Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli
Which is then funny caz one upon a time this guy got mad at imlie ke humne bas izzat kamayi hai and uspe daag na lageš¤£š¤£ khudhi bhool gaya ke izzat ki value kya thi iske liye.. woh imlie ab bhi isko yehi bol rahi hai ki izzat ki kadar kar but yeh ab duniya se bekhabar sanyaas leke bhaithe hain for his ratta hua sorries. Tragedy is inlie ki izzat pe bhi daag aa raha hai iss mess se but yeh samjhna hi nahi chahta as imlie said ke agar samjhna chaho toh it is a very easy problem and solution but you just aren't ready for it and woh jaan bhujh ke akkad ke rehne wale ko nahi samjha sakti jo samjhne ki koshsish bhi na karma chahta ho and would be on some ego trip of sorts
@bold: Yes, he is not in the frame of mind to understand right now. Yeh apne time se hi samjhega jab samajhna hoga. Aise hote hain kuch log jinko jitna marzi samjha lo, they will only understand when they want to.....usse pehle nahin budge karega chattaan.
As I was saying some days back, it will likely come down to a moment when he will have to make a clear choice about who to trust - tab ho jaayegi sudden epiphany about what was so obvious all along and jo isko Imlie saamne se directly bolti rahi but he didn't listen/understand.
Some truths are too horrifying to process and it's a self-defense mechanism to try and stick to the portions you feel your mind can handle.....Adi seems to be going that route vis a vis this truth....he can still handle the "nanhi jaan" truth more than the truth of M having drugged, then raped him and the baby being a result of that rape.
As for izzat ki value....lol woh toh convenience ke hisaab se aati jaati rehti hai Aditya babu ke liye....kabhi inke liye naukri sab kuch hoti hai, kabhi inko naukri waapis nahin chahiye and he'd rather sit and be Imlie ka tutor, ab now he's like doesn't matter if people think I have two wives at home - bas aise hi chalaa lenge indefinitely š¤
But ek theme consistent hai off late....Adi's tendency to want to give up in the face of any setback.....court case karna hi nahin chahta tha, then he didn't even want to make any effort to get his job back....then he didn't even make any effort to get Imlie's college reinstatement done.....bas yeh kidnapping ke liye kar liya effort but other than that his overall attitude is "jo ho gaya so ho gaya, ab kya farak padta hai"š¤
If this is makers ka attempt at role reversal ki pehle Imlie always wanted to keep pulling her hand back when Adi was fighting for their relationship/wanting to reveal the truth of their marriage and now Adi is pulling back from showing that trust in Imlie or doing anything to really get her her haq, even then it's a poorly done parallel.....Imlie's phase of being hesitant to reveal the truth/supporting Adi in revealing the truth didn't involve such a direct lack of vishwaas.....us phase mein phir bhi vishwaas tha even if she disagreed with his stance of telling the truth to everyone cuz she felt they'll be hurt. Jabki whatever Adi is doing right now is making him look like he doesn't even care anymore if he's lost that vishwaas, bas kisi tarhaan chalaate raho kaise bhi regardlessš. And the stakes are so much worse now with this rape baby angle....so yeah, if the makers think this is some role reversal, that's not flying either.
Edited by AreYaar - 4 years ago