I try not to enter these kind of threads for my own personal peace but this is Mitthi we r talking about..
lets try to see from beginning
- Dev comes to PD, gets mitthi pregnant and leaves to never look back... also lies about his own marriage and abut having a daughter
- Mitthi raises Imlie on her own.. a single mother .. an unmarried on at that... still fully being devoted to dev.. never getting married and waiting for her love.
- completely against gun point marriage of Aditya and Imlie.. keeps saying they did nothing wrong but an angry mob wouldnt listen. A man like aditya couldnt hold them off but yeah Mithi should have. 😳
- We will come to Imlie , Malini and Aditya later.. mithi was kept in dark. Decision kind of mutual by Aditya and Imlie as they want to hide the truth so she doesnt suspect much... whenever Aditya and imlies relationship is questions either one of them has put a band aid on it so if mithi also believes in that marriage i am not sure we can say she is wrong.
- after knowing that Aditya married someone else first thought mitthi has is Imlie come back to your mom.. dont stay in the house where you dont have respect... a woman who never got a single right.. no support.. no name to give to her daughter.. has a spine of steel to ask the daughter to come back
-When satyakaam takes out gun to do justice.. she is a sane voice telling him u cant do justice at gun point. Look at the courage... she knows she is wronged.. her daughter is wronged but not once she forgets Aditya was wronged too
- After all confession from Aditya she has heart to say Malini was not at fault.. she will pray for her... all this only after knowing Imlie and Aditya wants to be together not before that... To think about others when your own peace is muddled is called selflessness.. mitthi displays it on every step of way
This woman is compared to AC
- A looser of a woman who decided to stay in aa loveless marriage cos it provided her with means to maintaining a lifestyle.
- gave super insecurities to her daughter who questions her husband at drop of an hat
- loved to humiliate people cos they dont match her class
- taught daughter to wash her dirty laundry in public as thats only way to pretend to be a victim
- doesnt even think twice before physically harming a 19 year old girl cos she is not her daughter
- who has interfered in her daughters life even before there were cracks..
So sorry to say there is no comparison.
Imlie and Malini... they are shadows of their mothers and have inherited the most distinguishing qualities ... just see first 100 episodes and the contrast is clearly visible.
Finally some food for thought -
Even if Mithi had Aditya to return to marriage with Malini... and Aditya had returned just for social stigma... what that marriage would look like???
We can see mirror image of Devs and Anus marriage as Aditya and Malinis marriage.