Rishta nibhane ke liye saath rehna padhta hai - Page 25

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Book-Worm

Thanks flower ji. First time reading positive comments on YouTube. Surprised.


Told yaa🤣


Woh bhi sare k sare 😲

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Positive ki negative?


Dekho to sahi😲

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: raaz19


Hey Aps, thank you for the lovely words and i will definitely be joining on more in these discussions as we call can relate work gets in the way but these threads have been a live saver when I am still catching up on the show.

You have said it so well aparna is yet to see and understand the gem that imlie really is. The shallow perceptions come from the life long circle they have been in. They have stayed within there comfort zone and stuck to the society they knew. Just because you are aware of trends and issues doesn’t mean you are open minded. One has to educate once self and be brave to be different. Aditya has always been a man of his own choices and decisions and this is why he can walk the path he does.

I feel the family will grow once the accept this truth and will learn to grow with them. It takes time and patience. It’s the fear of losing face that hold them back but for every one person they may lose they will find another whom can make they’re life more colourful and fulfilling.

The judgement part is what I feel makes Aditya more livid for whom are they to judge her parentage or up bringing. As he said when they have not lived his or her truth how can they decide what is right from wrong. If we way this out then morally Maline actions today are also not acceptable to the society they claim such high regard off.

Because Maline is actually doing what he father did 20 years ago and is neither being judge or questions just like her father was not all those moons ago. How can we say dev actions were morally correct because imlie is her and suffering because of his lie to start with. In that way he has no respect either or is it that those sins can be washed away as they have money.

Perfection they hide behind for know is money and this is the very notion that has never bothered Aditya even when he dated her for he liked Maline for her thoughts and not her wealth as her mother would claim. This is why he had fallen in love with imlie because his soul feel the emotion and spiritual connect that lacked in Maline. That’s why he feel guilty and admits he should have never married her to start with.


Hope I make some sense 😆

Oh you not only make perfect sense Raazji, I agree completely to what you said.

Adi feels guilty of mistaking a general friend feelings for love and ruining Malini's life, because he is a good person who only judges her based on the views she has shared with him and not her parentage. If he had, he would have never continued being in a relationship with her knowing her mother's personality and her father's inability to do anything more than a "Stop it Anu". While Adi did not know about Dev when he was with Malini, yet even after finding out, he never measured her on his scale.

That is why he is perplexed as to why the very parents who have taught him all this are not able to adhere by their teachings. He is not able to realise that the saying that it is always easier to preach rather than to practice what you preach, is there for a reason. Being right is easier than standing by what's right and fighting with societal norms for your choice is that much more difficult.

Like Aparna said that they have never needed to justify their choices, because their choices were always safe and as per norms. Now when asked to choose Imlie as their bahu, they will need to go against norms and soch to establish a new normal. Right now they feel they do not have the strength to do so, but slowly as Imlie shows them just how perfectly she fits in their family, they will also slowly come around to loving her once again.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: FlowerHater


Haina 😲


Ashcharya 😕


Achambha😆

Yep, completely.😆

Waise yeh Twitter aur Insta pe people were comparing GM to some KV, as he had posted a story about the 7 yrs relationship with DD.

Yeh KV kaun hai, please elaborate😆

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Dreamer007

kuch nahi she will Not move on then makers will have no option but kill her with terminal illness as end mein happy jodi honi chaiye thtz how most stories end … 😜

Aapne wiki pe OG story padhi na😆

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Yep, completely.😆

Waise yeh Twitter aur Insta pe people were comparing GM to some KV, as he had posted a story about the 7 yrs relationship with DD.

Yeh KV kaun hai, please elaborate😆


Mane nathi khabar ben😆


Em ni vaat e pan jane😎

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: FlowerHater


Mane nathi khabar ben😆


Em ni vaat e pan jane😎

Apne Twitter friend se puchiye aur please pata kariye na. I am really curious who that KV is.

I am too scared to interact in Twitter. Ek IF is enough of an obsession for me, do not want to start on Twitter as well 😆

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: _Seera_

true the bargain is now making sense.. also BK did take two big gulps of chai before throwing it.. 😆


matlab unka bhi gussa nahi hai 🤣


BK took one sip... doubt aa gaya... ki imlie ke haath ki chai hai..

Doosra gulp liya - to confirm and one more sip before he does his nautanki of throwing the cup...🤣

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: nim_var


BK took one sip... doubt aa gaya... ki imlie ke haath ki chai hai..

Doosra gulp liya - to confirm and one more sip before he does his nautanki of throwing the cup...🤣

BK ka funda clear tha that he would drink most of the chai before throwing it, coz pata nahi phir kab mile. Pata hai nautanki karna hai, nahi toh biwi se maar khayega, so smartly aadhi cup almost peeke sirf baaki ki aadhi chi phenki.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Aapne wiki pe OG story padhi na😆

Yeh but generic hain re .. matlab in movies also if there was a triangle the 3rd person was killed in end and a dying person is always shown mahaan in 2000 they started adding the 4th person to let tht 3rd person move on but here this lady doesn’t want to move so they will have to kill her 🤪


Edited by Dreamer007 - 4 years ago

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