why is Aryan so attached to arvind ? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Wanderbug

Sorry, but I found what you wrote here very disturbing. Who are we to quantify what relations should matter how much and too whom? And how long a deep a marriage would be based on the existence/nonexistence of a child?

it looked odd coz arpi's brother was getting more traumatized while arpi herself who lost her love husband behaving normally.. I didn't know about the epis she was scared of a flame.. it is not about having a child or not, meant to guess the no of years he could have been a bil of Aryan, not about the depth of arpi-arvind relation..

Aryan has already lost his father, then Arvind came into his life who was a father figure to him, he felt close to Arvind. After Arvind's death,Narmadha and Arpi were mature enough to accept it but Aryan became mature and took responsibilities of all business only after that... it was a tough road for him as he isolated himself his friends and happiness for revenge, which states how much he values him as a person.

I don't think its at all OTT that he is traumatized to this level...

Every1 handles grief differently ....

And there is no way to measure who is more sad and who has more trauma.......how do we know arpi is not crying n bawling inside her room...she just keeps d facade of smiley face coz of her family....

Arvind was family not just a brother-in -law to Aryan.....as we have seen in flashback a father figure a friend an ally.....And their relationship doesn't seem to be just an extension of arpi....They have their own equation.

Their relationship is also not shown the way typical male bonding is shown in shows.....Yo bro high fiving doing masti...getting into shenanigans etc etc...

Arvind ties rakhi to aryan....I really liked this scene....how soft their relation is...its very rare to show two male family members in such a way usually its all male ego,MU then bharat milap wid tight mardana hug

And then whole survivor's guilt he was supposed to go n seeing ur loved one burning alive...I mean if one is not affected by this then that person is not human man!

The rain confession how sister became zinda lash , tears of ma, screams of BIL he went through all of this......The pain of 3 most imp people in his life.....There is nothing OTT abt his reaction abt arvind...

I should not compare traumas but

loosing a family member in such a gruesome way in front of ur eyes >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

And I am all for healing n all but it should be his choice not imlie mahanta ki murti's tantrum....In fact becoz she did not see his pain n was so dismissive of it was d reason I didn't have a full 100% sympathy for her during d so called forced marriage track among many other reasons...

For making peace he first needs to get closure and that can be done only wid bringing AKT to justice...

even aryan's extreme revenge firepower towards akt also looks a bit ott as it was not shown whether akt wrote those articles intentionally n Aryan knows his motive.. akt could have truly got misled too on the reality n wrote those articles or just irresponsible journalism from him without thinking of consequences, on which case like arpi n narmada asr too can accept the fate and move on rather than burning in revenge.

Originally posted by: -JaZ-

it looks so ott how Aryan gets traumatized whenever arvind matter comes up, even arpi don't feel that way.. he was after all his brother-in-law only.. must've been married for a few years only as arpi don't have a child too, yet Aryan gets so hysteric about his death🤔..

n why Aryan holds akt responsible for his death when arpi or narmada or imlie don't feel that way🤔.. are narmada n arpi hiding something from Aryan 😒

the way arvind's death has been hyped there seems to be more to it 🧐.. may be he isn't dead, in captivity somewhere which akt knows as a reporter🤔 or will return as a big villain who wanted to own rathore fortune by killing Aryan 😈 but akt will turn to be innocent then..

death is traumatic especially seeing it with your own eyes of your loved one. And then to see your sister and mother go through the trauma too.

Originally posted by: ID2011

death is traumatic especially seeing it with your own eyes of your loved one. And then to see your sister and mother go through the trauma too.

looks strange coz it seems more traumatic to Aryan than arpi herself who lost her husband who was love of her life..

Originally posted by: -JaZ-

it looks so ott how Aryan gets traumatized whenever arvind matter comes up, even arpi don't feel that way.. he was after all his brother-in-law only.. must've been married for a few years only as arpi don't have a child too, yet Aryan gets so hysteric about his death🤔..

n why Aryan holds akt responsible for his death when arpi or narmada or imlie don't feel that way🤔.. are narmada n arpi hiding something from Aryan 😒

the way arvind's death has been hyped there seems to be more to it 🧐.. may be he isn't dead, in captivity somewhere which akt knows as a reporter🤔 or will return as a big villain who wanted to own rathore fortune by killing Aryan 😈 but akt will turn to be innocent then..

@ bold - I have mentioned that possibility when they showed that flashback first time....

I was assuming arvind faked his own death for any personal reason like.. .... may be living another life with someone else with arpi money .... or that is why he married arpi... or similar.... and imli would be first to doubt it .... and uncover the whole truth with aryan help..... 😊

Probably imli will come across something in that closed room of arvind-arpi, will doubt or re-think as outsider with a new perspective - as we can not see clearly if we are too close... I meant... all rathores loved arvind.. hence never doubted any thing about arvind - Just a possiblity😊

(do not throw tomatoes please🤣 ) Just a thought crossed my mind - how if ... cause of aryan's accident is not AKT , could be something related to arvind....

... aryan show arvind on road and following him to make sure... what ever... he saw a glance of was indeed him.... and driving that recklessly 😊

Originally posted by: -JaZ-

looks strange coz it seems more traumatic to Aryan than arpi herself who lost her husband who was love of her life..

Is it also strange that I’m more traumatised by my brothers death than my parents are? Because I moved out of the house 7 years ago after marriage so technically my parents should be more traumatised 🤔 or perhaps some people are better at hiding/dealing with their pain than others?

everyone’s different at handling death and Aryan wants revenge whereas Arpita doesn’t.

In flashbacks( even though there were only two of them) it was shown clearly how deeply Aryan was attached to Arvind.

Why Arpita is not as traumatized?

While Arpita got chance to mourn her husband's death, Aryan did not. He have to become pillar for his family and got intangled in his revenge plan. He thinks it as a tragedy caused by someone else so it is all the more difficult for him.

And Arpita was also very distubed when she was initially introduced, had pyrophobia which Imlie cured magically🤢 She can't even name him without getting in tears. It is the inconsistency of writing that forgot to show more of her pain.

Narmada Arpita hiding something? Never for a moment felt that and neither it was ever implied. But its ITV, any route can be taken in future to advance storyline.

Originally posted by: A4Anjie

@ bold - I have mentioned that possibility when they showed that flashback first time....

I was assuming arvind faked his own death for any personal reason like.. .... may be living another life with someone else with arpi money .... or that is why he married arpi... or similar.... and imli would be first to doubt it .... and uncover the whole truth with aryan help..... 😊

Probably imli will come across something in that closed room of arvind-arpi, will doubt or re-think as outsider with a new perspective - as we can not see clearly if we are too close... I meant... all rathores loved arvind.. hence never doubted any thing about arvind - Just a possiblity😊

Thanks for this reply 💕