Originally posted by: RaitaPhailGaya1
idk where you saw blaming one perrson but anyway .. who is saying imlie hasn't suffered?? but That doesn't justify her flips.. i mean what did she got today with ehr random flip ke ab adi chahiye usse and pehle woh kadam uthayegi hain?? as if she hasn't been screaming about vishwaas being broken what made her vishwaas be Not broken any moree and what happened to self respect jiske bhashan de rahi thi ab suddenly no Self respect yeah caz we have to set contrivedness.. of look how sad adi gave the papers which weren't actually given by him is a misunderstadning but PHir bhi usss MU ke liye bhi adi zimemdar hain when both are victims great.. and About class it takes a lot to se all that and still not do mudslinign or characterassinate... yeah BF bola in flow soo as if imlie did not say Malini is his lover afetr rape.. they sayu these things out of hurt in flow and they both do not register it caz they do not matter what mattered and was highlighted was the pain of breaking far from each other on BOTH ENDS.. but sure keep bashing adi
nobody is saying one is to be blamed but it is Only fair to call out the galti of imlie too which she made plenty esp in this scenario..
Imlie always wanted Aditya. Upcoming Anniversary made her miss him more and pushed her to give it a try. Isn't Imlie always like this. It was a phase, and eventually couples after fights cool down and patch up, that doesn't mean they are flipping or lost their self respect.
I never denied Imlie's mistakes, but also she is the one suffered more here in this case. When Ts used to trash her, Aditya had the most passive attitude, he did dismissed her many concerns and warnings as 'chhoti si baat' while Imlie has always been more proactive in their relationship as long as they were together, even going against her own family,but didn't let them character assassinate Aditya, like it happened with Imlie so many times.
I don't think during their recent fights, Imlie ever called Malini Aditya's lover, she always said that you trust her more than me, which Aditya somewhere did. Calling Rathore her boyfriend was low blow, but I understood it was done in hurt.
So bottomline is Aditya's capacity of bearing hurt and pain is relatively low as compared to Imlie. Nothing wrong in it, but expecting Imlie to tolerate DD is unfair. Aditya might be a victim, but does he consider himself as one? He even lets AC readily saunter in his home who apparently is the real culprit, like whatever happened doesn't matter to him.
Imlie has been fighting for their relationship for long time and dealing with insecurities, while Aditya gave up at first sign of insecurity. I never bashed Aditya because I never expected perfection from him, but respond to the ones nit picking on Imlie.
Imlie sure has made many mistakes, but in this scenario specially ,her anger and hurt on Aditya was justified.
Imlie and Aditya both were ignorant fools today buying divorce MU created by cheap DD. As you are saying didnt Imlie saw Adi's sad eyes, didn't Aditya saw her wearing her wedding saree?