DEVA RE DEVA.. the overflowing katora of sympathy - Page 21

Originally posted by: pamk06

Seriously she literally banished him to hell with that letter.... like in reality they would have put him in jail for being an instigator to suicide.

She keep saying that she has seen her parents fights and does not want to have the same life, then why is she is all Ok to go back to the T's. Does she think that extreme step liya to everything is solved and life goes back to square one?

The second thing that she mentioned was that "mein tume baat nahi sakti" but Aditya did not even ask her that, forget ask he has not even told her his intentions... if somebody reads they might think that Aditya has asked her to be in "gharwali-baharwali" situations and Malini has taken this step because she cannot bear thsi condition.... so here also she has managed to show him in the bad light. .... As you said she left no kasar to make sure his life becomes hell through that letter...

@bold - that was the gist of that letter. What did the makers want, we need to assume this is a person who has been extremely victimized and sympathize with her? How?

I do not get the sharing bit at all. Who even brought up sharing. And when did anyone agree to sharing. This is what happens when you lack the courage to hear the truth. What kind of a human being with self-respect even thinks that a broken marriage where your husband clearly does not like you is worth putting effort into? Unless you want that husband or his family to never have the happiness that you are not getting from him.

Malini’s intentions have been crystal clear, reeking of vileness. If they want us to believe that exterior which is not even disguised by that odious interior anymore, they only have themselves to blame that the audience is not walking into that trap. I mean, no one is going to cross lines and go out to start liking Malini all of a sudden with this.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yehi delusion toh break karna hai. Is it really love when you don’t give a damn about the person you love when it comes to being consumed with your own “pain” and ego? She seems to enjoy seeing him tormented and disrespected....how is that possibly love?

Let’s also not forget this is the same lady who left him when he was so sick two days back 🤔😆 . So ghanta pyar it’s always been no matter what she claims

How can Aditya’s temerity at wanting to leave her educated, rich self go unpunished? Growing up in that cesspool of her house has turned Malini into adapting putrefying her surroundings as a defense mechanism. Just outright kill everything as long as she alone flourishes. But nahin, ise andekha karke mahaanta mein cloak karna hai sab kuch. What do they think the audience smokes.

And she did not just leave when he was sick. She laid the blame on Aditya for his refusal to take the medicine and then left. And we are to feel sympathetic about her and her lost love?

Sorry to butt in but I am super depressed with how they’ve butchered her character and are deliberately trying to glorify her and malign the leads. I wanted to make a post and maybe I will but I just want to talk about how badly I detest Malini’s character right now. Been reanalysing her character the past few hours and it just put me into a horrible state of mind. This character is a soul sucker to reel people and real people. What a shell of a human being with nothing to her, no strong convictions no life. I am so mad at the creaters I feel like I have been betrayed by someone I actually know. By that, I am talking about the character of Malini. It’s like when you really like someone but the vibes with them are sort of off and things don’t seem to go right since you’ve met them but you think it possibly couldn’t be them because of how sweet they are. But you connect the dots soon and understand you’ve encountered a dark empath, a literal soul sucker. I feel drained. Didn’t think a character could fool me like that. I don’t know if it’s good writing or bad but kudos to them because I actually have no desire to watch further. Also, however disappointing it may be, I am damn sure they’ll never address these aspects of her it’ll all always be how mahaan she is and what a sacrificial lamb it’s pretty clear where they want to go with her character. I don’t even have the energy to watch for imlie anymore since she’s nowhere to be found. Good luck to the writers with the amazing turn they took, created huge rifts within the viewership plus did such a disservice to the fans who actually like the show for what it is and have been trying to understand and make others understand it’s essence.

Originally posted by: pamk06

@bold 1: I missed that part in all the melodrama that was going on or may be I am still stuck on the fact that she said ki "I married by best friend" so did not pay attention .... but her thought change so often and so fast that it really difficult to get a hang on her.😆.. She too goes from "0 to 100" into self pity mode...Whatever the truth is, she is going to make this as the point that "he loved me and changed" so get the sympathy and make Adi the best person..... Aditya ki baat to nobody will listen if he speak in the calm tone or even tries to object... I think that is one of the reason he blows up because only then people give his words credit warna sab unsuna hi kar dete hain or blame him for all wrongdoing,

Re: Imlie : I really hope that it does... For some reason from past few days that connection is not coming out as she is giving Didi importance.. I guess it might be their way to balance things so that Imlie does not get bashed for insensitivity. Imlie is affected by his pain, that is a given but she also has a tendency to blame herself for their dukh and only see Didi dukh.....and that is root of all problem.... i do hope Rupi Di plays a role here and keep her rooted on the ground instead of permanently activating her self sacrificing mode. @bold 2 : I so want to see this that Imlie puts Aditya before Malini and lets see when we get that.

@bold : 🤣😆both these things are going to really really prick and how.... wonder how she is going to digest it?

@bold: Exactly.....her mind is all over the place and hardly holds a coherent thought in it. She will think whatever she needs to think in the moment to get through it and paint herself a victim, that's it.

LOL@ 0 to 100 comparison....naa it's still not that....woh 0 to 100 still Adi ke liye hi apt hai.....Malini is more like 0 to -1.....khaas range nahin hai aur jo bhi hai minus mein hi hai😛

As for Imlie....yes, the connection has taken a hit in excessive Didi jaap but I think we are entering a new phase now post Didi ka suicide kaand and some shifts will happen. Yes, both Adi-Imlie will drown in more guilt and blame themselves for Malini's condition....but both of them will also be unable to stop caring for each other. Malini just may push Imlie hard enough ki Imlie might dig in at some point....especially if the issue comes down to life or death for Adi.....tab woh Didi ki bakwaas bhi nahin sunegi and will take charge if needed.

Again, I'm not expecting ki Imlie will ever find the guts to bajaao Malini😆.....I doubt we will be ever so lucky....but I think Didi jaap ki frequency will rise and fall depending on the needs of jo bhi track ho.....lol this track needed her Didi jaap to accelerate isliye aise kiya.....once Malini is back in the house toh they can't show every scene being about Imlie asking ki Didi kab waapis aayegi.....lol

Originally posted by: spelano.ws

Sorry to butt in but I am super depressed with how they’ve butchered her character and are deliberately trying to glorify her and malign the leads. I wanted to make a post and maybe I will but I just want to talk about how badly I detest Malini’s character right now. Been reanalysing her character the past few hours and it just put me into a horrible state of mind. This character is a soul sucker to reel people and real people. What a shell of a human being with nothing to her, no strong convictions no life. I am so mad at the creaters I feel like I have been betrayed by someone I actually know. By that, I am talking about the character of Malini. It’s like when you really like someone but the vibes with them are sort of off and things don’t seem to go right since you’ve met them but you think it possibly couldn’t be them because of how sweet they are. But you connect the dots soon and understand you’ve encountered a dark empath, a literal soul sucker. I feel drained. Didn’t think a character could fool me like that. I don’t know if it’s good writing or bad but kudos to them because I actually have no desire to watch further. Also, however disappointing it may be, I am damn sure they’ll never address these aspects of her it’ll all always be how mahaan she is and what a sacrificial lamb it’s pretty clear where they want to go with her character. I don’t even have the energy to watch for imlie anymore since she’s nowhere to be found. Good luck to the writers with the amazing turn they took, created huge rifts within the viewership plus did such a disservice to the fans who actually like the show for what it is and have been trying to understand and make others understand it’s essence.

Hey, no worries....feel free to butt in anytime.

@bold: I know what you mean....and this is why many of us have been feeling disturbed by Malini's character for a long time now even when others were justifying her as a bechaari.....there has been something off about her for a while now that started becoming more obvious in the aftermath of Imlie's press conference....the very fact that she gave that sari to Imlie on a day she knew was special to Imlie and then made strange comments about Imlie ki kismat.....it became clear that that she is not just incapable of thinking beyond herself but also has no qualms in going out of her way to make others feel miserable in twisted ways. Such a person will never get sympathy from me.

I'm not sure what the writers think they are doing with her.....I honestly don't think any neutral viewers will sympathize with her after what she's done right now.....only the ones who blindly support her will continue to do so....and the Adi-Imlie fans anyways weren't going to take to her......

I will still keeping watching the show for Imlie cuz I know she will rise again no matter how much twisted/disturbing crap Malini keeps pulling.....this is a dark phase for the story right now but after every dark night, there is always light :) We just have to get through it for now. I do understand though if you feel like taking a break....sometimes that helps to clear your head too. It's definitely not an easy show to watch right now....especially this week.

Originally posted by: MuteButton

@bold - that was the gist of that letter. What did the makers want, we need to assume this is a person who has been extremely victimized and sympathize with her? How?

I do not get the sharing bit at all. Who even brought up sharing. And when did anyone agree to sharing. This is what happens when you lack the courage to hear the truth. What kind of a human being with self-respect even thinks that a broken marriage where your husband clearly does not like you is worth putting effort into? Unless you want that husband or his family to never have the happiness that you are not getting from him.

Malini’s intentions have been crystal clear, reeking of vileness. If they want us to believe that exterior which is not even disguised by that odious interior anymore, they only have themselves to blame that the audience is not walking into that trap. I mean, no one is going to cross lines and go out to start liking Malini all of a sudden with this.

@Bold - seriously, Malini and self-respect, when did she have any? Unfortunately, I still remember her desperate attempt to hug Aditya in their fight after application form kaand and begging for her haq. Also, she thought going on 1 date where she will not say anything to upset him equals to all is well with their marriage. I think the only time she remotely showed some sort of self-respect is when Aditya took her case in C house after seeing Mrs C insult Imlie. That time she gave it back to him that he treated her the same way Mrs C treats Imlie. But Aditya was 100% right in telling her that how did she think that Mrs C would ever want to apologize to Imlie.

I still have not watched the episode, but Malini ki delusions have no end. She thought Aditya wanted to share himself with 2 women. This is how much she knows this man? Even when he has been married to 2 women for 7 months, he has never shared himself intentionally. First, he was 100% loyal to Malini and made that damn clear to Imlie. And now he is 100% loyal to Imlie and he wants to clear that up with Malini. But sune toh sahin, she reached her own conclusion, wore her dulhan clothes, wrote a lamba "love letter" and decided to kill herself based on 2 questions and 2 minutes spent on joining the dots. One might say that weeks of Aditya ignoring her led her to commit suicide and that the newspaper article, Q&A with Dev/dadi duo, and phone call with Aditya were the final triggers. But I do not think so. 3 days ago she was all giddy to go on a date with him. 2 days ago she wanted to fight for her marriage. 1 day ago she insulted Imlie, decided to take a break and leave the house to manipulate Aditya to beg her to come back home. Within 24 hours Aditya calls her that he wants to talk to her but because she has no guts to hear him out, and doubting (important word doubting, no confirmation yet) his feelings for Imlie, she decided to get out of the way as she sees no future for herself and cannot share Aditya. A person who wants to commit suicide does not get the thought of suicide for the first time in their life couple of hours before committing the actual act. Aditya has faced and thought of dying 20 times by now in 7 months. If he thought about suicide again, none of us would be surprised. 😆But Malini's character has never shown thinking about suicide except for this week.

But now I want to see how she observes Aditya-Imlie relationship. Pehle, she ignored what was happening in front of her. But now she has her doubts, let's see what she will do.

I hope T family pleases her just so she does not kill herself again but in reality, feels the actual burden and pressure to walk on eggshells around her. I am not interested in seeing their darya dil for Malini. They can reserve that for Imlie and for heaven sake open up a little of that for their own freaking son.

Aditya and imlie are to be blamed for what happend to malini, Malini has been with aditya for seven years, she loved him, stood by him for seven years, and aditya showed her the same love, he promised her a beautiful life together and now suddenly after marriage he completely changes, he shows her no love, his attitude has completely changed and he doesn’t even give malini an explanation for it.

Imlie and aditya were forcefully married, whereas aditya and Malini built their relationship over seven years, and instead of honouring those seven years aditya completely forgets about it and focuses on the girl he was forced to get married to, just imagine if you were in that situation, the guy you have loved for years now ignoring you after marriage, you would feel confused, heartbroken, you would question whether you have done anything wrong, but malini did nothing wrong, she is rightfully asking her husband for her right as a wife, aditya married malini happily and with consent, if he cannot honour those vows he made then he needs to be truthful to malini, actually he should have told her about being forcefully married to imlie from the start, but he did not and now it has all spiralled to the point that malini felt so alone and helpless that she tried to commit suicide.

I feel so bad for malini, and aditya does not deserve her, I hope malini comes to her senses and realises that her love is too good for aditya, she should find someone much better than him, because aditya has basically cheated on Malini, he has betrayed her, and imlie also carries the blame, if she cared about malini didi so much then she would have told aditya to be truthful to malini, instead she kept telling aditya to not tell malini and then stays in their house and having secret meetings with him behind malinis back, it’s terrible

I think the current week is not appropriate for mayuri to create many ig stories and promotions. This week has been exhausting and there are different opinions about Malini’s character. It’s getting little uncomfortable with her ig story spree at this time. Hope she can continue next week on it once this track ends

Originally posted by: AreYaar

My expectations are even lower than that😆

I don't know if they will ever show Adi or the others realizing that what all Malini is doing is not out of "love".....that is the cover they will continue to use to justify/glorify her extreme actions....given the level to which they have glorified her suicide tamasha, seems to me like they think that is the cover they need to provide to generate sympathy for Didi.

She's going to do a lot of nonsense in the coming days but everything will always keep getting justified as her just feeling abandoned by the guy she "loves" so much toh woh supposedly apna "dard" dikhaa rahi hai. Iska yeh sab side mein chalta rahega in her own imaginary lala land.

On Planet Reality meanwhile, it will become obvious that the depth and soulful connection that Adi-Imlie share is on another level no matter how much delusional love jaap Didi keeps doing.

If that's how they want to play it that Adi supposedly suddenly "fell out of love" with Malini when 7 years mein sab "saccha" tha, lol that's their problem.....I'm not going to beat my head over that anymore. They can keep deluding themselves about the past if that comforts them.

Meanwhile on Planet Reality in the present, I don't doubt that Adi's love for Imlie will keep finding its way to prevail in the face of all these torturous odds. I repeat, the issue isn't IF....it is now all about WHEN.

Toh abhi ke liye, we wait to see ki Didi ke torturous keechad mein bhi kaise khilte hain humaare Adi-Imlie😛

So much word to this.. adi imlie ko toh khilne and milne hi hai infact already itne mile huye hain koi didi and uske drama cannot do much.. they can create temporary rore/patthar atakana but akhir kab tak. Kar lein yeh bhi try and kar lein khushi haasil .. if thay gives them satisfaction and 2 mins of fame kar lein.. uske baad toh planet delusion hi hai inki Manzil

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL well DUHHH😆.....tum log abhi bhi inhi confusions mein ghoom rahe ho? Hadh hai😆

Obviously when we talk about Saath, no one here is expecting Adi to ever go back to doing Moon jaap or grand romantic gestures.....the Saath is definitely going to be token in nature.....but a slightly less token version of what he was doing last few weeks.....lol

My guess is he will agree to go out for dates etc. and give Malini the time she has been demanding from him.....only for Malini to discover that all those things will also not rekindle anything as per her imaginations.

He will just be less cavalier about Malini's feelings for a bit I think....but usse zyada nahin ho paayega isse.

That too, he will stop doing even this extra lihaaz if Malini targets Imlie again.....that will always be his breaking point to stop doing KISI ka bhi lihaaz😆

Yup he will try to do the candy floss and maybe to an extent give in to her PDA demands though he may not be involved mentally she will think she got some success and her Aditya back caz for her Aditya is only that a Putla to take on dates and all and she can say oh everything is alright caz isss aage na isne kabhi kuch dekha hai na dekhegi for her the so called 7 saal ka oyaar is only the lame dates and dinners .. heck they never even talk for all the we can talk for hours nonsense itni formal.baateon karte hain jaise koi maalik naukar hi ho but didi ko unka troophy mil jaayega to flaunt and she will be over the moon meanwhile adi ko pata chalega kis museebat main phans gaya even more caz with this stunt she has successfully blocked the way out for him too and Aditya toh aata hi yahan se hai ke khud hi door jaayein rather than hurting someone else.. ab toh asal main doobna padega