Another perspective - A few questions for Imlie

Hi everyone! Don't get me wrong, I love Imlie, and I think Malini is so ghatiya she cannot be redeemed in any way. But I have a few questions for Imli.

1) I love the message being given in the show; men can be victims of SA too. But my question is, is it not the victim's prerogative as to whether he wants to file the case in court or not? Because he is the one with the greatest trauma. It is not Imlie's right to make that decision for him right?

2. Definitely, Malini should go to jail for her heinous act. But if Imlie truly believes in justice then why doesn't she fight for justice for Adi against Satyakam? And by her logic, Adi did do an immense wrong with Malini by marrying her; he should be in jail too. I am not bashing Imlie; I also know for a fact that all human beings including me have a propsensity to protect our loved ones even at the expense of our integrity. But Imlie's constant jaap of "Sita mayya" and all that, does she have the moral high-ground to do that? Isn't she a hypocrite too?

With my limited knowledge of the law.

1) if a sexual crime occurs, police find out about it, then the police can take a case whether the victim wants to file a case or not. If someone is aware of a sexual crime that occurred, then they are legally obligated to inform the police about it. It is a traumatic experience and because of that The victim’s name is hidden from media and public, and they mostly give in camera statement and the police go to their home and take the statement according to the convenience of the victim, but the police are legally bound to file FIR if such a crime occurs whether the victim wants to file a case or not.

2) Imlie is all for punishing SK for shooting Adi, all she wants is that Malini who is the real cause behind this to be also held accountable along with SK. She hid SK cause she knows if SK is arrested without Malini’s crime being exposed then Malini would go scot free. I agree with Adi here that Imlie need to find proof before she can get Malini arrested.

Adi is a bigamist and Imlie was his partner in crime when he married Malini. It is the truth. That is why, Imlie and Adi had suffered a lot for Malini, all that was because of their guilt for hiding their one truth.

Malini was a victim then, now, she is not, she has committed far worse crimes than bigamy and has gone scot free for all of them till now. While Adi and Imlie, no matter whose crime it is, they were always pushed to the corner and accused because of the bigamy and hiding their marriage

1. I think Adi can withdraw this case because it's related with him but in his subconscious he knew very well Imlie is right so he is somewhat ok with it. He told without proof imlie can't file FIR. But I think imlie soon will find some proof. He didn't remember what happened in that night. Whatever he is telling because of guilt. I think in real life they will take blood samples because both claimed they were not in their senses. They will send the clothes to forensic examination. Then some medical examination also will happen. But we can't expect these scenes from ITV.

2. imlie clearly told Adi that if Sk goes jail, malini also will go to jail. Because she was wrong. Imlie told that she will tell SK's hiding place if malini goes to jail.

I agree that Adi did bigamy and imlie supported him in his decision. That time Adi clearly told he want to live with Malini so Imlie didn't stop that marriage. But they suffered more for this one crime. Even Adi would have gone to jail if malini had filed a bigamy case. Last week also he was ready to go to jail because he thought he did wrong with Imlie. So I don't think imlie is hypocrite. Malini was victim when the truth was not told but after that she is not a victim anymore.

Originally posted by: Book-Worm

Malini was victim when the truth was not told but after that she is not a victim anymore.

Here also he tell her truth ots her incapability to.listen truth what he can do more for that.

Originally posted by: pink_doughnut

Hi everyone! Don't get me wrong, I love Imlie, and I think Malini is so ghatiya she cannot be redeemed in any way. But I have a few questions for Imli.

1) I love the message being given in the show; men can be victims of SA too. But my question is, is it not the victim's prerogative as to whether he wants to file the case in court or not? Because he is the one with the greatest trauma. It is not Imlie's right to make that decision for him right?

2. Definitely, Malini should go to jail for her heinous act. But if Imlie truly believes in justice then why doesn't she fight for justice for Adi against Satyakam? And by her logic, Adi did do an immense wrong with Malini by marrying her; he should be in jail too. I am not bashing Imlie; I also know for a fact that all human beings including me have a propsensity to protect our loved ones even at the expense of our integrity. But Imlie's constant jaap of "Sita mayya" and all that, does she have the moral high-ground to do that? Isn't she a hypocrite too?

As for adilie so what if they suffered but they have to face the law and face punishment legally along with malini

Originally posted by: pink_doughnut

Hi everyone! Don't get me wrong, I love Imlie, and I think Malini is so ghatiya she cannot be redeemed in any way. But I have a few questions for Imli.

1) I love the message being given in the show; men can be victims of SA too. But my question is, is it not the victim's prerogative as to whether he wants to file the case in court or not? Because he is the one with the greatest trauma. It is not Imlie's right to make that decision for him right?

2. Definitely, Malini should go to jail for her heinous act. But if Imlie truly believes in justice then why doesn't she fight for justice for Adi against Satyakam? And by her logic, Adi did do an immense wrong with Malini by marrying her; he should be in jail too. I am not bashing Imlie; I also know for a fact that all human beings including me have a propsensity to protect our loved ones even at the expense of our integrity. But Imlie's constant jaap of "Sita mayya" and all that, does she have the moral high-ground to do that? Isn't she a hypocrite too?

@bold: No, her logic in the current case is with regards to violating consent. Adi married Malini with everyone's consent involved - his, Malini's and Imlie's. So that is a seperate matter. What Imlie is fighting for here is the violation of someone's consent - man or woman.

I didn't get the sense that Imlie is claiming moral high ground over all crimes.....and she has stated clearly that she is ready to see SK punished for trying to kill Adi too. But Malini's crimes have become so HUGE that they have taken priority in Imlie's mind for now to bring this all to justice.

Imlie's jaap of Sita Maiyya is only because that is her baseline for all references in her life....the core of her belief system....she is not trying to prove herself superior through that....she is simply stating her belief system via examples of Sita Maiyya. It's hard to see any other person's mild hypocrisy now in the face of Malini's unbearably gargantuan levels of hypocrisy and delusions.

As for filing the case, I guess they are taking leeway to show that she has to fight the case since Adi is feeling so dejected in his self-loathing that she has to step up for him.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: No, her logic in the current case is with regards to violating consent. Adi married Malini with everyone's consent involved - his, Malini's and Imlie's. So that is a seperate matter. What Imlie is fighting for here is the violation of someone's consent - man or woman.

I didn't get the sense that Imlie is claiming moral high ground over all crimes.....and she has stated clearly that she is ready to see SK punished for trying to kill Adi too. But Malini's crimes have become so HUGE that they have taken priority in Imlie's mind for now to bring this all to justice.

Imlie's jaap of Sita Maiyya is only because that is her baseline for all references in her life....the core of her belief system....she is not trying to prove herself superior through that....she is simply stating her belief system via examples of Sita Maiyya. It's hard to see any other person's mild hypocrisy now in the face of Malini's unbearably gargantuan levels of hypocrisy and delusions.

As for filing the case, I guess they are taking leeway to show that she has to fight the case since Adi is feeling so dejected in his self-loathing that she has to step up for him.

Originally posted by: Book-Worm

1. I think Adi can withdraw this case because it's related with him but in his subconscious he knew very well Imlie is right so he is somewhat ok with it. He told without proof imlie can't file FIR. But I think imlie soon will find some proof. He didn't remember what happened in that night. Whatever he is telling because of guilt. I think in real life they will take blood samples because both claimed they were not in their senses. They will send the clothes to forensic examination. Then some medical examination also will happen. But we can't expect these scenes from ITV.

2. imlie clearly told Adi that if Sk goes jail, malini also will go to jail. Because she was wrong. Imlie told that she will tell SK's hiding place if malini goes to jail.

I agree that Adi did bigamy and imlie supported him in his decision. That time Adi clearly told he want to live with Malini so Imlie didn't stop that marriage. But they suffered more for this one crime. Even Adi would have gone to jail if malini had filed a bigamy case. Last week also he was ready to go to jail because he thought he did wrong with Imlie. So I don't think imlie is hypocrite. Malini was victim when the truth was not told but after that she is not a victim anymore.

@ bold

Just asking with my really limited knowledge of the law 😕

Is an instigator for a crime convicted ever? Since Malini did not pull the trigger directly

Is it a punishable offense ?
I have no idea about the sections etc etc of the law 😒

Originally posted by: Book-Worm

1. I think Adi can withdraw this case because it's related with him but in his subconscious he knew very well Imlie is right so he is somewhat ok with it. He told without proof imlie can't file FIR. But I think imlie soon will find some proof. He didn't remember what happened in that night. Whatever he is telling because of guilt. I think in real life they will take blood samples because both claimed they were not in their senses. They will send the clothes to forensic examination. Then some medical examination also will happen. But we can't expect these scenes from ITV.

2. imlie clearly told Adi that if Sk goes jail, malini also will go to jail. Because she was wrong. Imlie told that she will tell SK's hiding place if malini goes to jail.

I agree that Adi did bigamy and imlie supported him in his decision. That time Adi clearly told he want to live with Malini so Imlie didn't stop that marriage. But they suffered more for this one crime. Even Adi would have gone to jail if malini had filed a bigamy case. Last week also he was ready to go to jail because he thought he did wrong with Imlie. So I don't think imlie is hypocrite. Malini was victim when the truth was not told but after that she is not a victim anymore.

Imlie blaming mostly Malini in SK's crime is the most pathetic excuse I have ever seen. First of all, this wasn't SK's first attempt at killing Adi. Where was Imlie's "Insaaf" when he tried to bury Adi alive? No one instigated him then right? and Secondly, I am not trying to defend Malini's action but all Malini said to SK is that Adi considers her as a wife and not imlie. Where in this little statement did she instigate or intend SK to kill Adi? Stop making stupid excuses for a pathetic character. Additionally, Imlie needs to fight her village people before trying to drag Malini to court. The hypocrisy is clearly visible. It's just some people purposely choosing to ignore it.

Originally posted by: brat2008

@ bold

Just asking with my really limited knowledge of the law 😕

Is an instigator for a crime convicted ever? Since Malini did not pull the trigger directly

Is it a punishable offense ?
I have no idea about the sections etc etc of the law 😒

Ditto, ditto, I am wondering about this too, my friend😳 Same with limited knowledge about the law. Just enough common sense not to get into trouble🤔

Didn't Imli let Satyakaam who calls himself an activist get away with attempted murder? Woh aparaadh nahin hain? That Imlie who fights for everybody's just life, is now partial to her dad and calls it a misunderstanding? Even then, she kept harping Malini incited the bechara Satyakaam to pull the trigger? How the hell does she know that? A call came from T residence. Was there a recording of the voice and forensic analysis? There are many women in T residence, how do you zero in on Malini?

I still don't understand how this is about social justice. Malini is supposedly drugged too along with the Adi guy. Other than taunting Imlie that she did the needful, she didn't admit that she "molested" Adi guy in front of anybody. So, how did they come up with the allegation that " Malini drugged and molested Adi guy". Even the lawyer guy is chanting this. Did they do a drug screen on both and find out that Malini didn't have any drugs and Adi guy did? As of now, going by what is known (both of them being drugged and doing hte deed ), at best it can be termed as an accident, how is it that the guy became the victim and the girl is the culprit in the eyes of the law? How did they bring this allegation on a hunch from Imlie? Based on this hunch, a supposedly gaon wali ladki ( I am not using this in a derogatory sense, but giving the context ) orders the police guys to arrest a person and they arrest her? Somebody who has connections with the central minister? Chalo jee, I salute the police guys here. And suddenly dhoka, aparaadh and more buzz words are being used? May be now a video will appear or fingerprints on the bottle with whatever drug, GHB or whatever it is, will be sensationally presented by Imlie

How is that burnt saree evidence of this far-fetched story? Let us just say that I hate my neighbor and I accuse him of coming in and destroying my back yard, because he has access to it and that one of the pine cones is found in his premises. Can I order his arrest? And say I will gather proofs at a later date, just the lock the guy up for now? 😡If people can accuse and get other people arrested on a hunch or because you don't like their face , who can live freely in this world? Is the law and order so weak that you can use it as a tool to avenge your enemies? 🤬Where is this law?😡

That KC guy has his own axe to grind. I know that this show will completely decimate Malini and her character and burn her down to the ashes. It is very sad to see this, this is obviously not justice in real life, but that written by the Gods of the show, the writers