpless. In all the time he is unable to protect his loved ones he punch the wall. Be it when weather fiasco, Madav, Jo PF. His conversation with Arpi comes to my mind all the time. How fearful of him unable to protect a loved one. He gave into Imilie a lot and have come to a saturated point. I often questioneed why Aryan gives into Imilie's obsession, stubbornness? Maybe he knows she won't stop. He is clear of boundaries still he stood by her. I think his anger isn't just about unable to protect Cheeku but I think he is fearful that he won't be able to save Imilie from Malini either. Fearful of loosing more, must be feeling a loosing battle not because of Malini but because of Imilie"s lack of partnership, her maturity , impulsive mature. After their marriage one after the other, Aryan somewhere fails to protect Imilie a lot. Be it Parindar, Madav/Jo, BD&BM. His core reason to marry her, he failed in every step according to him.
I felt what he said was in heat of the moment but that doesn't mean he is right Aryan is very calm, thoughtful and composed most of the time. Even with Madav, Akt he did weigh their side. Those people when lose their saturating point, their anger is hard to handle.
I don't support what he said. I hate it when men ask the wife to leave. Isn't that her house as well? So why should she leave? But I understand more of Aryan's POV than Imilie's. They both are wrong and that's what makes it connects to the audience. In a miscarriage or fertility issues arise, boh needs to be mature, understanding and compassionate. EW
They love each other, no doubt but they need to grow in love. Need to learn to nature their love and relationships from both ends. If you give all the time then you become empty, Aryan has done a lot to please Imilie in this track.
In my personal experience with both infertility and through critical illness. In both cases I felt my husband suffered most. I physically suffered as well as mentally but it was me but worse is seeing your loved ones suffer and you are helpless. Days I would scream in pain thinking would that bey last breath, but I can't imagine what my husband felt. He wouldn't say anything or do anything but be there numb, not knowing what to do. Today I felt that in Aryan. In regards to him blaming Imilie, my understanding is that she isn't helping him to come through it. He did support in regards to Gudiya but her nature isn't helping them and they've lost a baby.
He said it today, he was a pathar and he rather felt safe being a pathar rather than feeling. His insecurities are resurfacing. He knows it. I hope Aryan knows what he's doing but fear is the worse thing which depends the way we face it direct the outcome. The strong Aryan Sing as he said to Arpi isn't really strong. His worse fear is coming true. He rather be a stone than a human. His fear is over taking him. Fear ofnot protecting his loved ones.
They both are different personalities. Imilie lived in a village, where everyone is almost related to each other. After all the harsh words she heard, which of course hurts her, she is able to forgive and forget easily because those are the people she has to live among.
Also she's one who was willing to keep Malini thinking of the child. She didn't want the child to be illigtimate. She promised to protect or look after the child while she was married to AkT. The T family encouraged/expected this from her. For a teen, when she's praised for these things, it becomes right for them. She needs to understand she can't right all the things. She's more a socialist, it will have consequences on her family. They will face the burnt if it. World will praise her but it won't be the same for those loved ones.