Originally posted by: Shabia1
That was my first thought too.
He said leave and she'll leave? Like lady if you have that much self respect then why did you get so much abused by the Ts. Why the heck didn't you book a ticket for PD back in those days. Because nobody wouldn't have given two hoots. But now that you know there's this man who loves you so you had a sudden awakening of self respect?
Yeah. It's a blessing for her. Now nobody can blame her for leaving. And that shes free to act as a single woman she always considered herself to be. Imlie in her subconscious, is meethi wannabe. So here she is.
but aren’t we all this way in our first relationships? we start off a little lost, struggling to understand and find our way with things.
we drag our feet to end it even when we know we probably should, and keep giving it “one more” chance out of the wishful thinking that things will get better or that the other person will treat us better soon enough. first relationships somehow tend to feel like “the one”. i think subconsciously, we all try harder than we should to keep it going before finally giving up. which is why, it tends to feel like a huge blow when it fails. by the time we get to our second relationship though, we’re more learned and have more appreciation and value for ourselves. we understand the importance of recognising when it is time to let go. it becomes a little easier to stand up for ourselves the second time around. it isn’t an exclusively Imlie thing.
Edited by handlerxsaviour - 3 years ago