Imlie fights for Adi's honor once again

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Today was the official start of a new battle for Imlie.....the battle for Adi's honor and respect.


If we think about it, she's fought this battle many times before in different ways. From the very beginning, she has sacrificed her everything to safeguard his respect, spare his pride. That fated day in PD, she agreed to marry him to save his life and his honor even when he was telling her to let him die😆......then she agreed to let herself be labeled a maid simply to spare his pride from answering uncomfortable questions about being forced into marriage.


And today, Imlie stands fierce again....this time to fight for his character and honor, even when he doesn't want to take a stand for himself yet again😆.....even when he is willing to take the fall for something he's not even sure he did.


It is a tricky issue they are unfolding. Much as I find Adi's obliviousness and defense of Malini irritating, we got some glimpses of his internal torment in the last scene when he spoke to KC. This is about SHAME again. Adi is feeling ashamed about this entire situation and he doesn't want to face it. This is a bit similar to the shame and helplessness he experienced when he was forced into marriage at gunpoint....it was a big hit to his pride as a man and he cowered from facing it. Today, it is a different kind of hit to his pride....an accusation that a woman may have forced herself upon him without his consent....it is a huge trauma for him to process. That is why he is trying to cower from it again....especially because it is mixed in with the shame that whatever happened means he may have betrayed Imlie and he is filled with self-loathing about that.....all these emotions swirling inside him, he just doesn't want to face. That is why he is just trying to run away from having to face it....cuz facing it would make it real. He would rather just fold and take all blame upon himself blindly cuz he doesn't even want justice....he just wants to retreat into his shell of self-loathing.....sigh.


This is why it falls upon Imlie to save him from himself yet again.....she was just so awesome to behold today👏. And again, the praise is not because she is doing some grand mahaanta of saving her pati....no, I just loved the bluntness with which she said that it's about justice, period.....that if Adi had been the one to commit this crime against Malini, she'd have gotten HIM thrown in jail too😆....that's how clear headed she is despite Adi thinking she was doing favoritism in rishte😛. She is totally upfront about the fact that she refuses to accept a crime either way...whether it's from a man or a woman. People find it easy to believe that such things can only happen with a woman...but she will prove that women can also commit such crimes against men. And I also loved the way she was like I don't need you with me to fight this battle....main akeli hi kaafi hoon👏....again what a solid contrast....this girl has always been self-sufficient and never needed anyone as a crutch - not even the Babusahib she loves immensely😆.....usse bhi lad legi usi ki khaatir😆.


Overall, the rest of the characters are continuing to downplay the issue by claiming that it's not possible for a woman to force herself on a man and Malini's lawyer is confident that no man will even admit in a court that such a thing happened to him cuz he would be too ashamed....that is what they are counting on to win this case. Meanwhile the Ts ofcourse are still in their lala land that supposedly AM are still husband-wife so everything inside a closed room must be mutual...waah ji🤔. Shockingly, Dev was the only one today to raise the point that AM are only married on paper and Adi doesn't consider her his wife so how should they believe his marzi was involved in whatever happened? Malini deflected the question as usual by guilt tripping him that you are my father and how can you ask me this.....lol she's covering up as usual.


KC got a hero's entry today😆....yeah we should all conveniently forget that this guy only covered up the divorce pausing before which allowed Malini to escalate things to this point....but whatever. He was brought in to make a case for this case and the issue of consent.....lol but jaise bhi ho, good that Imlie atleast has a lawyer to fight her case....Malini clearly didn't like one of her toys stepping out of line against her.....lol jaayegi isko bhi manipulate karne baad mein. Mercifully, Malini has left T house for now....so we get a couple of days of reprieve of her atleast not staying there.


End mein Mithi raised the valid point that KC likes Malini so how can Imlie be sure he will be able to fight a case against Malini? 😆.....


Precap is just more build up for the court case.....lol...maybe a few days will have passed by then.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Thanks for the Analysis AY and loved reading it.


If we think about it, she's fought this battle many times before in different ways. From the very beginning, she has sacrificed her everything to safeguard his respect, spare his pride. That fated day in PD, she agreed to marry him to save his life and his honor even when he was telling her to let him diesmiley36......then she agreed to let herself be labeled a maid simply to spare his pride from answering uncomfortable questions about being forced into marriage.

And today, Imlie stands fierce again....this time to fight for his character and honor, even when he doesn't want to take a stand for himself yet againsmiley36.....even when he is willing to take the fall for something he's not even sure he did.


The namesake after which this serial is named has begun her fight and in discovering her own strengths and carving her own identity without the worldly trappings of a name.

She consented & sacrificed to the marriage in PD to save his life putting her dreams on hold. Implicit consent to be the maid at the household of her husband.

I loved the fact that she was able to stand up to him and not budge from her stance. All those who were wanting to see Imlie retort, here we have her. She is still being respectful to her sasural though they don't deserve it from her, but she is fulfilling her role as bahu admirably.

How well she knows Adi, knows and understands that he is too traumatized to fight, so she is shouldering the burden of fighting for his Honor and Respect.

You have highlighted Adi's plight very well below. 👍🏼 Think the fact that he betrayed Imlie is playing constantly in his mind, mixed with self loathing and Dd's push to reconcile is making him run from the truth. It is much much harder to process that he is a victim and how did he let that happen to him, let things get to that stage.. when a person is conned, taken advantage of, the how could you fall for that haunts the person for a good number of days.. and that is exactly what Adi is going through. He can't express his disgust at himself to the family or even Imlie right now, but his eyes speaks a thousand words. His family cannot even process that he maybe a victim in this.. refusing to see what is unfolding in front of them.

I dont think many get that he is playing the vicitim so well, so in tune with his core ckt that it maybe overlooked and assumed to be something else. He has faced and seen the realities of trying to get a good expose printed whereas Imlie is too idealistic and naive. Something tells me she is will emerge victorious in this endeavour, clear his name, restore his dignity n respect back.


This is about SHAME again. Adi is feeling ashamed about this entire situation and he doesn't want to face it. This is a bit similar to the shame and helplessness he experienced when he was forced into marriage at gunpoint....it was a big hit to his pride as a man and he cowered from facing it. Today, it is a different kind of hit to his pride.... an accusation that a woman may have forced herself upon him without his consent....it is a huge trauma for him to process. That is why he is trying to cower from it again....especially because it is mixed in with the shame that whatever happened means he may have betrayed Imlie and he is filled with self-loathing about that.....all these emotions swirling inside him, he just doesn't want to face. That is why he is just trying to run away from having to face it....cuz facing it would make it real. He would rather just fold and take all blame upon himself blindly cuz he doesn't even want justice....he just wants to retreat into his shell of self-loathing.....sigh.


Dev asking some pertinent questions as he knows what M is capable of, but then brushed under the rug by M. The look of fear on both maa beti was a treat to see. Guess we will have the mahila mandali scene on Adi outside the courthouse. If the court case proceeds at jet speed, then it has be the fastest case in history to be resolved 😆.. considering the real backlog of cases in India. Hope Meethi is here at the T house to stay.

Edited by nim_var - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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This ghoncho nain kya karoon iska 🤣 SMH.. bhagwaan kisi ko itna chivalrous na banaye.. it is just amazing ke sab jaante huye bhi he is like zinmedari hum hi utha lenge akele ..kyon 🤣 inlie isko ek chaanta laga hi de.



But the embarrassment and self loathing it too much for hi right now senses main hi nahi hai and aayega bhi nahi . They will keep him bechara dukhiyara but I I glad atleast he ain't putting blind defenses..toz rox more ho token hote jaa rahe hain


And also happy none if them asked to.keep the kalini home just yet small mercies ...


Baaki ke saath aawat hain

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I'm getting the feeling that this entire track has been set up to wash away Adi's sin of bigamy😆......how can you still blame him for that when he is being shown willing to destroy his own honor and reputation to save that of the woman who may have forced herself upon him?


This is why they are showing Imlie fighting this battle....because if Adi had done it for himself, he would again be blamed for "hurting" Malini....but this time he literally is willing to destroy himself to save the honor of a woman who doesn't even deserve it😆.


Simultaneously, this is a setup to tear down the false Devi image that has been painstakingly built up all this while jiske dum pe bahut victim playing kar li about 7 saal ka rishta and Adi having married her......now that same woman is going out of her way to destroy Adi's reputation, smear his character, mentally/emotionally torture him.....all simply to acquire him by force.


So the black and white becomes very clear in this case😆.....ofcourse, those who want to cling to delusions will still continue to do so....but the average audience will finally be able to overcome the resentment against Adi for committing bigamy cuz he will be made next level laachaar victim in this situation....and a victim who is still willing to defend the very person who has violated him. Uske baad ispe taras nahin aayega toh aur kya aayega😆.


And side pe Imlie will continue the fight for justice to hold Malini accountable so that the crime itself is also not shunted to the side either....lol...btw I'm loving how Imlie is not reacting to people randomly telling her ki behen pe case kaise kar diya....she's all like jurm ki sazaa dilvaaungi, bas😆

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I think we need one scene of Adi where he explains what he is feeling to Imlie at least. This would help the audience to understand his stance whether right or wrong & even sympathise with it. Because currently most of the audience is just seeing it as him supporting his gehri dost against his wife rather than the emotional trauma & shame that he is going through. The makers have arrived at this point in such a way that audience naturally take it as a part of sautan drama rather than see it as a serious abuse that Adi has gone through.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Lodestar

I think we need one scene of Adi where he explains what he is feeling to Imlie at least. This would help the audience to understand his stance whether right or wrong & even sympathise with it. Because currently most of the audience is just seeing it as him supporting his gehri dost against his wife rather than the emotional trauma & shame that he is going through. The makers have arrived at this point in such a way that audience naturally take it as a part of sautan drama rather than see it as a serious abuse that Adi has gone through.


LOL arey he did explain it today....Imlie was right there when he told KC what he's feeling😆.....tum WU bhi dhyaan se nahin padhti kya, Lodestar?😛


And baaki logon ka I can't say what selective watching/hearing is going on....but I think that scene made it pretty obvious that Adi is grappling with a heavy sense of shame and self-loathing....this isn't about him supporting Malini over Imlie....this is about him just wanting to fold into himself and not face this situation at all.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I totally and completely agree this is the 2nd time he has to take a sit through a direct hit at his pride..it is not the fact ke galat hua ke nahi but first and foremost agar hua bhi toh he has been involved even in nasha..his point is clear ke agar galat hai toh gaalti toh maine bhi ki and woh kaise ho gayi..he is as usual going back to his core deny suppress but not address caz it is too real then he will have to deal.with the consequences and that he couldn't. This guy is having trouble even looking at imlie too.. he cannot even be like nahi hai woh galat..he cut off in mid and gave up but the point was conveyed he doesn't think imlie is galat heck he supports her but he doesn't want the matter to be brought out caz that would be too embarrassing for him and make him more and more accountable more towards imlie. Isko farak nahi padta isko use kar lia iska main problem is he without his consent became part of an activity where she got cheated.. that hurt is what is killing him


It is for everyone to see the way he cringes the way he bends his head the way he walks away all broken or tries to ,the way still imlie ke liye makes him stop and turn.. and be like nahi Humm.. then his nazrein churana and becahrgi ke humein kuch samjh hi nahi aa raha ..what else do I say..he doesn't care kisne kya kia kaise kia his issue is sabse bada gunnah humse hua humne apni patni ko dhoka de dia without our marzi that is eating him inside..even if the very patni is saying ke nahi you have been abused..chin up..recountinng all that is too much trauma and he just cannot repeat it all either caz that would freshen up this wound ke isse galti ho gayi with imlie's matter.. he just ain't able to even say it so he is like galati ho gayi ab let it be and hum kuch samjh hi nahi paa rahe humein yaad hi nahi and leaves and avoids and you see imlie shaking her head ke kaise samjhahein she doesn't think he is guilty either


I loved her hum akele hi ladh liye hain saza bhi dilwa liye hain and do not keep any galatfehmi it is not about you or anything it is about truth plain and simple and justice. She has been saying it repeatedly she wouldn't let his maan be down for whatever reason esp if he isn't the guilty party.. I did not even see adi ke token aap maaf kar dein main emotion it was hadh level of formality ke ok jail gayi toh gayi..again notice none of them not even adi tried to get her free usne bas imlie ko bola she refused and he went in.. leaving imlie to deal with it leaving it on her judgement. So the question of assuming she is wrong is non existent..his sadma remains ke it is too complicated and too shameful for him to be victim


Again people may fixate on his token sorry to Malini but plz make a note he said raat hi gaalt thi dono galat thay..plz take a note of his reaction that his patni is still imlie and that is what is hard for him to deal.with and that when his fam gives him gyaan over pati patni ke beech ki baat he went the heck.are you talking about expressions.. woh alag baat hai ke at this moment this guy is in no.position to.put his case up or object vocally due to him.feeling guilty kis muh se object bhi kare..iske liye lifeline has been ke iski imlie iske paas hai. And he doesn't want her to get involved in all court kacheri.. I would take it as means of protecting her hi these matters are too complicated and daag imlie pe bhi lagega.. hence his please humare liye Matt karo I know you want to protect me but let it be jaane do and her nah nah Don't be mistaken I would stand for truth doesn't matter if it is you are someone else even you would be going to jail if you mess up and do some crime..


This is simple about justice not haar jeet as she told KC again..mushkil hai impossible nahi..I related so hard with imlie ka.loud sigh at KC saying even adi has backed off like she knows this is gonna be tougher then she thought but she has to buckle up.. she is one woman army here and she has to not only fight for him but get him out of it too this self loathing as he didn't do anything plain and simple..and he won't get it on her word caz he thinks she is being picky and because she loves him she wants him to feel.alright and ok and it is her love not letting her see ke he is culprit and isko bachana hai when nah adi you are really not culprit.


This is the man who has dealt with this ilzam before and the consequence of it being traumatized into the wedding and it took him forever to accept it he made so many mistakes in that time ..and ab phir se and this time he is being told he has been raped yeah idk what else can he do right now..he is extremely extremely vulnerable and didi will take advantage of that..


There is no way he is blaming imlie in any of that for anything it is a complex ek dusre ko bachao and inka pyaar ek dusre ke liye ke khud toh aag ke darya main uttar jao but dusre pe aanch na aaye kaise bhi


Kc was awesome for a change to the point 🤣 hahab at his main jaanta hoon isi liye am fighting you stay quiete 🤣


Baaki they are raising a public service message everybody thinking adi cannot testify I say imlie would make him agree and then didi will throw the pregnancy card to stop him... they are all so sure ke imlie ka case hi nahi hai caz adi won't admit it.


It was fun seeing a dari didi though..


Lol at DC saying some truths about kaunsi biwi though it is hilarious he doesn't feel like giving adi vital information like malini halted the divorce rofl


Izzat izzat karne wali didi khud molestar hain and phir bhi akkad dekho Inki she did admit she did it kinda to desai but because adi won't say it she is masoom lol

Edited by naadanmasakalli - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Lodestar

I think we need one scene of Adi where he explains what he is feeling to Imlie at least. This would help the audience to understand his stance whether right or wrong & even sympathise with it. Because currently most of the audience is just seeing it as him supporting his gehri dost against his wife rather than the emotional trauma & shame that he is going through. The makers have arrived at this point in such a way that audience naturally take it as a part of sautan drama rather than see it as a serious abuse that Adi has gone through.


Lmao again jin logon ko sorf words sunanae hain unka kya kahein GM has been bringing such nuance and playing it with utmost perfection one can clearly see his dilemmas. Not once has he actually DEFENDED the didi but ok if people want to blame it with his I am sorry you had to go.to jailmin the most token manner


Guess it is easier to forget and hear his you do understand imlie the sari ain't enough proof..his I beleive ya but imlie you do know didi said she was in nasha and AGAR yeh sach hai toh he will be saza ka paataar too.. he is saying galti dono ki hai and sabse badi uski caz he cheated imlie but sure adi ain't saying that. Imlie heard it imlie gave her head nod ke kya bol raha hai she knows it is not his fault he cannot even look at her directly..he stopped for imlie..imlie has no doubt on him koi aa bhi about anything and his feelings she knows he is embarrassed and he needs to come out of it. Imlie is being his pillar and he knows she is there for her..but usse oehle he has to be able to face himself right now the qdi we are seeing is unable to eve look at himself in the mirror too with his constant hum samjh hi nahi paa rahe yeb sab kya Hai..


Boy is being such a puppy towards imlie but ok..

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Lovely analysis as always AY! You beautifully explained how Imlie’s has been fighting for Adi’s honor from the time she saved him from the villagers.

I loved Imlie tiday especially in the scene with Adi - how she said even if she doesn’t get any support from Adi, she is enough to fight this herself 👏 what a contrast to when they showed didi - who wanted her dad and mom and her entire crew all the time. What is wrong is wrong - and my favorite was when she told Adi that if he had forced himself on Malini, she would file an FIR against him too That’s the imlie we know and love! And this is the Imilie that Adi loves too- I was reminded of what he told her in PD- for him she is the most beautiful when she stands for her principles and fights for it - even if it means she has to fight him.

The last scene of Adi gave out exactly how he is feeling. He is ashamed and feeling guilty that he betrayed his wife 😭 he just wants to take the blame on himself . You said it perfectly when you explained this is how he felt when he was forced to marry at gunpoint.
Imlie is going to fight this on her own and she will do whatever it takes to punish the guilty.
Lol on KC entry - when he said he accepted the case because he knows how Malini is 🤣 no one around thought that was weird 😆 didnt trigger anything for the Ts lol.

Didi is shit scared now that Imlie has a lawyer to fight the case - that’s prob why she pulls out the fake pregnancy card.
Oh all the talk about having proofs indicates that Adi sees all the proof but will be too late because didi will announce pregnancy - and then I think starts another fight from Imilie or will she back out- only time will tell.

Good episode today - tomorrow is mahila mandal and Ts somehow coming to court on time. Let’s hope they tackle this issue well in the court.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Great post.

Though I felt mixed regarding today's episode, there were some parts noticeable. Adi is just doing whatever he's doing due to the swirl of incertitude that's been bought upon his mind with the sudden throw of events. He himself is seemed frazzled about the actual scenario, willing to get arrested as he "thinks" that he betrayed Imlie, definitely felt that right now, he's a soft target in that he isn't ready to face the reality. He himself said that "IF" Malini is speaking the truth, clearly he doesn't have a clear iota therefore an unclear stance from his perspective can be perceived.

Thank goodness, Imlie questioned him why should Adi bear the brunt when women can conduct crimes too --- intent has nothing to do with gender. It's ultimately about the intention. Had BS drugged Malini, the police would also feel his collar and Imlie would get him punished. A 'crime' is a 'crime,' so it shouldn't be taken so lightly. Imlie is strong-willed to prove the crime in the court on w/o BS. Definitely, a top-notch performance by ST. 👍🏼

Imlie's reaction was so on point on the "whole so-called gehre dosts trying to apologize each other."smiley37Lol, couldn't care less lol. 😂 🤣 Pehle toh Imlie-Malini scenes used to be pakau honestly and now this. Maybe I might get little criticized here but, hey, my reaction was also similar as a viewer. 🤷‍♀️ 😂 Especially if Malini as a fake victim and her doh take ki acting skills lol.

Edited by Myrah_2020 - 4 years ago

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