Contrasts in Understanding and Communication - Page 17

Originally posted by: Josupra

Aparna indeed is removing everyone's confusion if Adi is indeed her son or adopted 😆 beta se aur bhi badi ziddi. But today's episode left me confused about what is bothering Aparna more. Is she bothered that Adi & Imlie hid such a big secret from them.. when Adi first told the secret also, she remembered all past instances when they lied and that is what made her slap Adi, after that she said nasty things about Imlie and then the next couple of days she also talked about 'samaaj' & 'log kya kahenge'.. BUt if she is really bothered about ' log kya kahenge' she wont create the drama she did today before everyone. If some one is really that bothered, who would create a drama and make their family a butt of jokes. If she is really bothered she would have skipped the event all together. Her focus seemed more on dhoka (that was her first accusation too) and breaking of trust, trust on 2 people she loved. Aparna is making me confused as much as she herself looks confused..

@bold: If Aparna was really capable of just AVOIDING society, then it wouldn't be an issue to begin with, right? 😆......as for creating tamasha.....lol you have to look at it from Aparna's POV......she thinks she's showing to the world that she only considers Malini her bahu and so Imlie is not her bahu and that is why society waale shouldn't taunt her about it😆......yes, it sounds childish but that is exactly what it is.....childish floundering......Aparna is floundering around trying to cling to the vision she had of her life and project it into society as if just SAYING this is what she STILL believes will make it the truth.

The aarti thing ke time she did indeed think that just making AM stand together and do the aarti will shut up society ke speculations....she didn't think beyond that to what Adi may do😆......and now, when the whole society knows Adi's stance, she feels backed into a corner, but she still wants to stick to her stance that she doesn't agree with what her son did.....so to her it's not about tamasha anymore kyunki she feels Adi has anyways made a tamasha of them.....she's now clinging on to the fragments of her pride in this way by showing that she doesn't agree with the 'wrong' thing her son did/is doing.

Watching Aparna right now is just reminding me of Adi realizing later on that all he did in pushing Imlie away was all about clinging on to his khokhli pride - an illusion......Aparna is doing the same right now....she's clinging to a false sense of pride and hurting Imlie over that......the illusion will shatter one day and make her realize what she actually feels for Imlie.

Oh and I was also thinking it would be interesting if Aparna accidentally referred to Imlie as her bahu in the flow of the moment😆......just like Adi used to call Imlie his patni in the flow many times.....especially when he was all worked up in the gunshot track.....lol

Originally posted by: Lodestar

See the only thing why I am more inclined towards Imlie leaving rather than NDE is because Adi & the elder Ts are in completely different phase wrt their relationship with Imlie during an NDE.

Till the gunshot epi we would never have thought that Adi would have actually cared about Imlie so much. Yes we did get glimpses of his care for her but his behaviour with her was so mean that we never knew that Imlie made such a huge place for herself in Adi's subconscious till the gunshot epis.

The elder Ts ka case is different. We actually do know that they genuinely love Imlie. It is just that right now in their hurt, denial & anger of betrayal they are just putting on blinders wrt her. That is why them caring for her if she gets into an NDE is a given. That would not be some sort of new realisation.

So I am more inclined that it may be Imlie leaving the house as per their wishes. What will Adi do if that is Imlie's decision, that is where the unpredictability comes in? As I mentioned in earlier post I would be pleasantly surprised if Adi also leaves with Imlie. But would Imlie allow him to leave with her is the question. Maybe she will surprise us & actually will leave the T house with Adi.

The police drama I believe is AC ka kaand only. Didi ke pass itni himmat nahi hai. So AC ne hi Kuch kiya hoga & Didi will once again become mahaan by getting AC to take back her complaint.

Bunty Bhaiyya track will come after that police drama I think. But again my doubt is whether we will have Adi or Imlie Ka NDE or will Imlie leave by the end of that track. Let's see what happens next week. We will get a better idea next week only.

Oh interesting theory, Lodestar.....

Re: NDE....so I think it's not about NDE making Ts realize that they love Imlie....or caring for her over an NDE......but it would be a jolt to shake them out of their current anger.....usually seeing some sort of selfless act from Imlie to that extent is what jolts them......seeing her put her life on the line for them and stuff.....Adi has experienced it many times so I figured Ts also need to see Imlie literally about to die for them in order for them to feel a MAHA level of guilt to overcome all their gussa😆

But that said, your theory is very much possible too.....Imlie does look heartbroken over Aparna's continued refusal to accept her and she might feel dejected again enough to consider leaving......I guess the original version did have something like this too vis a vis Imlie leaving the house ultimately over Ts ka refusal to accept her and then Adi raising hell after she leaves😆......but again, the thing is - Ts have already seen Adi ka paagalpan over Imlie vis a vis tabletod shaadi.....toh what new thing can writers show vis a vis his reaction to Imlie leaving?

Imlie will never allow him to leave T house....kasam wagairah dekar rok degi.....and I don't think she will agree to leave the house and go live somewhere else with him either.

Isliye in sab problems ka AASAAN solution is NDE😆.....let's see if the writers take AASAAN raasta ya koi aur MUSHKIL raasta😛

Maybe whatever the outcome of this police report drama is will also factor into Imlie possibly wanting to leave.....maybe she will be made to feel that Adi is going through all this because of her......waise what reason will Didi give to her pyari chhoti behen for putting her pati in jail? 😛😆.....oh I forgot, Didi toh aajkal chhoti behen se baat hi kahaan karti hai😆

LOL oh it could be like last time ka repeat when Imlie was about to leave for PD, then she saw Adi getting kidnapped so did a detour to save him😆.....but then she ultimately still left......haha......toh they can reboot that whole scenario if they want.....Imlie might be in the process of leaving Delhi when Adi ki life is in danger again toh she will run off to save him instead😆.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Oh interesting theory, Lodestar.....

Re: NDE....so I think it's not about NDE making Ts realize that they love Imlie....or caring for her over an NDE......but it would be a jolt to shake them out of their current anger.....usually seeing some sort of selfless act from Imlie to that extent is what jolts them......seeing her put her life on the line for them and stuff.....Adi has experienced it many times so I figured Ts also need to see Imlie literally about to die for them in order for them to feel a MAHA level of guilt to overcome all their gussa😆

But that said, your theory is very much possible too.....Imlie does look heartbroken over Aparna's continued refusal to accept her and she might feel dejected again enough to consider leaving......I guess the original version did have something like this too vis a vis Imlie leaving the house ultimately over Ts ka refusal to accept her and then Adi raising hell after she leaves😆......but again, the thing is - Ts have already seen Adi ka paagalpan over Imlie vis a vis tabletod shaadi.....toh what new thing can writers show vis a vis his reaction to Imlie leaving?

Imlie will never allow him to leave T house....kasam wagairah dekar rok degi.....and I don't think she will agree to leave the house and go live somewhere else with him either.

Isliye in sab problems ka AASAAN solution is NDE😆.....let's see if the writers take AASAAN raasta ya koi aur MUSHKIL raasta😛

Maybe whatever the outcome of this police report drama is will also factor into Imlie possibly wanting to leave.....maybe she will be made to feel that Adi is going through all this because of her......waise what reason will Didi give to her pyari chhoti behen for putting her pati in jail? 😛😆.....oh I forgot, Didi toh aajkal chhoti behen se baat hi kahaan karti hai😆

LOL oh it could be like last time ka repeat when Imlie was about to leave for PD, then she saw Adi getting kidnapped so did a detour to save him😆.....but then she ultimately still left......haha......toh they can reboot that whole scenario if they want.....Imlie might be in the process of leaving Delhi when Adi ki life is in danger again toh she will run off to save him instead😆.

Since the writers are such fans of Loservedis there are high chances they will choose the "aasan rasta" & go with an NDE rather than the "mushkil rasta".

Or maybe we will get both NDE & Imlie leaving as well. Imlie can leave after the jail drama if she is accused more & then Adi will get in trouble due to Bunty Bhaiyya. Imlie can then come to save him & them dhadam se NDE😆.

Originally posted by: Lodestar

Since the writers are such fans of Loservedis there are high chances they will choose the "aasan rasta" & go with an NDE rather than the "mushkil rasta".

Or maybe we will get both NDE & Imlie leaving as well. Imlie can leave after the jail drama if she is accused more & then Adi will get in trouble due to Bunty Bhaiyya. Imlie can then come to save him & them dhadam se NDE😆.

The only I see Imlie leaving would be, if she thinks the only way to get Adi out of trouble is her leaving him. As per one BTS Imlie wins the best bahu championship, even after all Anu’s attempts, Anu might be angry and register a bigamy case on Adi. Then the super busy lawyer and his friend, may come and tell Imlie that the only way to save Adi from jail is if she somehow leave Adi and pretend their marriage didn’t happen. Everytime Imlie tries to leave, Adi gets in trouble, so comes the bunty bhaiyya.. have to see how Imlie says the day and that would be an eye opener for T’s

Originally posted by: Josupra

The only I see Imlie leaving would be, if she thinks the only way to get Adi out of trouble is her leaving him. As per one BTS Imlie wins the best bahu championship, even after all Anu’s attempts, Anu might be angry and register a bigamy case on Adi. Then the super busy lawyer and his friend, may come and tell Imlie that the only way to save Adi from jail is if she somehow leave Adi and pretend their marriage didn’t happen. Everytime Imlie tries to leave, Adi gets in trouble, so comes the bunty bhaiyya.. have to see how Imlie says the day and that would be an eye opener for T’s

I don’t see any circumstance in which Imlie will agree to deny her marriage with Adi. That would go against her core faith as well as all the recent discussions her and Adi have had that they refuse to see each other’s honor be maligned by people considering their relationship an affair. So marriage toh I don’t see Imlie ever denying. She can hide it, she can try to walk away but she will never say that marriage is not valid.

I do feel they can do another iteration of Imlie trying to leave and then calamities happening as usual taaki everyone can get another reminder of what happens if Adi Imlie try to walk away from each other 😆…..well I guess baaki logon ko abhi tak idea nahin. Only Adi Imlie know that whenever they try to part, ek dusre ki jaan khatre mein aa jaati hai 🤷‍♀️😆


Let’s see if makers will show Ts getting a window into that too.

Originally posted by: Lodestar

Since the writers are such fans of Loservedis there are high chances they will choose the "aasan rasta" & go with an NDE rather than the "mushkil rasta".

Or maybe we will get both NDE & Imlie leaving as well. Imlie can leave after the jail drama if she is accused more & then Adi will get in trouble due to Bunty Bhaiyya. Imlie can then come to save him & them dhadam se NDE😆.

Ha ha yeah - NDE does seem the easy way out - actually the more I think about it I doubt even AC would file any case against Adi- because if she does that- it means she accepts the first marriage is valid - and that will not be good for didi’s situation right and her wanting a divorce?

We might just go into the drama of Adi getting in danger right after the competition and get a contrast on how Imlie is dealing with the situation and supporting the family versus how Malini handles it.

Imlie will of course not care about her own life and do something about saving Adi whereas didi - we all know - might just call her dad like last time to help out 😆

Ha ha I wish we had some Idea - so many different ways next week can go 😆😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I don’t see any circumstance in which Imlie will agree to deny her marriage with Adi. That would go against her core faith as well as all the recent discussions her and Adi have had that they refuse to see each other’s honor be maligned by people considering their relationship an affair. So marriage toh I don’t see Imlie ever denying. She can hide it, she can try to walk away but she will never say that marriage is not valid.

I do feel they can do another iteration of Imlie trying to leave and then calamities happening as usual taaki everyone can get another reminder of what happens if Adi Imlie try to walk away from each other 😆…..well I guess baaki logon ko abhi tak idea nahin. Only Adi Imlie know that whenever they try to part, ek dusre ki jaan khatre mein aa jaati hai 🤷‍♀️😆


Let’s see if makers will show Ts getting a window into that too.

Of course she won’t deny they are married if anyone asks her, but I am saying, she will try to step away if it comes Adi’s well being, if at all Anu registers a case.

After the dance, Imlie said ‘ pati patni ek dusre ke hamesha ek jagah pe hona zarori nahi woh dill me saath hote hai’ (something very close), I am expecting that to play out in some way.

I personally do not see imlie leaving but that is just me.. NDE it could be but I will leave it to see how.it unfolds.

just looked at the latest spoilers.. looks like it is going to go the Roja way, Adi is going to be kidnapped and Imlie is going to fight with the government/ minister for her husbands release

Originally posted by: Josupra

just looked at the latest spoilers.. looks like it is going to go the Roja way, Adi is going to be kidnapped and Imlie is going to fight with the government/ minister for her husbands release

Lmao nope that was a whole different territory and story. No kidnapping I believe..jail hai yahan makes sense now.. I think yeh isko minister and bunty will phanansao for writing against them remember it was mentioned ke bunty is doing corruption along with minsters rest yes it will be Imlie's fight