Originally posted by: AreYaar
I think you are watching this story with the wrong expectation.
It was never going to be about a “mature woman” overcoming a tough situation and women supporting each other for the sake of it. Characters react based on their core nature, not on the basis of generic social bhaashanbaazi expectations 🙄.
Malini was an insecure, weak woman from day one. It just took a while for the story to reveal the full scope of her immaturity and pettiness. The biggest warning sign was that she stayed for 7 years with a man who clearly never prioritized her and was more focused on his work. Such a woman is never going to get a reality check easily or behave maturely when things don’t go her way.
So what is being shown now is the mask being ripped off to show how different characters react to tough situations. Simply waving this 7 year flag doesn’t make Malini’s suffering greater. Imlie has faced more horrifying situations, more horrifying humiliation than anything Malini has….and she’s still shown grace and dignity through it all cuz that is her nature.
This story is about Imlie’s journey, not that of Malini 🙄….it’s about the contrast between light (Imlie) and darkness (Malini). At every stage of tough choice, Imlie has spread light while Malini has chosen darkness.
So why this forced expectation of some “women supporting each other” storyline for the sake of it? 🙄….I’m not interested in token support storylines when the woman in question is so pathetic. Humanity matters BEFORE these token gender related stances in my books.
This!
Also for a woman who apparently is so hurt and suffered she cannot even have an ounce of compassion for a girl so much younger than her and and her sufferings so why should we or anybody else feel anything for her. Call me Insensitive but I do not feel a thing for someone who didn't even had faced minor se bhi minor daily issues or struggles born in privilege and lived in it and still cannot handle bare minimum things that every normal teenager suffers too growing up or any child in a normal day to day life.. she was so protected that the things other normal humans can themselves troubleshoot without needing their parents or someone she cannot even do that being an adult on her own. Like seriously which grown person's idea of getting attention is hiding the roti? Esp when you heard the man say he is hungry caz he didn't eat properly due to courtesy and she claims to love that man but is like ab Bhooke hi raho nahi khane doongi roti..iske liye adi ki kisi bhi zaroorat ya feeling se bada hai iska apna Khunnas and ego. Idk man aisi aurat ke liye feel karo.
This is the woman you want to feel about whose first reaction to hearing about the forced shaadi was whether you slept with her or no.. she didn't even had 2 words of empathy to the man she claims to love so much ke atleast hold his hand and be like it is ok you have me as a friend or whatever the bad time has past it is gone you are over it. She didn't had it for her so called love of her life forget the girl in question I know we would have hated it but atleast it would have shown she has kuch feelings kuch insaniyat ke trauma toh tha na dono ke liye.. the girl she has been jataooing favors to she didn't had it in her to hug her in empathy ke jo hua bura hua forget everything else for a sec and her first reaction was bhool jao and be my husband his trauma his suffering what pain they went through didn't matter whatsoever
This is the woman who took joy when his mother slapped him. This is the woman who denies on purpose ke adi imlie ki shaadi pehle hui and keeps saying ke she snatched her 7 saal ka husband.. plz tell me how?🤔..this is the woman who calls her choti behan for convenience but cannot even stand for her for token sake when world tries to humiliate her for various reasons Instead herself joins them to make her feel inferior..this is the woman who gives sly smiles at the suffering of this girl. This is the woman who has not an iota of understanding what pain she suffered how big a blow it was on her young self and mind.. this is the woman who under the guise of helping puts her in more trouble by revealing her intehaai personal secrets without her consent to anybody willing to listen..first kc then the T house her consent doesn't matter to her.. while talking about her deep down secrets and her identity. This is the woman who has no respect for her own gender.. this is the woman who claims to love his family only when it fills her agenda otherwise tumhari maa and and she makes faces at her too being extremely rude..my poor memory cannot remember one time where aprna has not been nice to her except the adi ka bday bit but that too caz of her lie and was nothing but a temporary thing.
This is the woman who thinks not being able to go on a date is bigger blow then getting forcefully married and creates a scene over her husband prioritizing his work over her and makes a tamsha over the things even 5 yrs old don't like what thing to eat or who makes the chai.. freaking this a a woman who whines over her cake and thinks making ladoo cakes is the greatest display of affection and forces the girl to accept gifts she doesn't want so she looks superior and then claims ke she was itni achi to all but her ache things do not get rewarded.. I mean what else to say whe she admits ke all her acha Pan is just naatak and to get praise.🤦♀️🤷♀️
This is the woman who cannot handle bare minimum and cuts herself on a suspicion and thinks ke imlie ka trauma is nothing so how do you expect me to give her token daya too.. it only comes if you show me signs of acchai only then I can feel bad for you but you haven't toh puhleez spare me we should feel bad just can she is a woman.
I bet you guys she would have killed herself if she was in imlie's place the very day itself caz she cannot she just cannot. She Is the girl who is mentally like the 2 yrs old paani ko mum kehne wali who needs to hold mommy ki finger for everything
And do not even try to give me she had a bad childhood bakwaas caz well who doesn't ? Everybody has their own set of struggles kisi ki life ideal nahi hoti banani padti hai and even with that logic agar iska parental issues thay toh kya imlie ke nahi thay she even had more caz no identity either as she herself says so many times the first day of school matured her taught her many things that many kids her age had no idea about and to be very frank she is right which bacha has the understanding of naam pehchaan jaayaz najaayaz at 3/4 it takes time for people to start realizing those things and understand those but imlie had suffered from start lived a life sar utha ke making her own pehhchaan with no last name ya kuch bhi..toh phir why should I not empathize with the one whose struggles I can actually see and relate too then this Doll jiski struggle is limited to getting out of bed in the morning and then acting ke job pe jaana is kisi pe ehsaan .. ya jiski struggle is aaj samosa Kahane ko milega ke jalebi? Ahh sorry but mere main nahi hai woh wali bone then can only sympathize and empathize where I see genuine pain and hurt and just as AY said just caz she is a woman doesn't give her a license to extract feelings out of us..nobody's fault she knitted fantasies in her head for 7 saal and wasted them caz anybody with half a braincell could have figured out in 7 mins yahan daal nahi galni..you cannot blame anyone but her for wasting her 7 saal in a relationship like this and that doesn't make adi her culprit caz he wasn't forcing her to be stuck with him...I bet had she realized ke workout nahi kar raha he would have been more than happier to let her go but jisko ab bhi samjh nahi aa rahi pehle kya aaati so she has no one but herself to blame
So anybody telling me to feel anything for didi and wanting ke we should feel for her this is my response
Phew that became too long
And wow this became another list of her insensitivity and atrocious self ke karmon ka hisaab
Edited by naadanmasakalli - 4 years ago
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