DEVA RE DEVA.. the overflowing katora of sympathy - Page 20

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Wohi toh. Lol do people forget that a pretty long PD track just wrapped up a month ago? 😆

Itni jaldi nahin hoga another track of Adi following Imlie to PD.

Best to accept that this phase is a setup for all the characters coddling Malini again in the wake of her suicide kaand. She will emotionally torture all of them for a bit before the next high point happens of Imlie leaving and Adi following her.

What I’m curious to see is how Adi handles the emotional abuse of Imlie that will also happen in the coming days. Didi will think it’s all about her again but Imlie will still continue to make a bigger place in Adi and T family’s hearts without even trying.

Pulling back and all is a moot question to me. I don’t doubt that Imlie will continue to remain the shining light of this story even if darkness has overshadowed her briefly right now. It’s not a question of if....more like when.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

My expectations are even lower than that😆

I don't know if they will ever show Adi or the others realizing that what all Malini is doing is not out of "love".....that is the cover they will continue to use to justify/glorify her extreme actions....given the level to which they have glorified her suicide tamasha, seems to me like they think that is the cover they need to provide to generate sympathy for Didi.

She's going to do a lot of nonsense in the coming days but everything will always keep getting justified as her just feeling abandoned by the guy she "loves" so much toh woh supposedly apna "dard" dikhaa rahi hai. Iska yeh sab side mein chalta rahega in her own imaginary lala land.

On Planet Reality meanwhile, it will become obvious that the depth and soulful connection that Adi-Imlie share is on another level no matter how much delusional love jaap Didi keeps doing.

If that's how they want to play it that Adi supposedly suddenly "fell out of love" with Malini when 7 years mein sab "saccha" tha, lol that's their problem.....I'm not going to beat my head over that anymore. They can keep deluding themselves about the past if that comforts them.

Meanwhile on Planet Reality in the present, I don't doubt that Adi's love for Imlie will keep finding its way to prevail in the face of all these torturous odds. I repeat, the issue isn't IF....it is now all about WHEN.

Toh abhi ke liye, we wait to see ki Didi ke torturous keechad mein bhi kaise khilte hain humaare Adi-Imlie😛

Now that you say it, keeping Malini’s reality in limbo is what the makers might be going for. I cannot believe they do not want to go all out on this angle. Itna bhi weak-kneed hone ki kya zaroorat hai? Fictional story hi toh hai. Anyway, I’m resigned to it too ab.

I do not doubt for a second that Aditya and Imlie can only strengthen. If didi thinks delusions mein zindagi guzar lengi, galat insaan ko chun liya uske liye. Zindagi bhar miss me miss me ke notes hi chhodne padenge.

I hope they pick up the next thread soon atleast by the end of this week. Kuch toh traction mile on everything else that has been brought to a standstill because of Malini. Even if it’s Nishant’s useless love story.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

My expectations are even lower than that😆

I don't know if they will ever show Adi or the others realizing that what all Malini is doing is not out of "love".....that is the cover they will continue to use to justify/glorify her extreme actions....given the level to which they have glorified her suicide tamasha, seems to me like they think that is the cover they need to provide to generate sympathy for Didi.

She's going to do a lot of nonsense in the coming days but everything will always keep getting justified as her just feeling abandoned by the guy she "loves" so much toh woh supposedly apna "dard" dikhaa rahi hai. Iska yeh sab side mein chalta rahega in her own imaginary lala land.

On Planet Reality meanwhile, it will become obvious that the depth and soulful connection that Adi-Imlie share is on another level no matter how much delusional love jaap Didi keeps doing.

If that's how they want to play it that Adi supposedly suddenly "fell out of love" with Malini when 7 years mein sab "saccha" tha, lol that's their problem.....I'm not going to beat my head over that anymore. They can keep deluding themselves about the past if that comforts them.

Meanwhile on Planet Reality in the present, I don't doubt that Adi's love for Imlie will keep finding its way to prevail in the face of all these torturous odds. I repeat, the issue isn't IF....it is now all about WHEN.

Toh abhi ke liye, we wait to see ki Didi ke torturous keechad mein bhi kaise khilte hain humaare Adi-Imlie😛

The only good thing about this whole track is that "Malini should know the truth" jaap will be over... now whatever she does will be intentional and that is not going to generate sympathy at any level and people will see the Malini that we have been seeing for ever.

@bold1: Is that what they are going for? Didn't they make Aditya say that he never loved Malini and gave dosti the name of love? now they are going to flip on that too? What was saccha.... the non-communication or the lack of understanding or the simple fact that Aditya was calling someone who has suicidal tendencies as calm and understanding

@bold2 : Liked the line and hope they follow it but I do think they really need to first bring Imlie out of the "Didi" mode. Not sure how they will do it but tilI Imlie is stuck on "Didi ki khushi", she is not going to even entertain anything else. Just hope that the makers balance the two things now where we see Malini torture on one side, Aditya and Imlie continue to fight through the gloom (if she allows them to even meet... Rupi Di hopefully you do some magic here)

I do think that Malini will try to create doubts in the T's about A-I relationship to reduce Imlie apnapan and status in the house which might be the reason for her to leave or Aditya to break his silence, which as you said would be the next high point.

I think Dementor Didi will be back in T 🏠 by end of this week or by Mon at the least.

I think some sort of PD track will come after 2 more weeks at least because things are percolating in PD as well with Meethi knowing the truth now.

If Meethi-Imlie & Meethi-Adi convo had happened before Dementor Didi's suicide attempt, then I am sure she could have been reassured by Adi. But after this, Imlie herself will let her mom know that she won't be fighting for her haq whatsoever. So will Meethi allow Imlie to stay with the Tripathis? I think she will definitely try to force her to leave Adi's home as there is no future for her marriage to Adi as per Imlie.

Imlie leaving T house can happen not only because of the happenings at T house, but also due to whatever will transpire in PD. Even SK might come to know the truth. So Imlie herself can leave for PD fearing that SK would come to the T's.

Also I do not have faith in Adi's "Saath" to Dementor Didi because frankly speaking whatever friendship they believe they have is not really friendship. They were just aquaintances who got into a relationship & continued with it for such a long time out of convenience. They just don't know each others real personalities enough to even be friends. I cannot forget how Adi was least bothered about looking for Malini when he believed her to be in a life threatening situation during bridge collapse. I would believe that he would be at least more frantic about it even if he believed her to be his so called best friend.

The only "saath" that he will give Dementor Didi is tolerating her presence in his house & some basic courtesy. He definitely is not going back to his Moon jaap & pleasing her with romantic gestures. He just can't because he is totally committed to Imlie even if she is not ready to be in a relationship with him. And whatever positive sentiments he thinks about Dementor Didi when she is not in front of him like he doesn't want to hurt her, can't see her tears, etc. he just cannot make himself behave in such a way that he doesn't hurt her when she is in front of him. I think we will get a clearer picture about his Saath to Dementor Didi in the next 2 epis.

Also he is not going to be able to hold himself back from caring for Imlie or coming to her defense. Whatever Imlie says regarding not wanting to continue their relationship because of Dementor Didi, he is not going to accept it quietly. This is the guy who can't even tolerate Imlie ignoring him for a single day. He literally got fever because she was ignoring him. So he will also be trying to change Imlie's mind which might lead to Imlie leaving T house & going to PD because she knows he will not let her be if she is in the same city.

Hence, my belief that the track after Dementor Didi coming back to T 🏠 & Imlie leaving it will be not that dragged and a PD track will come in the next 2- 3 weeks. This is just my speculation based on the fact that the makers have not dragged tracks for a long time in the show yet. This Dementor Didi track of suicide will also be finished by end of this week so it was hardly a 2 week long track. Just that it was heavily focused on Dementor Didi depressing tamasha with least focus on Adi & Imlie & hence we felt the drag of it heavily.

If nothing like this happens than also it is Ok. I am already well versed with getting my chop done by this show😆.

First time in her privileged spoilt life when Malini could not get the commodity she wanted, she decided that ending her life was the only way out. And trying to end it in such a manner that the object she supposedly cherished would languish in hell for wanting to rectify a mistake so that everyone could live happily.

Malini’s trajectory is literally a guide to bad parenting for dummies.

If the makers want to glorify this sadomasochism, kudos. Jaise duniya mein dysfunction ki kami hai.

Originally posted by: MuteButton

First time in her privileged spoilt life when Malini could not get the commodity she wanted, she decided that ending her life was the only way out. And trying to end it in such a manner that the object she supposedly cherished would languish in hell for wanting to rectify a mistake so that everyone could live happily.

Malini’s trajectory is literally a guide to bad parenting for dummies.

If the makers want to glorify this sadomasochism, kudos. Jaise duniya mein dysfunction ki kami hai.

Seriously she literally banished him to hell with that letter.... like in reality they would have put him in jail for being an instigator to suicide.

She keep saying that she has seen her parents fights and does not want to have the same life, then why is she is all Ok to go back to the T's. Does she think that extreme step liya to everything is solved and life goes back to square one?

The second thing that she mentioned was that "mein tume baat nahi sakti" but Aditya did not even ask her that, forget ask he has not even told her his intentions... if somebody reads they might think that Aditya has asked her to be in "gharwali-baharwali" situations and Malini has taken this step because she cannot bear thsi condition.... so here also she has managed to show him in the bad light. .... As you said she left no kasar to make sure his life becomes hell through that letter...

Originally posted by: Lodestar

The only "saath" that he will give Dementor Didi is tolerating her presence in his house & some basic courtesy. He definitely is not going back to his Moon jaap & pleasing her with romantic gestures. He just can't because he is totally committed to Imlie even if she is not ready to be in a relationship with him. And whatever positive sentiments he thinks about Dementor Didi when she is not in front of him like he doesn't want to hurt her, can't see her tears, etc. he just cannot make himself behave in such a way that he doesn't hurt her when she is in front of him. I think we will get a clearer picture about his Saath to Dementor Didi in the next 2 epis.

LOL well DUHHH😆.....tum log abhi bhi inhi confusions mein ghoom rahe ho? Hadh hai😆

Obviously when we talk about Saath, no one here is expecting Adi to ever go back to doing Moon jaap or grand romantic gestures.....the Saath is definitely going to be token in nature.....but a slightly less token version of what he was doing last few weeks.....lol

My guess is he will agree to go out for dates etc. and give Malini the time she has been demanding from him.....only for Malini to discover that all those things will also not rekindle anything as per her imaginations.

He will just be less cavalier about Malini's feelings for a bit I think....but usse zyada nahin ho paayega isse.

That too, he will stop doing even this extra lihaaz if Malini targets Imlie again.....that will always be his breaking point to stop doing KISI ka bhi lihaaz😆

Originally posted by: pamk06

The only good thing about this whole track is that "Malini should know the truth" jaap will be over... now whatever she does will be intentional and that is not going to generate sympathy at any level and people will see the Malini that we have been seeing for ever.

@bold1: Is that what they are going for? Didn't they make Aditya say that he never loved Malini and gave dosti the name of love? now they are going to flip on that too? What was saccha.... the non-communication or the lack of understanding or the simple fact that Aditya was calling someone who has suicidal tendencies as calm and understanding

@bold2 : Liked the line and hope they follow it but I do think they really need to first bring Imlie out of the "Didi" mode. Not sure how they will do it but tilI Imlie is stuck on "Didi ki khushi", she is not going to even entertain anything else. Just hope that the makers balance the two things now where we see Malini torture on one side, Aditya and Imlie continue to fight through the gloom (if she allows them to even meet... Rupi Di hopefully you do some magic here)

I do think that Malini will try to create doubts in the T's about A-I relationship to reduce Imlie apnapan and status in the house which might be the reason for her to leave or Aditya to break his silence, which as you said would be the next high point.

@bold: LOL I don't know what they are going to flip or not....all I'm saying is that the past few epis have been deliberately built up towards showing Malini's perspective which is all about how Adi supposedly left her suddenly and "suddenly" fell out of love with her after 7 years.....until someone corrects that in the story, I'm going to go with the presumption that this is what they intend to show for now.....and it's even less likely that Adi will ever realize Malini's emotions are more about obsession than love.....this is the way they try to keep her character going rather than openly calling out how toxic she is for every person in this story.

Yes, Adi himself knows that he never loved Malini....but until he manages to clear it to Imlie as well or to other characters in the story, this presumption will continue.....and frankly Adi saying this will also be pointless unless they explain ki Malini ki taraf se bhi it was a delusion only.....two people carried that delusion for 7 years....not one.....but for now, they are using the one-sided angle to paint Malini as a bechaari who was wronged, so *shrugs*

Re: Imlie....I don't expect her Didi jaap will ever go away properly but I do think if she starts to see how much Adi is suffering, it will give her pause. Adi ka dard always gets covered up in his gussa/rudeness and Didi bechaargi ke brownie points maar jaati hai......but I do feel Imlie will be unable to help herself from going to Adi if she sees him suffering.

Ab chaahe Didi jaap ho ya koi aur jaap, Adi-Imlie will continue to find their way to each other.....we just wait to see the how of it. As you said, Didi has in a sense ripped away the speculative layer on all this....ab sab khulle mein hai about who she resents and why.....it will be tougher for Imlie to keep her Didi jaap going in this situation as Malini's fake sweetness ka mask will keep slipping more often.....she just won't be able to help herself from trying to malign Adi-Imlie ka relationship....and it will just backfire on her in the long run when the truth gets revealed that Imlie is married to Adi😆....woh bhi FIRST😆

Originally posted by: MuteButton

First time in her privileged spoilt life when Malini could not get the commodity she wanted, she decided that ending her life was the only way out. And trying to end it in such a manner that the object she supposedly cherished would languish in hell for wanting to rectify a mistake so that everyone could live happily.

Malini’s trajectory is literally a guide to bad parenting for dummies.

If the makers want to glorify this sadomasochism, kudos. Jaise duniya mein dysfunction ki kami hai.

Yehi delusion toh break karna hai. Is it really love when you don’t give a damn about the person you love when it comes to being consumed with your own “pain” and ego? She seems to enjoy seeing him tormented and disrespected....how is that possibly love?

Let’s also not forget this is the same lady who left him when he was so sick two days back 🤔😆 . So ghanta pyar it’s always been no matter what she claims

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: LOL I don't know what they are going to flip or not....all I'm saying is that the past few epis have been deliberately built up towards showing Malini's perspective which is all about how Adi supposedly left her suddenly and "suddenly" fell out of love with her after 7 years.....until someone corrects that in the story, I'm going to go with the presumption that this is what they intend to show for now.....and it's even less likely that Adi will ever realize Malini's emotions are more about obsession than love.....this is the way they try to keep her character going rather than openly calling out how toxic she is for every person in this story.

Yes, Adi himself knows that he never loved Malini....but until he manages to clear it to Imlie as well or to other characters in the story, this presumption will continue.....and frankly Adi saying this will also be pointless unless they explain ki Malini ki taraf se bhi it was a delusion only.....two people carried that delusion for 7 years....not one.....but for now, they are using the one-sided angle to paint Malini as a bechaari who was wronged, so *shrugs*

Re: Imlie....I don't expect her Didi jaap will ever go away properly but I do think if she starts to see how much Adi is suffering, it will give her pause. Adi ka dard always gets covered up in his gussa/rudeness and Didi bechaargi ke brownie points maar jaati hai......but I do feel Imlie will be unable to help herself from going to Adi if she sees him suffering.

Ab chaahe Didi jaap ho ya koi aur jaap, Adi-Imlie will continue to find their way to each other.....we just wait to see the how of it. As you said, Didi has in a sense ripped away the speculative layer on all this....ab sab khulle mein hai about who she resents and why.....it will be tougher for Imlie to keep her Didi jaap going in this situation as Malini's fake sweetness ka mask will keep slipping more often.....she just won't be able to help herself from trying to malign Adi-Imlie ka relationship....and it will just backfire on her in the long run when the truth gets revealed that Imlie is married to Adi😆....woh bhi FIRST😆

@bold 1: I missed that part in all the melodrama that was going on or may be I am still stuck on the fact that she said ki "I married by best friend" so did not pay attention .... but her thought change so often and so fast that it really difficult to get a hang on her.😆.. She too goes from "0 to 100" into self pity mode...Whatever the truth is, she is going to make this as the point that "he loved me and changed" so get the sympathy and make Adi the best person..... Aditya ki baat to nobody will listen if he speak in the calm tone or even tries to object... I think that is one of the reason he blows up because only then people give his words credit warna sab unsuna hi kar dete hain or blame him for all wrongdoing,

Re: Imlie : I really hope that it does... For some reason from past few days that connection is not coming out as she is giving Didi importance.. I guess it might be their way to balance things so that Imlie does not get bashed for insensitivity. Imlie is affected by his pain, that is a given but she also has a tendency to blame herself for their dukh and only see Didi dukh.....and that is root of all problem.... i do hope Rupi Di plays a role here and keep her rooted on the ground instead of permanently activating her self sacrificing mode. @bold 2 : I so want to see this that Imlie puts Aditya before Malini and lets see when we get that.

@bold : 🤣😆both these things are going to really really prick and how.... wonder how she is going to digest it?