Originally posted by: Lodestar
I just want to go inside the screen, shake Imlie & ask her what she actually wants in her life. If she wants to be alone & not be in a relationship with Adi, then just freaking open your mouth & tell it to him. He has asked you that question quite a few times. Also he is going to ask it once again.
So please Imlie take a stand & stick to it. Don't think about what will be good for others & just say what you actually want to happen. If you don't want to be with Adi due to all the baggage that comes with him then say no. If you love him & want to be with him then say so & actually do things to make your relationship work. You are not going to be able to please everyone & why do you your self want to be unhappy is beyond me. Maybe I am just a bad selfish person but I cannot stand people who self sabotage their own happiness when there is no need.
Imlie is my main connect to this show & if she is only not going to be clear with what she wants then how am I supposed to support her? There wa one character Adi who was kept consistent in his stand. Today he was also conveniently messed up to prop Didi.
+1 to everything you said. I took up this show because I could connect with both Imlie and Adi, and they both disappointed me today. I am used to Imlie's mahanta for some time now, but Adi's inconsistencies is makeing me frustrated in another level. Self sabotage is the motto of ITV, so that never does surprise me, but atleast don't make it the reason why we get disconnected from a show that we really enjoy and was actually different from the other crap on ITV. Matlab, did you have to ruin the one show that was making some sense and put in your mahaanta crap. Urghhh.