Originally posted by: sheena_786
This time I take Aarzoo's side!!
As much I am in lovebaaz with psychobaaz I feel he expects too much from Arzoo. Yes he's stood up for her in the past but at the same time he's also made life difficult for & has humiliated her the last time being at the office re her father!!
After the argument I think Sahir more than made it clear he has all the rights to know about Arzoo but she isn't allowed to pry I to his personal life - hypocrite? He made it more than clear he wanted her to stay away & she makes no difference to him whatsoever. We, as viewers know usko farak padta hain, Arzoo doesn't! this is why I totally agree with Arzoo why should she explain herself to Sahir? Who is he to her? Technically all he is, is her boss!! she addresses him as Sir and yes she has fallen in love with him but those are feelings only known to her. Really Sahir should control himself with trying to make unofficial claims on Arzoo as he is technically married to Zeenat!!
We have Zaki she can be open with him; he doesn't physically manhandle her; isn't abusive towards her; he is just Zaki; constant flirt but he always brings a smile to her face. She mentioned re a friend; I've read a bewafa post re her friend in Lucknow but I think she's more of a family friend? this is Zaki who never judges her; is just there. Could she have meant a male friend like a brother? As usual Zaki has misinterpretated but he could be Saaz's surprise Cupid!
Finally, the eyes? Reading of the eyes but some times it just needs to be voiced!! More hypocrisy? Well his eyes want Arzoo as his own but he can't clarify it himself? She means zilch yet he acts as if Arzoo is his wife!! He speaks big words but doesn't take his own advice no wonder she is confused!!
Let's see how the track unfolds but everyone has literally gone Humsafars crazy regardless of liking this track!! Kudos for alvira for believing in Arzoo
He apologized for every single time he made her cry...explicitly said that he was sorry for insulting her wrt her father...that doesn't hold any weightage?? And the humiliation as you call it was because she he the fact that sarfaraz was her father...the situation was like that and he behaved like a boss...but when he realized he apologized...he was the better person!
And no Sahir has not asked Arzoo to reveal her pain to him...he found out himself...not by badgering her ever ..when she said personal matter he didn't ask further...not even about her dad...he came to know from Alvira...that argument was the first time ever that Arzoo asked him...and she got frustrated so quickly...whereas he has stood up for her more times than he has been bad to her...and even those times he has made up...she wouldn't be in love with him if all he has done is insult her...or does she have some issue too??
Sahir has never made any claim on her...see this is the issue...when he didn't share his pain he was having double standards...and if he tried to help her he is immoral...then what should he do...if he had kept quiet it would have meant he didn't believe her...now that he is asking her how can he lay claim to her??
He doesn't have to be in a relationship with her to ask her why she kept quiet about that accusation,,he trusted her and wanted to help,,,just like he defended her character earlier...and she was actually grateful for that...and praised him to he skies...did he share his pain with her then?? No..he had if I remember right insulted her...why did she thank him?? She is more inconsistent than him.
Yes as an audience we know Sahir cares and Arzoo doesn't,..similarly we also know why he can't be open with her...so why do we judge him so harshly??
If he has no right why should she expect him to read h eyes??and how could he understand the reason why she kept quiet by reading her eyes?? It wasn't hypocrisy in any manner..he expressed twice that he trusted her and wanted to know the reason...she was rude and arrogant and didn't not that or didn't want to!he didn't even have to read her eyes...he trusted her that's why he asked the reason she didn't defend herself and not is she pregnant?.
I think just like we make so many speculations regarding could Arzoo have meant that or could she have done this ...when we aren't shown those on TV we should give Sahir some space too!
Rohini wS Arzoos friend...not a family friend...Arzoo clearly said yeah she had no friend and that was a lie...so the bewafa post was spot on!
And regarding Zaki not judging Arzoo doesn't judge him either..but she has always always judged Sahir...so it works both ways!
Edited by prettypri - 10 years ago
Ufff Yeh Love Hai Mushkil
