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chicksoup

@chicksoup

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Posted: 11 years ago

#21

Sorry for spamming...

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What Chemistry!!!

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vandana

@VandyP

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Posted: 11 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: redviolet

im not fully blaming him! i didnt mind him getting angry! He has been telling Arzoo to get away from for a long time now and she just isnt listening. I would have supported him if he had just gotten angry and even yelled at her like he usually does. Even demean her status but the "biwi shauhar relations" comment just too much.

violet...he has tried everything...

told her subtly...told her directly..warned her...told her politely too!

she was asked to replace joe...joe would've just kept the dinner and gone...

she went a step ahead and decided to make him eat too!

she did behave like a wife...

u need to see where sahir is coming from...its not just his growing fondness for aarzoo affecting him...but..that whole promise thing with his time running out boggling him...

he did not mean to demean her...no!...coz had he had that intention in mind..he would've never supported aarzoo an outsider ...infront of anam who's his own bhabhi...\

the bottomline is...aarzoo just crossed all limits today...and pushed sahir's anger to the brink...

ppl r caling him names n all that...doubting his intentions...but did he do anything that could pose as a doubt to his intentions with regards to aarzoo...?

no...he did not!

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DirtyMartini

@Grumpydwarf24

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Posted: 11 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: -vandy-

violet...he has tried everything...
told her subtly...told her directly..warned her...told her politely too!

she was asked to replace joe...joe would've just kept the dinner and gone...
she went a step ahead and decided to make him eat too!
she did behave like a wife...

u need to see where sahir is coming from...its not just his growing fondness for aarzoo affecting him...but..that whole promise thing with his time running out boggling him...

he did not mean to demean her...no!...coz had he had that intention in mind..he would've never supported aarzoo an outsider ...infront of anam who's his own bhabhi...\

the bottomline is...aarzoo just crossed all limits today...and pushed sahir's anger to the brink...
ppl r caling him names n all that...doubting his intentions...but did he do anything that could pose as a doubt to his intentions with regards to aarzoo...?
no...he did not!

just a thought to wonder! maybe he can try telling her the truth about why she needs to stay away! if avoiding her is that important for him and he can cross moral boundaries😕 than why not the truth?

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-Shwets-

@-Shwets-

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Posted: 11 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: redviolet

just a thought to wonder! maybe he can try telling her the truth about why she needs to stay away! if avoiding her is that important for him and he can cross moral boundaries😕 than why not the truth?

By two cents ....Vandy and Red ......

Arzoo was not aware of Saahir's frame of mind when she entered the room ...she has no idea he is upset ...As much as I like Saahir ...what he said to Arzoo was uncalled for .I agree with Red just tell her why he wants her to stay away from him sure she will be more than happy to oblige .

Girls ,please keep the debate healthy Saahir and Arzoo are fictional characters the actors are just playing the characters ...😃

Yes, watching the epi I was disappointed with the CV's for showing Arzoo weak ...we have seen what Arzoo is capable of .

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vandana

@VandyP

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Posted: 11 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: redviolet

just a thought to wonder! maybe he can try telling her the truth about why she needs to stay away! if avoiding her is that important for him and he can cross moral boundaries😕 than why not the truth?

you r trying to say that he should tell an employee of his that i've started getting fond of u...u just need to stay away so that i can concenterate on my wife who's in coma?

u think its that easy to just go and tell ur feelings...to someone? i don't think it is!

red...sahir is a person who is filled with pain...and this was his way of keeping aarzoo out of the pain in which he is suffering... his words might be harsh...but his intentions aren't!

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DirtyMartini

@Grumpydwarf24

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Posted: 11 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: -vandy-

you r trying to say that he should tell an employee of his that i've started getting fond of u...u just need to stay away so that i can concenterate on my wife who's in coma?

u think its that easy to just go and tell ur feelings...to someone? i don't think it is!

red...sahir is a person who is filled with pain...and this was his way of keeping aarzoo out of the pain in which he is suffering... his words might be harsh...but his intentions aren't!

he doesnt need to tell her about his growing feelings but revealing his past? why not? for me the is still a lot more civil and healthier than telling a girl about "shauhar biwi relations" IMO

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prettypri

@prettypri

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Posted: 11 years ago

#27

Shweta... Loved your collages and the quotes

😊.

Arzoo... Well... Inconsistency has always been there... But now they really need to make her someone who probably thinks about her actions a bit more? It can't always be that you do what you want and judge others purely by their reaction.. If it's favorable to you they are angels else they are villains!! That's not what a person looking to empathize would do at least.

And yes... She should get familiar with giving space and not intruding to the point of getting insulted. Maybe get a bit more sensitive to body language of the person she wants to help..

If she had backed off yesterday after giving the food tray or at least after being told very politely three times she would not have got an adverse reaction

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prettypri

@prettypri

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Posted: 11 years ago

#28

@redviolet... Has Arzoo made it clear to him that she stayed back to help him and understand his pain? In words? Has she expressed any feelings for him?? Do they share any kind of relationship because of which he would be obligated to tell her what he clearly does not share easily??

I think Sahir told her enough times to do what she was hired for.. Be a junior designer...

And besides... Yesterday was too much for the simple reason that it has nothing to do with feelings at all... He is her boss and she is a guest in his house... She took food and he politely told her to leave three times... She should have left.. Why does she need to know he is married to understand that simple request??

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vandana

@VandyP

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Posted: 11 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: redviolet

he doesnt need to tell her about his growing feelings but revealing his past? why not? for me the is still a lot more civil and healthier than telling a girl about "shauhar biwi relations" IMO

give me one reason y he should talk abt his painful past to aarzoo?

who is she?

nobody

sahir has made it very clear that his past...his pain is his...he does not like talking abt it...

its miss aarzoo nausheen khan who has decided to know y sahir is in so much pain..sahir did not invite her

she was given the liberty to stay in his house by his mother...she should've just stuck to staying and not interfering in their lives!

red...sahir has tried all civil and hhealthy ways..but aarzoo does not understand!...dekho...he tells her abt shauhar -biwi and she still choses to walk in his room at night😆😆😆

now again u guys will blame sahir after today's epi... nobody seems to care its aarzoo actually at fault here😆