Adi's restless search for answers - Page 3

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL haan he's deffo having a hard time with this new normal where iske bulaane pe Imlie instantly appear nahin ho jaayegi😆.....ego pe definitely lagi when Imlie ne baat nahin ki isse....even though the tadap in the way she said his name before she asked to pass the phone should have been enough to tell him everything😆.

Baat yeh bhi hai ki he knows his status in Imlie's life since so long cuz she's drummed it into him over and over again that he is her husband....kahin na kahin woh baat subconsciously iske bhi dimaag mein ghar kar gayi hai but yeh maanega nahin😆......It's true though that if someone keeps expressing your importance in their life for so long, you become used to it, you become attached to it and then jhatka lagta hai if it's taken away from you....that seems to be what's happening with Adi here since Imlie has pulled back now.

Aadat, lagaav toh phir bhi chalo aam kisi ke saath kuch din rehke bhi ho sakte hain.....but Adi ke andar is waqt TADAP hai....which doesn't happen for general aadat waali feelings😆.....he is yearning for Imlie....for her presence, for her voice, her words.....har ek cheez ki kami ise ab tangibly feel ho rahi hai.

On a different note, given how totally in love Prakash seems to be with Imlie, yeh toh readymade groom baitha padaa hai....Will Babusahib try to make that suggestion to him too ki tum ho achhe ladke, kar lo Imlie se shaadi? 😆

The BS we are seeing now will kill all and thrn himself before suggesting that unless that also comes out of his insane damage control action to.solve the problem with himself ke shayad tah it will all get okay but then if it does happen his restlessness and irritation will only Inc and he will be even more confused ke ab kyon ho rahaa hai as he is seemingly making amends😆

Wohi toh chinta sabko thi baat sabne ki tasalli sabko mili but he took it too personally because it was personal caz woh woh hai imlie ka khaas even if he himself denies her that so when she did the same thing toh chubh gaya and he became so wounded .. how dare her ignore me how is it possible.. bohat le lia for granted Babusahib ab bataaein aapko kaisa lag raha hai being on this side ..

Now waiting for the screenshots of Adi’s dejected face when Imlie didn’t want to speak with him 😄😄

Originally posted by: MuteButton

Have to write about how the anger built up to a crescendo all because she did not answer him! My my.

You live your life for 30 years. Work with conviction. Do what is expected of you. You manage to make sure all requirements of convenience, including relationships, you have accumulated along the way is lined up exactly the way you think it needs to be. You are forced into getting married. You try your utmost to snap away from it. But the walls you have built are crumbling because the person you were forced into marrying is the only one who gets you at a very intuitive level. Gets you as a human being, appreciates you for who you want to be and encourages you to be who you inherently are. Every single moment Aditya decided that the status quo was better than facing reality head on led to his outburst when he decided to talk to Imlie about what her future could entail. Today’s anger was a culmination of trying to push Imlie away and keep Malini closer. Three lives have forever been changed.

There will be a lot of drag, a lot of problems, a of doubts, a lot of Malini and a lot of AC in the days ahead. But Aditya and Imlie will not let the other fail.

Such a beautiful week this has been so far.

@Bold : yes 🙌 That’s going to be be the beauty of rest of their journey! It’s going to be a wild ride!

Originally posted by: MuteButton

Have to write about how the anger built up to a crescendo all because she did not answer him! My my.

You live your life for 30 years. Work with conviction. Do what is expected of you. You manage to make sure all requirements of convenience, including relationships, you have accumulated along the way is lined up exactly the way you think it needs to be. You are forced into getting married. You try your utmost to snap away from it. But the walls you have built are crumbling because the person you were forced into marrying is the only one who gets you at a very intuitive level. Gets you as a human being, appreciates you for who you want to be and encourages you to be who you inherently are. Every single moment Aditya decided that the status quo was better than facing reality head on led to his outburst when he decided to talk to Imlie about what her future could entail. Today’s anger was a culmination of trying to push Imlie away and keep Malini closer. Three lives have forever been changed.

There will be a lot of drag, a lot of problems, a of doubts, a lot of Malini and a lot of AC in the days ahead. But Aditya and Imlie will not let the other fail.

Such a beautiful week this has been so far.

Haha very nice summary of Adi's situation here😆....he did everything "by the book" in a sense all his life but now he's learning that life doesn't always play by the rules and you find the ultimate treasure on the most unlikely of paths that your lifelong rulebook doesn't know about.

Absolutely....what Adi is facing now is a culmination of not having faced his reality much earlier....burying your head in the sand never pays off....it only ends up hurting more people in the long run, including yourself.

I sense a boomerang effect forming now.....his frustration today is a culmination of trying to push Imlie away and keep Malini close but it's all backfiring and resulting in him craving for the very Imlie he tried to push away for so long.

Waise I don't know if I'm overthinking but his behavior in today's epi sounds like it will have to be a bigger realization for him to go to PD than "I need to help Imlie take her exams so she needs to come back with me"😆. The way his father was talking to him about running away from himself, hiding something from himself....is it possible he will realize something on a big level about his feelings for Imlie? I can't imagine love right now but the way he keeps thinking about what his boss said is making me wonder if he will leap to that conclusion that his truth is that he can't live without Imlie anymore.

Desperation hai baat karne ki,pass hone ki,duri sahi nahi jarahi -So finally we are witnessing the initial budding stage of Adi's love story ❤️Ignore hone pe intensification of Frustration is a sign if only the bailbuddu realizes k isse Imlie k aage mun bhi nhi dikhrhi,he"ll get his answers...Magar nahi pagal hojayega ye mgr sochega nahi🤣

Thank you for the lovely updates this has me so excited about today episode 😃

If possible can we get to see Aditya pictures of the outburst🙂

Originally posted by: pamk06

Poor Malini really does not get when to not instigate the sleeping lion. This is the second time she is doing it and she has not learnt yet when to let him be 😊

Malini just can't read him anymore😆....maybe she never really could, but now that he's not bothering to give her the "sanitized" version of Adi, she's more thrown off😆.

The hilarious thing is that she started the convo by presuming that he must be worried for Imlie since the last time they had a big fight was indeed because he was SO worried about Imlie that he shouted at AC as well as Malini😆.....that's the excuse he gave to Malini then na? Ki I was so worried for Imlie cuz meri zimmedaari hai blah blah.....so Malini was operating under that assumption still....lol but yahaan Adi totally FLIPPED again into showing that he doesn't give a damn about Imlie and why is Malini talking so much about her? 😆......If Malini had a brain, she would wonder why Adi is giving such contradictory reactions about Imlie.....instead, she went and tattled to her sasumaa ki Adi use gussa karta rehta hai like a pouty 5 year old😆.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Haha very nice summary of Adi's situation here😆....he did everything "by the book" in a sense all his life but now he's learning that life doesn't always play by the rules and you find the ultimate treasure on the most unlikely of paths that your lifelong rulebook doesn't know about.

Absolutely....what Adi is facing now is a culmination of not having faced his reality much earlier....burying your head in the sand never pays off....it only ends up hurting more people in the long run, including yourself.

I sense a boomerang effect forming now.....his frustration today is a culmination of trying to push Imlie away and keep Malini close but it's all backfiring and resulting in him craving for the very Imlie he tried to push away for so long.

Waise I don't know if I'm overthinking but his behavior in today's epi sounds like it will have to be a bigger realization for him to go to PD than "I need to help Imlie take her exams so she needs to come back with me"😆. The way his father was talking to him about running away from himself, hiding something from himself....is it possible he will realize something on a big level about his feelings for Imlie? I can't imagine love right now but the way he keeps thinking about what his boss said is making me wonder if he will leap to that conclusion that his truth is that he can't live without Imlie anymore.

@bold - you are not alone. I thought about the exact same thing. He is a literal volcano with effusive eruptions without her presence for a mere few hours. Why does he end up in PD if not for something more exalting.

We might get a very pheeka reason in the end but today’s Aditya was a walking advertisement for despair. His last scene today showed him heaving....how beautifully did they bring that out. Aditya cannot even exhale without Imlie.

All this is also because both of them never spoke about their near death experiences. Imlie atleast thanked him once but he brushed it off in his usual brusque manner - brushing off the bond that had already connected them when Imlie saved his life the first time around.

In some of the versions snake and in some scorpion bit the Adi and Imlie will take care of him. But she will not go back to t house with him and she will go and stay in PG. But now we have to see what they show in this serial and how they execute?

Originally posted by: sandyjayaram

Good episode today. Aditya’s face just dropped when Imlie asked him to give the phone to Badke Kaka🤣 and then he took out all that frustration on Malini and his dad. But good advice from papa tripathi. Why do I get this feeling when the whole family is planning a trip for Adithya and Moon, he will leave for PD instead and I am sure he will show the same frustration to Imlie with so much more intensity. Bring it on! Let’s hope this week lives up to our expectations!

That would be awesome! Poor Malini! Blissfully unaware of what has happened to Aditya.