I will break every rule out there to find my husband, DT Note pg 49 - Page 37

Originally posted by: nim_var

Today DM called Imlie a naive, poor soul without any connections or name when she set out to find Adi.

Pin pointing her inadequacies is making her stick to her delusion of somehow making her marriage stick ... making it work needs 2 people and she does not consider Adi's wishes at all in this regard. Just out of pure jealousy and her own delusions trying to stay in a shaadi that has lost its meaning for the associated parties..

In Roja too the heroine does not know Hindi and is in a strange or new place, never seen snow ever... but she still takes on the govt, the army, the baddies...as she has vishwaas in her shaadi.. MS ki taakat and all that..

So too shall Imlie, she has SM and her vishwaas, she knows that her BBSB will not leave her and she will find him..

If we get this kind of track from the makers, it will be truly epic and hoping/praying to SM that we get something like this with unique Adilie touch. I can ignore the antics of DM, DT (be like see no evil, hear no evil) everyone if we get a dang ka track to find Adi.

I saw some great discussion a few pages back on DM... 👍🏼 and a post by Apsvenky, some replies to that ... lovely WU.

Adi and Imli just didn’t get to this point in their relationship on a whim. Sita Mother had big plans for them for life.They frequently walked away from each other bec to Adi she stood for the nightmare event that stole his self respect and will to choose.

But as he saw Imli take it all without resentment and show her inner strength she became an inspiration to him. Adi chipped away at her reasoning to stay away from him instead teaching her she deserved happiness and love as much as anyone else. They built a strong foundation after many trials and tribulations to finally admit their love for each other.

Adi may not have had a trying childhood like Imli but his career put him in the path of many a challenging situation that opened his eyes to the world as it was.

Malini and Adi on the other hand had a surface relationship by comparison. Their choice matched when shopping, they agreed on their likes/dislikes over a 7 yr period. There was no depth in that relationship. She saw her mother berate him and didn’t tell her to shut it down. Yday she yelled at her mother and AC recoiled in response. So why did she let AC treat the man she claims to love with so much contempt. The way one allows anyone to treat their life partner says a lot about them as a couple….the presence of respect and love for each other or. It.

She saw Adi as a man she could manipulate to indulge her much the same way her parents and grandma did. She became a spoiled brat without knowing it.

With Imli around Adi saw the strength in this young woman, her courage and selflessness even when life didn’t go her way all her life. Those traits in her attracted him to her, he wanted to give her the world””make her happy” and stand by her side always through whatever life dished at them.

The likes of Malini can’t break that bond Adi and Imli have built after all the rough times. Adi is ready to be Imli’s rock even against his own family. Sita Mother brings them back together every time.

Malini will learn the hard way that Adi is no pushover she can manipulate at will. She’s only known her parents as the two selfish and master manipulators they are. Without realizing she has become like them over the years. After all we live what we know,

Adi is missing. And how has his first wife and spare wife reacted?

Imli: Called out AC’s role in kidnapping Malini interfered and got AC away. prayed to. sita Mother and refused to sit on her hands. She tried calling Satyakam for help but senior men Ts snatched the phone away from her. Why didn’t Nishant offer his phone to save his Adi bhaiiya? Imli is ready to head out but Malini shows up to yet again to block her. but that won’t stop Imli from being proactive to find Adi and bring him home.

Malini: by contrast she got AC away a from Imli, knew AC kidnapped
Adi but was proactive in protecting her mother for her crime. She showed up at Ts house and told Imli she is not the only wife, She knew about the outside world unlike Imli. She outsourced Adi’s safety to her dad and decided to deck herself up to make a public appearance for the camera to show the world she was Adi’s wife. Yet no sense of urgency to find Adi. She’s enjoying senior Ts fawning over her as their bahu even though Adi says she’s not. She spends time decking herself as if she’s headed to a gala.

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Wowie Ps, you have beautifully summed up today's episode - your poem was brilliant.

Matlab in sab ke baad aapse itna achcha likha gaya - hats off to you dear.

Honestly right now, just reading all these posts are the only way to get through this phase, as the makers are insisting to leave us fans in a daze.

DD eating screen space like it is her favorite snack, oh when will we get to see our favorite Adilie having fun and their together scenes back.

The T's and their golden Moon together are making us wish these episodes did not have logic go fleeting, while Adi bechara is being parceled from one place to another, just to get another beating.

We don't know why Sita Mother is not overseeing her bhakt, but we hope that all this will make Imlie only more sakht.

She needs to be less selfless and focus only on her sajhedar, coz we know only she deserves to be called his pehredaar.

Others will hail a devi who will use this opportunity to ghusao again where she is not needed, but we all know karma is a 🤬, it will come back and bite you, so remember goddess and her bhakts, you have been heeded.

We trust Imlie and know she will be triumphant, till then all we can do is pray that the makers do not make us who have stuck with the show, repentant.

So wonderfully put Aps! 👏

@PS143: I cannot find your original post...:(

You are such a wonderful writer! 👏So much depth! Loved it! Keep writing...the only way we can steer ourself out of this tumultuous phase of the story. ❤️

Originally posted by: Book-Worm

Galti se prediction turned out to be true 🤣🤣

Wohi galti dubara dohra do!! 😆

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Snow, she is not just playing the male lead in romance, she is playing the male lead period. Man how many times is she going to be saving him, god only knows🤣

Matlab all humare abla naar can do is sit tight and let his zulfein fly - Imlie is going to be doing all teh stunts to save him (Bechari ST ne apna haath bhi marod diya is chakkar mein😭)

Paavam yaar... Adi also saved Imlie couple of times...

Mym_rauf

Sorry for barging in, i just wanna say what bakwaas panti we r being shown nowadays, mera dil uth raha hai iss show se but i love imlie so much, my halat is like I don’t wanna watch it bcz of didi bakwaas but phir raha bhi nahi jata imlie ki wajah se, bs koi kisi tarah se didi ko gayab krde

Flowerhater

No need to be sorry

It is janta darbar and every one is welcomed to share the thoughts in respectful way .

Every opinion counts

Aps,nim replied on your behalf hope you guys won't mind 🥺

Mrym Rauf welcome to this thread. I know you have been a silent reader who likes all posts and here is a big welcome to you my dear. 🤗

I would love to hear more from you and even if it is to rant, we are here to listen. Post your views, rant, share, we are here to discuss and share our thoughts on the episode of the day and Imlie the show.

Flowerhater --

Your response is perfect and Aps would also agree with me 🤗... yes everyone is welcome here... we do not force our views on the rest and agree to disagree respectfully. We do not malign or become aggressive if a person does not agree with a point of view that is quoted.

The aim is to have FUN while discussing the show and the day's episode. That is the ONLY RULE we follow here (keeping in mind the forum rules)

Originally posted by: abhita

Actually it was based on a real life incident around that time... There was a CM in Jammu Kashmir who's daughter was kidnapped and they released her in exchange of somebody else. SImilarly there was an engineer from Tamil Nadu who was kidnapped and whose wife went to Delhi and Kashmir to secure his release... This is supposedly inspired by that story at least that is what the interviews those days read... especially in the Tamil mags.

All these real-life and reel stories, the kidnappings were conducted by terrorists and criminals either for their country or for their gain. So, Anu should be tagged as a criminal too. They have a valid reason but Anu she has no reason, she must be prosecuted with severe punishment.

Originally posted by: Writer_Soul

Makers themselves are obsess with naukrani narrative and village belle behekaoing sheheri nonsense, that they are the ones doing the major damage. Instead of empowering Imlie and focusing all on her growth, they make her bow down and compromise her self respect in front of people like Ts and Chaand.

There insensitivity of what responsible for this.

Didi, do fit in typical saree clad, decorative bahu role, so few idiots who haven't watched the show properly gets more inclined towards her.

I so agree with you. I blame the makers for taking this too far. I still cannot wrap my head when on social media I read comments like, such things happen in society and a group of people trying to defend this. Like I mentioned in some of my previous posts, I have never seen people talk crass like this, yes the upset part I get, but the educated middle class folks talking like that is just cheap and vile. Ok for a moment even if I believe that this is the way people talk, national TV is not the place to showcase or further instigate that. All this could have been done subtly keeping the fact intact that the family is not happy.

@Bold: Eventually ofcourse they will move to it, but that is also a bothersome process, because such positive tracks are wrapped up in like one episode if not the first 15 min.

Malini is a completely futile effort on whatever the makers are trying to make out of her character.

Point being, ITV does not want to change. In the name of yehi bikta hai aur yehi chalta hai...nobody wants to be the reason of that transformation. I am not regular viewer of ITV, so not sure how many actually tried and failed. But I come from era of TV shows, where soaps had not taken over and there were some rather beautiful shows that I watched which had meaning and depth to characters and story. So even though the times have changed, the entire experience has regressed drastically!

Hitting the 50 with a swag..🥳

Even for episodes that feel like a drag!

Perspectives, comments, views hai hajar..

Every opinion counts isliye toh aate hain baar baar..

Agree to disagree respectfully hai yahan ka naara..

Kya bajayegi Imlie Jugnooo ke baraa??

Originally posted by: Whatever765

Hitting the 50 with a swag..🥳

Even for episodes that feel like a drag!

Perspectives, views, comments hai hajar..

Every opinion counts isliye toh aate hain baar baar..

Agree to disagree respectfully hai yahan ka naara..

Kya bajayegi Imlie Jugnooo ke baraa??

Whatever ji ... ❤️ 🤗

Aap ke poem lajawab hai...

Swag se karenge sab ka swagath.... 🥳🥳

Congo everyone - Hit 50 !!!!!!