This show is truly disgusting. DT nt pg 6 - Page 6

I cant stand the show as well..Aditya is a big time loser who has no guts to speak the truth to Malini or his family and i hope they dont turn Malini a villian just to glorify the so called leads creepy romance !

Originally posted by: chullbulli

Very arrogant= our forum.

Banned = not at all... it should not be banned.. actors are working hard.. all I said was you guys are supporting HURTING CHEATING another woman who was LIED TRICKED INTO MARRIAGE BY A LIAR HUSBAND AND WAS BEING USED AS A SEX OBJECT..(globally it is recognised as rape, but indian audiences are so CONVENIENTLY not affected by it🤦🏻‍♀️😑)answer this part only and then no issues... so far NOT A SINGLE PERSON HAS answered this.. why are you not explaining it to me.

Moral values= I agree shows are for entertainment.. not for any moral value lesson... are you saying that whatever happened to Malini Is VERY ENTERTAINING for you...just on the point of MALINI..

I have watched many shows but called out wrong.. the difference here is you support MALINI BEING TORTURED..go ahead.. if that's what your morals have taught you.. I would not even try to change ur views.. here just to get some answers..and not getting ANY.

Who told you that we are supporting the torture of Malini are you out of your mind??? Did adi physically abused her??? He was so good to her even now he is..... He don't love her but it doesnt mean that he is treating her badly Infact malini didn't suffer the way imlie did still than imlie is strong and independent...... What about malini why the hell she is so fragile why can't she accept the truth.... Before marriage adi told her everything but what she got unconscious wow.... Just to save her, he got married again,,,, even adi wasn't aware that he'll fall in love with imlie ,,It was already decided by fate so what can we do in this haa...

And when did you saw adi and malini got physical,,, not a single episode was shown and if u think before marriage than i hope Malini isn't that type of girl who'll do this things before marriage.....watch the episode from beginning before commenting dear

Now it will be best that adi free her so that she can move on

Even we care about her and she don't deserve to live in a loveless marriage

Originally posted by: chullbulli

Strict action ...are u threatening me without answering my question? Glad to know that you call it a social evil... but you are coming after me when I ask questions. You are threatening me. WHY??

Please tell me what you idea of rape is.. I feel very disheartened when people don't take this seriously.

please tell me what adi did to Malini??? Was it out of love..OR did he take her only as friends with benefits..All the time telling the WORLD that he is married to Malini.. I am just confused... what will you call this??

Why are you bullying me when all I said was you guys are supporting HURTING CHEATING another woman who was LIED TRICKED INTO MARRIAGE BY A LIAR HUSBAND AND WAS BEING USED AS A SEX OBJECT..(globally it is recognised as rape, but indian audiences are so CONVENIENTLY not affected by it🤦🏻‍♀️😑)

I find it really annoying.. when you show DISPLEASURE FOR THE WORD RAPE and are not clarifying my doubts..you have religiously watched the show..

Did Aditya ever tell Malini that he is married to Imilie?

Did he still continue to sleep with Malini ..even after Malini THOUGHT ..AND HiS ENTIRE FAMILY FRIENDS THOUGHT that he is married ..? Was that a LIE

I AGREE THAT HE IS IN LOVE with IMLIE.. so he just USED MALINI TO SATISFY HIS SEXUAL DESIRES.. that too under false pretences.. when he was having sex with Malini did he tell her that HE DOESN'T THINK THAT MALINI IS HIS WIFE..

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Just a bit of clarification and reson behind your hatred towards Malini.

Probably she is an evil person who DESERVES to be treated that way..

Asking questions on what is troubling me so deeply is my business indeed.. you are not answering my questions but blaming me and bullying me.

Your statement reminds me of CHIEF MINISTER saying OH RAPES.. ye to ladke hain.. aur ladkon se to galtiyaan ho hi jaati hai... that justification happened in our society and no one was outraged..

It hurts me when I hear about INDIA being called a rape CAPITAL..

You guys PROMOTE GLORIFY SUCH behaviour and it cannot be called entertainment.

HOW CAN YOU CLASSIFY ANY OF MY QUESTIONS WRONG..?

ARE you not acting as BULLY HERE.

I am not moral policing. Do whatever you like..we all have freedom. But you want to take away my freedom to Express my views and trying to bully me

Also I did not make any personal remarks.

I asked questions..you cannot blame me without any reason

Your care and your compassion is very obvious

You call me ARE YOU OUT OF YOUR MIND.. in first 2 lines..

Then called MALINI a fragile being.. fine I Get your point of view.. there was no compulsion to MARRY her and save her.

You are insulting people first and then saying..oh I do care.. good going.

All the time maintaining that ADI is just so amazing..

My question was why did he sleep with her??? Was that very important..to maintain her CONSCIOUSNESS.. that is nothing but justification.

Originally posted by: AkriTiSha

Who told you that we are supporting the torture of Malini are you out of your mind??? Did adi physically abused her??? He was so good to her even now he is..... He don't love her but it doesnt mean that he is treating her badly Infact malini didn't suffer the way imlie did still than imlie is strong and independent...... What about malini why the hell she is so fragile why can't she accept the truth.... Before marriage adi told her everything but what she got unconscious wow.... Just to save her, he got married again,,,, even adi wasn't aware that he'll fall in love with imlie ,,It was already decided by fate so what can we do in this haa...

Now it will be best that adi free her so that she can move on

Even we care about her and she don't deserve to live in a loveless marriage

Originally posted by: AkriTiSha

Who told you that we are supporting the torture of Malini are you out of your mind??? Did adi physically abused her??? He was so good to her even now he is..... He don't love her but it doesnt mean that he is treating her badly Infact malini didn't suffer the way imlie did still than imlie is strong and independent...... What about malini why the hell she is so fragile why can't she accept the truth.... Before marriage adi told her everything but what she got unconscious wow.... Just to save her, he got married again,,,, even adi wasn't aware that he'll fall in love with imlie ,,It was already decided by fate so what can we do in this haa...

And when did you saw adi and malini got physical,,, not a single episode was shown and if u think before marriage than i hope Malini isn't that type of girl who'll do this things before marriage.....watch the episode from beginning before commenting dear

Now it will be best that adi free her so that she can move on

Even we care about her and she don't deserve to live in a loveless marriage

Originally posted by: chullbulli

Your care and your compassion is very obvious

You call me ARE YOU OUT OF YOUR MIND.. in first 2 lines..

Then called MALINI a fragile being.. fine I Get your point of view.. there was no compulsion to MARRY her and save her.

You are insulting people first and then saying..oh I do care.. good going.

All the time maintaining that ADI is just so amazing..

My question was why did he sleep with her??? Was that very important..to maintain her CONSCIOUSNESS.. that is nothing but justification.

I'm telling you again FirSt go and watch the episode from beginning.... He never slept with her just stop referring this again and again.... Malini and adi didnt had any physical relationship ,,,,From the beginning of the show it was clear that adi and imlie are destined to be together and it's very clear.... I have been watching this show from episode 1 and i can guarantee it that he just did hugs and forehead kisses other than that they didn't had any other type of relationship ....Miss stop spreading fake information

Originally posted by: Happysoul17

Attention seekers ab iss forum apna attendance de rahe hain. Itna morally judge kar rahe hain toh apne kisi nearest police station mein complaint filed kare against Gul and channel for encouraging bigamy ya fir petition file kare to end this show. Yahan ake kyun time waste karte hain aur dusro ko "digusting mindset category" mein tag kar dete hain. Itna delusional fans hai ko.... marital rape ki scene bhi nahi hai yahan par aur pata nahi kahan sai rape theory, India third world country, India capital of rape chipka diya?

Inhe bas apni marzi chalani hai hum log show first episode se dekh rahe hai abhi tak adi aur malini ke bich physical relationship jaisa kuch nahi dikhaya aur yeh kal ke aaye direct rape tak pahuch gaye hai.... Isne show dekha hi nahi hai isliye yeh baar baar rape rape chilla rahe hai....Inhe malini ki chintq hai chahe bina pyaar ke shaadi mein rehkar uska dum hi kyu na ghut jaaye....they aren't true fan's verna yeh log unlogo ki mehnat barbaad karne mein na lage rehte

This show is based on a story created by Bengali writer Leena Gangopadhyay. I read her interview after the original serial Ishti Kutum became a hit. She said this is based on a real life story of a woman that the writer is still in touch with. I find the story very interesting from a psychological point of view- Forced marriages in India held at gun point are in the news occasionally and the writer is trying to explore the emotional roller coaster the man and woman involved go through. That means there are real people who live through these stories. I like the fact that this is one of the most real stories I have seen.

Life often forces people in to strange roads and yes- not everyone will be morally correct all the time. Yes - Aditya wasn’t brave but in one of the early episodes they did show that he tried to tell Malini that he got married to Imlie and Malini collapsed and doctors said emotionally she is too fragile. At that time he believed himself to be in love with Malini and could not see her suffer and yes - he had no feelings for Imlie. But circumstances caused him to change- he realised that just as he was trapped into marriage with Imlie- she was also trapped. And Imlie through herself in the path of danger again and agian for him. But despite liking each other, they try what good people will try- she tries to leave him and he tries to leave her but they find out that they can’t.

Yes we wish there were a happy ending where no one is hurt but there isn’t. Life isn’t so black and white. There is so much grey. In IPKKND Anjali is so sweet and we feel it’s so wrong whatever happened to her but it’s easier to bear because her husband is pure evil. And the hero Arnav is pure good. Aditya is not in a situation where he can come out looking good.

I don’t think the show promotes polygamy rather it shows the quandary people can get into if they try to make everyone happy. Aditya is not like Shyam ( in IPKKND) who deliberately cheats two people. He is a victim himself. He genuinely believes that he loves Malini but is getting torn trying to do right by Imlie too- unlike Arnav in IPKKND who played with Lavanya’s feelings and was at the brink of marrying Lavanya knowing that he doesn’t love her.

Aditya is a very nuanced and difficult role to play which is precisely why Gashmeer who is a Marathi playwright and stage as well as film actor chose the role.

I can understand that people feel strongly about characters but in the end it is a story.

I don’t think it promotes marital rape or polygamy. To keep things simple I think an effort has been made to show that Adi and Malini never had an opportunity to have sex. And even if they did they are two epoeple who believe they love each other(it’s rape if one of the partners is not willing). But Adi- Malini relationship is kinda like Lavanya and Arnav in IPKKND ( remember the ‘live-in’”).

Except Adi goes thru rituals with Malini and believe they are married. Though legally their marriage is invalid because Adi is first and already married to Imlie. As long as Adi didnot divorce Imlie first- he is not married to Malini.

Marital rape is when one of the partners doesnot want to have sex and yet is forced to do it- usually in Indian marriages the husband forcing the wife. It is a very very serious issue for sure. But here- they never show Aditya using Malini in that way. In fact from the beginning he is so upset with himself for being a liar and a coward that there is no desire to consummate the marriage

How difficult is it to understand that if not love then the so called “second wife” deserves his honesty, he owes her that much.

Go ahead and love Imlie all you want, but dear Mr Spineless muster up some courage to be honest.

Nothing against Adilie, the show was about them to begin with and I was a fan... but Aditya failed... as a husband... as a friend... as a human being.

Making them both live under same roof is beyond cruel... downright nasty... not only to Malini but to Imlie as well. Pathetic. A complete looser.

Calling a spade, a spade is no crime. So people stop ganging up like bloodthirsty hounds on people who have courage to do so...

And yes...No rule in IF says that you cannot critisize things you find offensive or did I missed it....

First wife... first wife... I can’t express how that word grates on my nerves... have some compassion people...

And don’t come up to me with “You don’t watch the show” because I do...that too on tv... with no feature of skipping. And believe me the trp you people chant about comes from audiences who watch it as an episode of crime petrol dealing with infidelity... in which a depraved male is central character but no hero...