Sushpective: Rules of Engagement!! - Page 3

Originally posted by: ultimaterudra

will be back ...

Lalit back in directors chair ...what a stunning episode 😛 Harshad was amazing ...voice modulation and expressions were phenomenal .

"When clouds of pain loom in the sky
When a shadow of sadness flickers by
When a tear finds its way to the eye
When fear keeps the loneliness alive
I try and console my heart
Why is it that you cry? I ask

This is only what life imparts
These deep silences within
Have been handed out to all by time
Everyone's story has a little sorrow
Everyone's share has a little sunshine

No need for water in your eyes
Every moment can be a new life
Why do you let them pass you by?
Oh heart, why is it that you cry?"

~ Javed Akhtar

"Et tu, Brute?"

~William Shakespeare

"Pain is a pesky part of being human, I've learned it feels like a stab wound to the heart, something I wish we could all do without, in our lives here. Pain is a sudden hurt that can't be escaped. But then I have also learned that because of pain, I can feel the beauty, tenderness, and freedom of healing. Pain feels like a fast stab wound to the heart. But then healing feels like the wind against your face when you are spreading your wings and flying through the air! We may not have wings growing out of our backs, but healing is the closest thing that will give us that wind against our faces."

~ C. JoyBell C.

Originally posted by: redviolet

Well let me start off with my appreciation for Saahir. His apology was much appreciated. And I felt even needed as I felt there were a few situations he could have handled better. I always believe a dark past is not an excuse for anything really. But his attempt to reach out to Arzoo really says something. If this was an out and out egotistic man he would have simply started ignoring Arzoo the way she was ignoring him or man-handled her or created a humiliating scene to catch her attention. But Saahir actually showed concern even in his possessiveness. He thought about what could be bothering her? His overwhelming concern for her and his appreciation for Arzoo the independent women, he is actually starting to remind me of someone I once use to look upto and admire. (Minus , hurting himself, anger fits, and split personality) Maybe before Zeenat happened he was almost exactly like this person.

The lines Arzoo uttered "Zindagi both der tak tedhi lakeer par chalt rahe. To tedhi lakeerer bhi seedhi lagne lagti hai." I felt this holds a signifigance. It is there to explain something more. Perhaps why she is drawn to Saahir. She herself has lead a very complex life "Zindagi both der tak tedhi lakeer par chalti rahe". So it explain why she is drawn a complex man like Saahir "Tedhi lakeerer bhi seedhi lagne lagti hai." Saahir looked at her with a bit admiration later on. As he too is a romanticist and artist who likes poetry. He appreciated her insightful thought. The admiration was evident on her face. Not only that but he related to the "Zindagi both der par tedhi lakeer tak chalti rahe."

About Arzoo demanding for equal rights in engagement. I completely second you. I said this in Jyoti's post. When he has shown so much rights on her to the point of even warning her own father to stay away from and has the privilege of knowing about her painful past than she should have the similar rights. It takes two to tango and the both must be equally engaged. Not only this but I feel and perhaps Arzoo too feels that if she knew about the past she could understand his constant mood swings and why he says one thing and actually wants another. After so many confusing encounters with him a girl would demand some answers in love or not.

He himself is so confused about what he feels and what he wants. Arzoo is no genious either she needs a bit more insight on him. Having that said I do feel that after such a sincere apology from Saahir so beautifully put forth his awesome choice of words (again he is shown to be a romanticist deep down.) I would have reiterated a few words of appreciation as well and let the moment stay positive. Though you know how much I appreciate and adore this modern cutebaaz Arzoo.

Now though I am starting to appreciate Saahir more and more each passing episode. Let me put forth what you seem to be hinting and what would bother me. If Saahir were to marry Arzoo due the business deal, that would mean to me that his ego, pride and promise he made to Zeenat hold more value to him than Arzoo or human emotion. A marriage is no joke. He decides to marry her once than Arzoo's life is either made or destroyed. I would be disappointed, really disappointed!

Awesome post Sush and beautiful collages Shweta!

ummm for me Sahir and Arzoo are not in a relationship ... so Sahir owes her nothing ... modern women for me atleast don't behave this way ... in fact they know when to give space ... he apologized as a boss for something that was not even his fault proving he is above ego and all (he was her boss she is an employee and worst things happen, here tou it was clear arzoo chose that vendor, he didnt ask her to become Joe or interfere in his matters) and what she does? With attitude like this if people misunderstand her it would be her fault too ... I have been saying all along that Sahir has issues, so does arzoo ... she is immature and impulsive and she needs to learn and improve herself as well! Sahir is under no obligation whatsoever yet to tell her about his pain, he has no way to know arzoo loves him that she will ask and he will tell ... that mey har hadd paar kar joun gi dialogue i felt was so misplaced! I understand she is prompted by love.. But she lacked patience and pushed him away further... It was the first time she asked him outright... If it was so easy why would he be so closed off in the first place?... And he had never badgered her to share her issues even as a boss .. Remember the sick mom time or the first time he saw sarfraz with her? ... Arzoo never told him anything, he found out from other or through circumstances, its not like arzoo shared her pain with him and in return he is not willing to share his ... For him he hasn't expressed any feelings for her.. Neither has she! It has been said here a lot of times that arzoo is a private person (so much so that she was not ready to tell the reason of her absence from work) then how come she is not ready to give that space to someone else? This is not about dominating the relationship ... fact is there is no relationship yet! Also none should dominate it has to be equal! I do understand her love is forcing her but this way she will push her love further away

Originally posted by: Ilin

Perfect post to the perfect SAaz scenes with perfect quotes to the gorgeous collages WOW! Sush and Shwetha you guys make a deadly combo.. What a pleasure to read your post after each episode 👏

Absolutely loved the SAaz scene the hand holding and the looks Sahir gives to Aarzoo my heart skipped a beat there 😳

The gorgeous black beauties were looking so good together following with an intense scene which is done best by Gul and Lalit combo Harshad you were fab too good your expressions change from loving to angst 👏
Shivya was not far behind the leads are doing excellent job 👍🏼

Sush you're right Sahir's biggest DEAL might lead to his personal life and could be Nikaah to Aarzoo I have an inkling to that too but well lets see what's in store for us.. Looking forward to the track 😃

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Originally posted by: Soaps1

Nice post and nice collages as usual!

ummm for me Sahir and Arzoo are not in a relationship ... so Sahir owes her nothing ... modern women for me atleast don't behave this way ... in fact they know when to give space ... he apologized as a boss for something that was not even his fault proving he is above ego and all (he was her boss she is an employee and worst things happen, here tou it was clear arzoo chose that vendor, he didnt ask her to become Joe or interfere in his matters) and what she does? With attitude like this if people misunderstand her it would be her fault too ... I have been saying all along that Sahir has issues, so does arzoo ... she is immature and impulsive and she needs to learn and improve herself as well! Sahir is under no obligation whatsoever yet to tell her about his pain, he has no way to know arzoo loves him that she will ask and he will tell ... that mey har hadd paar kar joun gi dialogue i felt was so misplaced! I understand she is prompted by love.. But she lacked patience and pushed him away further... It was the first time she asked him outright... If it was so easy why would he be so closed off in the first place?... And he had never badgered her to share her issues even as a boss .. Remember the sick mom time or the first time he saw sarfraz with her? ... Arzoo never told him anything, he found out from other or through circumstances, its not like arzoo shared her pain with him and in return he is not willing to share his ... For him he hasn't expressed any feelings for her.. Neither has she! It has been said here a lot of times that arzoo is a private person (so much so that she was not ready to tell the reason of her absence from work) then how come she is not ready to give that space to someone else? This is not about dominating the relationship ... fact is there is no relationship yet! Also none should dominate it has to be equal! I do understand her love is forcing her but this way she will push her love further away

Zaki ... i don't know after this how can he still claim to love arzoo or wish to marry her? I mean Sumaira doesn't seem like a one night stand ... she has his messages, they have pictures together ... and if she is pregnant now how can he not own his child? 🤔

The precap Alvira ... people keep telling me she is a concerned mother ... but isn't it strange we have never once seen her talk to Sahir about anything ... about how he is so engrossed in work ... her telling him how he has stopped living? ... how he is so caught up in making money ... now when all is at stake she is suddenly asking him questions? ... money minded much?

Originally posted by: BHAVII

res will be back after dinner

unres

The essence of the day was communication.

The apology aand every word behind it was said with elan. NO big words, no running round the bush just clear cut message which gave both hopes. One thought he would say the magical 3 words whereas the other just was free of guilt until the time reality hit him hard. Arzoo is such aa strong lady on Indian TV. I mean she is not ready to give in. If she wants answer she will aask. It does not matter if that meaans asking Gabbar Chaudhry or asking Sweet Chaudhry.

Both did splendid job in acting, but HC took the cup today. He was awesome.

Arzoo in black and her dress was just beautiful.

Today I felt bad for Zaki.

And an epidode without Anam was relief. That woman too needs a makeover and wear some sensible clothes.

I am liking this actress playing KA. She is doing one hell of a job depicting KA and for once have a feeling that sshe may not br actually a kurti cheez.

Sush great post and swetha awesome collage and quotes .

Originally posted by: aidan34

Feeling bad after one of the post said that HS has got only 3 months extension.
Why do good shows who have good potential have to go off air under Trps pressure.
In this way no show can get a chance to tell a different story.
Now within 3 months what story can be developed?wen it will time to pack up!

Sush,
Nice post.

we may not like TRP but it is there. If it is not high the show goes. That's how it is.

I feel too many spoilers are also not good for the story.

The farak nahin padta scene is not about whether Arzoo has a right to ask Sahir to tell her about his past. It is to set the scene for a later farak padta hai scene. Which is coming up fast, from the spoilers.

Originally posted by: -Sush-

I promised myself that I will not stay awake beyond 11:00 PM at the latest ...Hope you will be back soon...😃

True that! Kay sera sera...