Arzoo go confront sahir or I will kill u - Page 3

Also i fail to understand why you wrote its not the time to say he looks hot ... I mean where did that come from?and how is that related to the topic? 😆

Originally posted by: redviolet

Vandy Di (if I can call you that) i believe in the forest she told him that her father left her just because she is a girl. you can assume a girl like that most likely wont have positive feelings towards her father. go back to forest scene she def told him that. so why would she want to help him??? also he knows every time Arzoo has made major goof ups at the office Anam's had a hand in it. Agree she hasnt told him about her father but when the topic came about them she hardly know him. like you said you can just give so much personal info to someone you hardly even know. maybe if saahir had asked her now it would have been a different story.

Frankly we need to cut Sahir some slack..!

Originally posted by: Soaps1

Also i fail to understand why you wrote its not the time to say he looks hot ... I mean where did that come from?and how is that related to the topic? 😆

Originally posted by: -vandy-

yes of course u can call me that😊

see violet...

i wrote clearly in the post that sahir will only know what has been told to him...he knows aarzoo's father left her and she is hurt...

but does he know he married again? does he know aarzoo hates him to the core? no...

there is a saying in hindi...khoon khoon ko kheechta hai...so the general opinion is...sarfaraz is her father...and if needed..she will help him...

but in order to form the real opinion..sahir needs to know aarzoo's true feellings towards sarfaraaz...which she did not tell him...

and yes...u r right...sahir is nobody to aarzoo that she should share her personal things with him...

but...if her personal relationship hampers sahir's dream...his business...that guy sure needs some serious explainations

red...tell me one thing...if u would be in sahir's position...would u keep ur cool??? think omg nooo..its anam who'll be behind all this???

no...the first thing that comes to ur mind is...i've seen sarfaraz talking with aarzoo...and now sarfaraaz gets this contract...

Well I will tell you one thing Di! I believe in "innocent until proven guilty" it the law here in the US for very good reasons. so if I were in Saahir's place I would give Arzoo an opportunity to give a full explanation rather than just ask her a yes or no question. yes there is saying "koon koon ko keechta hai" but its cant 100% guarantee anything. And if your father hated and left you just because you were a girl than any self-respecting girl would dislike no matter if he got remarried or not. and from what I know Saahir considers Arzoo a self-respecting girl as he said she never lies. in short i dont really think either is at fault just victims of circumstances and misunderstandings. but if i were Saahir i would at least give Arzoo a fair chance to explain herself instead of just asking is Sarfaraz is her father. she is not really at fault for being the daughter of an idiot is she?

Originally posted by: redviolet

Well I will tell you one thing Di! I believe in "innocent until proven guilty" it the law here in the US for very good reasons. so if I were in Saahir's place I would give Arzoo an opportunity to give a full explanation rather than just ask her a yes or no question. yes there is saying "koon koon ko keechta hai" but its cant 100% guarantee anything. And if your father hated and left you just because you were a girl than any self-respecting girl would dislike no matter if he got remarried or not. and from what I know Saahir considers Arzoo a self-respecting girl as he said she never lies. in short i dont really think either is at fault just victims of circumstances and misunderstandings. but if i were Saahir i would at least give Arzoo a fair chance to explain herself instead of just asking is Sarfaraz is her father. she is not really at fault for being the daughter of an idiot is she?

He is told that sarfraz is her father ... what would he ask for is he or is he not? Isn't that asking for an explanation? If she says yes he has every right to be angry ... she lied to him about sarfraz ... didnt she? He had warned her about him didn't he? So what else is asking for an explanation I don't get it

Originally posted by: -vandy-

sadly this is india😆

here...ppl form an opinion first and then try and analyse whether u r guilty or not
kind of harsh opinion to just make about someone who has proved themself to be an ambitious employee. yes i know she is unprofessional but every time she has been accused of somehting she is has been proven innocent hasnt she. secondly did he believe anam was guilty of stealing designs after Arzoo accused her? NO na! So he should give Arzoo the same liberty and not believe her until it has been proven.

but then sahir is different...he's a fair player...

as i said sahir has all the reasons to lose his cool... y would he ask for an explaination wen whatever aarzoo has done is infront of his eyes?
agreed if somoene as ambitious and determined as Saahir lost such an important contract they would lose their cool? but what has Arzoo done in front of his eyes besides behave a bit immarturely and lie about something sensitive. i am 100% sure if Saahir was put in the same situation he would have never opened up about his ex-wife. he has even prohibited his family members from saying a word about her. that is how sensitive and secret he is about his ex-wife.

his first reaction will be to lash out...and then ask for an explaination...

u r forgetting...sahir has gone beyond his means to understand aarzoo..and support her... as pri said..ppl need to cut some slack for him... blaming him for all his actions is just 😳
Yes he has gone out of his way to support many times. i dont think the understanding is there yet. yes he asked her once what was bothering her but he never made an effort to get to know her better. (well we know why but still he doesn't understand her exactly yet) i believe Arzoo has made more of an effort to understand Saahir's pain and understand him more yet failed. cuz its not easy

and red..from where is this self respect n all is coming in this discussion?... if arzoo is a self respecting girl...sahir has accepted it...and done enough from his side to protect her respect!
the fact is if Saahir really understand Arzoo he will know that she will never support somone who left her because she was a girl. any self-respecting girl would never support somoene like that.

Originally posted by: Soaps1

He is told that sarfraz is her father ... what would he ask for is he or is he not? Isn't that asking for an explanation? If she says yes he has every right to be angry ... she lied to him about sarfraz ... didnt she? He had warned her about him didn't he? So what else is asking for an explanation I don't get it

Funny thing is we don't even know how the scene will play out yet and we have put the whole blame on Sahir as usual

im not putting any blame on saahir just saying Arzoo should stand up for herself and explain. should she not? further more in the pre-cap he is not letting her explain further than Sarafaraz is her father or not? like that one fact can explain everything? no it cant? lets let it play out before debating.

So Sahir is supposed to have done more to get to know Arzoo?? Why?