Why should Sahir stand up for or support Arzoo?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Tell me one good reason please
Sahir and Arzoo are not in a relationship ... Sahir has not even realized yet that he loves arzoo and arzoo hasn't told him that she loves him ... their last interaction in office arzoo made it clear its' her personal matter and she does not want him to interfere nor want to tell him ... Then why is he expected to support her or believe her or stand up for her, specially when she herself is not going to speak and say she is not pregnant? Just because she is a girl and in trouble does not make it his responsibility to stand up for her when she herself told him before leaving office she does not want any interference so why should he?

He saw Zaki and Arzoo very close in the house, later at the dinning table she literally pushed him, then zaki's dialogue there, then her leaving work and him finding her at the hospital ... she sits there with zaki and a doctor tells him about the couple being pregnant ... then when kurti apa asks she stays mum does not even refute ... yet Sahir is expected to understand her? Why?

Sahir may have many flaws given how his past has affected him ... but he has been a very fair man ... who goes by facts not emotions from day one ... still he always went out of this way to support her and do things for her ... but this time why should he, when she herself is mum and not refuting, he is not God to know she made some stupid promise to a friend! (which by the way no woman will make compromising her dignity)

Just because he is a man and she is a girl in self brought trouble does not necessarily mean he is obliged to support her ... if they were in a relationship it would be a different thing ... but they are not!!!

To say he should know her character ... well he has stood up for her every time till now hasn't he? Gone against people in his family for her ... He vouched that she was in his room even without wondering if she had been in zaki's room earlier... He has proven what he thinks of her once too often... but that does not mean he is obliged to do it even when she herself is not willing to! If arzoo chose to help her friend for whatever absurd reason how is that Sahir's fault?





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TaanuDeewani thumbnail
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Agree...this time around Arzoo should get out of this mess herself. Hope Zaki doesn't stoop to an even lower level..he should be the one clearing the air and owning up his mistake rather than hiding it..GROW UP ZAKI!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Also, why is it always expected from sahir only to be supportive ? why is it expected from him everytime to blast kurti apa and sarfaraz and anam, whenever they plot against the so called innocent arzoo ? he never did ask for ask arzoo to prove anything, she had been making mistakes since day one, and he still gave her an upperhand only because he understood that may be her innocence is her biggest flaw.. but at this point why should he care and even bother about innocence, when she clearly seems to snub him, corner his presence and be all over zaki, moreover, he knows this is the same arzoo who had given multiple letures on her chastity and sharifness when he had asked her to follow good clothing , and now the same girl is doing nothing ? and for what ?
Arzoo is being shameful here, because she is behaving contradictory to her philosophy as she was the girl who hated her father to be a cheat and wronging her mother with another woman, and she is the girl who is helping zaki in a similar case, get rid off his [past only because he doesnt want samaira anymore ?n wow arzoo, such innocence better not seen by sahir...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Yes, but they are supposed to be humsafars and they will always be there for each other. Sahir cant help but feels bad when Arzoo is insulted.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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and honestly, everytime he becomes harsh or strict, arzoo jumps her gun and judges him based on his behaviour and still he is accused about his behaviour.. this time its arzoo's behaviour, and he cant even judge her ?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Absolutely no reason at all for him to go out of his way this time...it's totally a personal matter...she herself said it..and she has shown she wants to set the terms in any relationship and wants to ensure those terms are honoured!
He apologised and she wanted to share in his pain,,,when she pushed too far he flared up and she gave back more than what she got..she even threw it in his face the next day in a totally unrelated context.
After all this and the signs of closeness he witnessed between Zaki and Arzoo and now the pregnancy test fiasco that happened in front of him...there is no way he can be expected to step in and speak for her especially if she herself keeps mum.
The onus of proving her innocent or whatever is not at all on him ...he doesn't have to do anything.
She volunteered to take this accusation on herself and it's upto her to deal with the consequences or speak the truth!
Just like Arzoo is free to do what she wants and as she pleases and support whoever she wants to any extent Sahir can choose to not get into the matter at all!

That would be in keeping with her wishes that her personal matters remain personal and he not ask about them!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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may be because our mind has been brain washed that Sahir and Arzoo "will" fall for each other and its our typical mind set that "we want Sahir to stand up for Arzoo" as he has done earlier! The story is going where it has to be Sahir is doing what he is was asked to do not to interfere in Arzoo's life! Its the "typical audiance that whant Sahir to stand up for Arzoo and according to them "They love each other" (which will be later on) 😉
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Posted: 10 years ago
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100% agree with you...arzoo should speak up..arzoo mata,somebody is accusing you for illegitimate pregnancy ...aaj ni bola tou kb bolegi.. n why sahir should stand for her...without even knowing the truth..who is he..a psychic so that he would read her mind n realise how innocent and pure she is and shut everyone up.. I want sahir to keep his mum atleast in front of arzoo even if he finds the truth bcuz arzoo needs to know that this is not even an act of mahanata..this is just dumb..but yeah after the truth comes out I want sahir to take serious classes of anam, KA and zaki offcourse ... seriously these three should leave my SaAz alone...FYI losers my sahir is not jobless like you three..he has bigger and better things to deal with n uski sangat me hi sahi but arzoo bhi kuch kaam krne lagi hy...so let my SaAz do their work and romance
Edited by silky_harshad - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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ofcorz when sahir will come to know about the truth he'll react! But for now let arzoo do her job of fulfilling a dumb promise! Its none of Sahir business! Unless his brother is involve! Zaki knows the truth so he should stand up for Arzoo!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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No how can Sahir support Arzoo here? Nobody is expecting him to support in this situation. If someone has to object this then it's Arzoo herself or Zakki. Arzoo's silence is as usual a tried out soapy tactic and also a filmy reason of fulfilling a stupid promise given to Zaki. And one more thing is added to that list, which Sahir's deal and Rehman's hand in it. She could be silent so that their relationship or this pregnancy revelation may cause huge problem to the deal. Whatever could be the reason the cvs show, this trend of making the female leads a Mahaan aathma is so irritating as well as unrealistic to watch!
Edited by BinduD - 10 years ago

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