For Once...Aarzoo Is Relateable

Have any of you ever been in love?

Love can never be more precious than one's self respect and dignity Sahir was questioning her honor, and she stood their like a useless object and than went away??? just because she loves sahir and is hurt because she expected to believe him,why one expect from another to believe in her/his actions, she's the girl who cannot even take her father's name with hers,living in man of world,striving hard to exist without her father and yet when the man she loved questioned her honor she remained dumb?? this is beyond my understanding.

Dignity above everything, so hell nooo to the idea of forgiving insult of honor because of love.

you say grudge, so tell me, if you love someone truly, and that person is thinking that you are cheating on him and decides to test you and later you come to know of it,what will you do? just simply forget and forgive? you say love is about forgiving isn't love is about trust above everything?

that was just simply for the sake of argument, in case of aarzoo she has given all reasons to sahir for suspecting her for two timer and yet she has failed to realize her faults.



P.S. Like always, she can't be related.

Mallu

mallu...

Yes women in love do that...forgive and move on..but in real life all this scenario plays out like a domestic abuse case...he pushes her and then mentally abuses her..but she excuses him and moves on..and then she mentally abuses him.. 😆 ..just my two cents 😉

Really? Mubarik ho ... I am still waiting for the day ... because i could not relate to her "kashi hum aap ko samjha patey" ... as if she tried to tell him several times and he refused to listen lol

taanu...

Originally posted by: -vandy-

taanu...

domestic violence is a very sensitive issue...its better we don't drag it here...

my topic simply points y i can atleast relate to aarzoo...

That was the first thing that comes to mind..sorry should not have quoted it here

at some point in time when the one you love questions your dignity and morality why bother to retaliate...what good will it do if you have to defend yourself to the one you love...arzoo is right in many ways not to have answer sahir...yes at times his taunts can add up to domestic abuse mentally and physically...and I have always debated why the writers of these serials tend to make the hero aggressive...because for many it appears to be abuse and it would be expected the heroine to fight back...

we should not blame arzoo for attending her birthday party for she has never had anyone celebrated her birth so yes the thought excites her because the man she fell in love with is celebrating her birthday and she is a bit hesitant to celebrate with him because of the accusations onto her but she goes anyway because her heart tells her to not her head...because she wants so desperately to understand him and give him a chance...because she is in love with him...and maybe she is thinking it is his way of saying sorry...the viewers know differently...put yourself in her position and just maybe maybe you all would do the same...I think once she finds out that sahir is trying to trap he she will walk away because that might be the straw that broke the camels back...and in walking way the writers might create another dramatic seen where arzoo and hurts badly making sahir regret every moment he hurt her...and even when she recovers sahir will be begging for arzoo's love because she was the purest thing in his life...she expected no fame honour money or luxuries from him...all arzoo wanted was to be a great designer to support her family... for sahir he has a lot to let go of and if we are critical of arzoo then sahir has to be blame as well she should not be willing to feed himself to the devil for zeenet it is signs of a weak man...if zeenet really cheated on him then why is he entertaining kurti and he praises of zeenet...but yes somewhere he has feelings for arzoo and he is rejecting it because he is a man with a mission and he is trying to hide these feelings and now he has gotten the opportunity to express his feelings without fear because in the eyes of all he is trying to prove arzoo is a gold digger but deep down he is doing this because he is also in love with her and has hurt her tremendously hence the reason he will be caught with real emotions...because he is also thinking with his heart until he hurts her with his head thinking...and when he loses her or comes close to lose her he will actually give everthing up for her...

Originally posted by: -vandy-

mallu...

i agree he questioned her honour and self respect...

so in that case she should've given up everything and just moved out?

is that what we do in real life???

i doubt...

its easy to sit back and say...aarzoo should just move out... its tough to be there...and reason with ur heart

for me...the fact that she decides to forgive in love...is whats relateable

move out but from what??? love or moving out without taking firm action against sahir's accuses?

she's definitely not moving out without telling sahir that he has no right to question her honor, if she wants to stay for that reason, than she can be relateable like you said.

Mallu

Vandy,