Aryan-Imlie/ AryLie Discussion Thread 9 🧿 - Page 65

love you for this one.. and i already found my sanity in the afternoon after i posted my reasoning.. this one does add more to my sanity.

Aryan - Before Imlie vs After Imlie .. is the fight.

fight within himself to get the better version out in front of her...

thanks for sharing.. ill go watch the episode again this time to enjoy the AryLie moments.. i was sulking watching it in the morning...

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https://twitter.com/oohseram2/status/1480466390817681414?t=d29XpeSAlTStJA0oaRpGYg&s=19

Originally posted by: SundariP

Arms holding scene - Alternative Perspective.

Disclaimer -

#1 This is absolutely no attempt to defend either Aryan or this scene (romanticization of this scene per se), only trying a different POV because I need this for my peace of mind. The reason, I put Aryan at some pedastal (not from day one, but slowly day by day as I see the character unfold) and in simple terms in can't handle that pedastal crumbling. Not that I think of him as some Mr. Goody-two-shoes, I know he has a grey side to him and I'm all for it. And I'm all for the rough play too (but in a sane and consensual relationship, absolutely not in abuse of power dynamics)

#2 This might refer to views of a lot of people in forum that I read today. And I'm respectful to all those views, agree with them party/fully and claim no credit for just repeating them here. But also I find them to be excuses and not explanation per se (meaning no offense to anyone at all)

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I need to rationalise this purely based on Aryan as a character that has been weaved over past 53 episodes, I can't let the burden of this pass onto others like:

#1 imlie was being annoying with her BS jaap since last few days/episodes so we can't expect him to be calm.

#2 Adi has done this/worse or other MLs in other shows are worse, sorry but ones mistake can't be justified by another person's bigger mistake

#3 he was out of character at that moment, typical gul hero, typical ITV guy explanation.

Because as ASR says, being an adult means taking responsibility of our actions rather blaming others for it.

So I watched the episode again and found this...

When imlie was spiralling downwards (for the nth time in last few days) in her worry for Aditya Kumar Tripathi, he couldn't handle it and wanted to shake her out out of it immediately - symbolising expectations that she forget her past too soon and drown in his passion (bgm - jaaniyaaaaa...)

And this I identify with the guy who ignored the fallen girl and kicked the stone out of his way, who threw water in her face, tied dupatta on her mouth - essentially this is Aryan Singh Rathore before Imlie

But when he saw her shock and tears, realised he was hurting or rather he was hurting her.... He stopped.

Instead held her hands gently and led her out slowly signifying change of approach from agressive to patient (indicated by change of song in bg) - symbolism he'll always hold back for her, try again differently and not let his expectations overpower his need to protect her.

And this I identify with the guy who supported her on the worst night of her life, who stood up to all the verbal abuse thrown at her, who went ahead making himself uncomfortable by dancing in weird clothes just to cheer her up, who picked that payal up and kept it safe by instinct - essentially this is Aryan Singh Rathore after Imlie.

Both are a side of him and signify the 2 alternative approach to this relationship going further.

And Aryan's journey will be which side he acts on what situation as this relationship progresses over time.

PS: tagging some people who are less active and i think do not visit this thread and/or were similarly disturbed by this.

Great thoughts👍🏼.

I agree. ASR is supposed to be like a Nariyal, tough exterior, and soft interior.

bye bye girls off to sleep.. badly tired today so cant be here for longer... hope to have a good day tomorrow...

https://twitter.com/HelenElesgerli/status/1480561266083385349?t=KRA8ifgSXJFS96jBitgKuQ&s=19

This was cute

Sabse bada aaj ka question yeh hain ki Aryan Singh Rathore ne khud ki taarif ki yaa phir Imlie ki? 🤔

Originally posted by: SundariP

Arms holding scene - Alternative Perspective.

- essentially this is Aryan Singh Rathore after Imlie.

I actually liked that scene..no doubt that hold was too harsh for me too.. but the change in him after seeing her tear was what I loved...

n you deciphered the scene so clearly n beautifully ♥️♥️♥️

I am not sure if this has been discussed, since everyone was busy doing the assassination of Aryan's death grip, but did anyone notice, when Imlie walks back from him after that, Aryan is one who takes steps forward and takes Imlie with him. It's like in this Control Room wala game, again they established that control will always be with Aryan in this relationship. Imlie's emotions can best her, but he won't allow that to best this relation.

Also, another is Aryan's slight smile whenever he sees Imlie smiling. Usko woh sad pasand hi nahi hai. Jab bhi her face drops, its like his heart drops along with it. Fiery, feisty, happy jungli is like his favorite, but sad Imlie, no way.

The guy is a damn teddy bear😆

Originally posted by: libran90

I am not sure if this has been discussed, since everyone was busy doing the assassination of Aryan's death grip, but did anyone notice, when Imlie walks back from him after that, Aryan is one who takes steps forward and takes Imlie with him. It's like in this Control Room wala game, again they established that control will always be with Aryan in this relationship. Imlie's emotions can best her, but he won't allow that to best this relation.

Also, another is Aryan's slight smile whenever he sees Imlie smiling. Usko woh sad pasand hi nahi hai. Jab bhi her face drops, its like his heart drops along with it. Fiery, feisty, happy jungli is like his favorite, but sad Imlie, no way.

The guy is a damn teddy bear😆

Yup noticed everything (as I watched twice)... But too tired to make gushing post today which I mentioned earlier.... I had a long working day and a bad day on many accounts so skipped 😆

Also, I loved that little exchange in their conversation where he says:

Main tumhe sirf kaam ke waqt par kaam karne ke liye kehta hoon, aur waqt par nahi. (So Mr. Rathore telling us he doesn’t believe in all work and no play.😆)

And she goes,

Khud 24 ghante kaam karat hain, ABP kahin ke! (Our little lady has a problem with him working 24x7. )

And he quickly responds,

Woh toh meri marzi hain, right? Tumhe woh banne ke liye nahi kehta jo tum nahi ho... (This made me go all awwww. )

Gushing too late in the day but I really loved this scene a little too much! 🤣