Originally posted by: aarti1234
Hi All,
I am mostly a silent reader. But could help putting my understanding of Adi's action today. We all are very unhappy with his behavior.
But I feel he is very much in his character. From starting, he works as per his own thought process. He doesn't follow anyone else's thought process.
His relationship with Imlie started on mistrust. When entire T family and Malini used to trust and love Imlie, Aditya chose to behave with her as per his own understanding. He didn't start to trust her because his family and his so called love asked him to. He never even once questioned the validity of his behavior. He started trusting and respecting Imlie only when he himself reached that point. Then there was no turning back. Now, when same family is not trusting Imlie, his trust is unshaken. Again he is acting as per his conviction. He not letting anyone else dictate terms for him.
His relation with Malini is of trust. Malini is giving all perfect answers. So he will not loose 7 years of trust so easily. He needs to see himself to believe it. Ofcourse this is irritating for us as viewers and it is putting Imlie in path of more hurt. But I believe once he sees the Malini's true face (if makers allow that), he will make up for all the pain Imlie is going through.
Also, right now him not believing Imlie is of inconvenience. But when he didn't believe Imlie on KC chapter, it served good for his and Imlie's relation. If he had believed Imlie then and Malini has confessed the truth, then Imlie and he would not have come so far in their relation. Probably, he would still finding a match for Malini.
Now, the KC truth came at a point when Imlie cant step back. So ignoring Imlie's instinct served the purpose.
Sorry for the long post. This is just my POV. No intention to discredit or offend anyone.
Welcome Aarti. Glad to have you here.🤗
I agree with your analysis of Adi's behavior in the current situation. For him Malini has been someone who he could always trust to be understanding and accepting of any situation, as he has called her mature and samajhdaar, who as not only accepted the current situation, but also supported Imlie & his relationship.
He feels by acknowledging that she has changed, will mean that he will have to accept that he was wrong in his assumptions - which would be a huge blow to his ego as well. While he has no issue accepting that Imlie is right - but he would rather believe his assumptions rather than face the possibility of dealing with Malini's feelings. That is a Pandora's box he does not want to open unless forced to. That force will come very soon IMO, but till then this man will play ostrich to suit his purpose and drive us crazy in the process.