Sushpective: Meant to be..... - Page 3

Originally posted by: Soaps1

Sahir did not insult her because she was a woman ... did he? I am sure if there was a boy in her place he would do the same ... In epi before this he did it because he caught her lie and in today's epi he did it because she had no business talking in the matter. And no am not denying Sahir has his own flaws but so does Arzoo. Agreed the chotey sheher chotey loag was a bit too much on Sahir's part but she did lie and he had caught it (yes it was personal and she didn't have to tell but sahir didn know that) which kind of added weight to his already prejudice thinking about people from small cities. Just as arzoo's prejudice about all men came to the fore once sahir insulted him, even though it had nothing to do with her being a woman. She is an intern and so far she has been all talk and no work and considers it her right to speak up in every matter ... well in professional world it doesn't work that way 😆 Yes Sahir was harsh to Linda but as far as Arzoo is concerned I don't think till now he has once insulted her without her asking for it. You are here to prove your worth, you got a chance of a lifetime and what you do with it? And yes i understand Arzoo has a past to deal with, which came in-front of her in Sayarra and she became disoriented but then so does Sahir ... can that excuse him bringing down the factory? No it can't ... similarly arzoo needs to understand that she can't interfere in every matter, which i doubt she would because that is a trait of all female leads, self righteousness and talking in every mater. Arzoo already had a not so good start at sayara and i do understand she felt bad for linda and the little boy but it was not her business being an intern to do what she did, no matter how brave or strong she is. Arzoo is shown to be a girl with ambition who wants success, who needs success and at the moment she is doing everything but working towards the goal!!!

Oh and darga scene no matter how cliched these scenes are they always tug your heart no matter what 😆

Originally posted by: redviolet

I always like reading your post but this one I must say was beautifully written. Yes, like Arzoo, Saahir also have his flaws. He is bit of frivolous boss. I heard from someone with much work experience that there are two kinds of bosses. One that produce a lot and are really successful but not liked by their employees and the other are the not so successful ones that are loved by their employees. In order to achieve success and excel you have to push yourself along with others a bit harder and the downside is you're not as popular. But here he was a bit unreasonable. It was her son's birthday and he she was only asking to leave earlier not really taking an unreasonable holiday. But did he really have to yell at her in public that was my real problem with the matter. I guess as a boss he does have a right to tell an employee when not to leave.

I was one of the people who felt Saahir couldn't have sent those flowers but maybe the way you explained it does make sense. His mother told him to take care of her. And we have already seen how much Saahir values Alvira's requests. So for her sake he apologized to make Arzoo feel more comfortable in the work place. I guess sending flowers must have been easier than apologizing in person for him. But that is why the public lecture on rules and regulations followed right after. It was his way of seeing I don't mean to hurt anyone's feelings but I am adamant and unbending about my rules. If not the flowers will always remain a mystery.

PS. The one character I don't really like right now is Arzoo's mom. I sometimes wonder how she had a daughter like Arzoo. With all due respect the character is weak really weak.

Originally posted by: psagars

Hello Sush, follower of your posts since RR. Nothing at present is appeasing my broken heart.
Religiously come to this forum to read your wonderful posts and see shweta's fab collages.

Shweta recommended me to watch this show. Watching the episodes here and there. Its different from the current lot and to say is a pleasant sometimes. Reminds me of a previously loved show.

Sahir's sorry was not required to say and that to with flowers hard to digest. For me Sahir had every right to doubt Aarzoo. For am employee of Saiyarra to have a conversation with a traitor is really doubtful. Ok he was a bit harsh, but even Arzoo was not quite straightforward. Her behaviour was as if she was hiding something.

The dargah scene is an integral part of all Gul's shows. It is a meeting point of the star-crossed lovers.

I like Arzoo, an independent girl, willing to accept her mistakes and accepting the reality of life instead of crying over it.

Sahir is yet hard for me to understand. And to say the getup is making it me hard to accept him. I liked HC in tere liye. The man is indeed handsome. But somehow the present look doesn't suit a business person and that too of a fashion house.

Originally posted by: dakshaavi

Sush nice post and an opt title . Sweta awesome job with collages .

Truly they are meant to be and all the darga scene indicates that.

I liked the episode today sahir as a strict boss makes very clear about his rules in his company and shows Arzoo her place . Arzoo is carried away emotionally but business house cannot run on emotions and she doesn't yet realise that . Sahir didn't do anything wrong when a newcomer interfere in her boss decision in front of the office staff he made sure to show her place in this company .

I am sure that bouquet was not sent by sahir. Alvira's interaction between sahir and arzoo was good . Is she trying to show the real sahir behind the mask of an arrogant business man to arzoo?

Originally posted by: -Sush-

Hi Daksha...I guess there is a reason why I am a registered democrat...😆 Strong believer that businesses are not built on getting that last hour of work from a single mom, who is asking for exception ...once in a while...

I guess the writers did a good job in drawing a line at a place...that could find people genuinely on both sides ...

Originally posted by: prettypri

Sush... the kid said he had come to the office after school and Linda was definitely not asking for much by wanting to leave in the afternoon...! However Arzoo had just walked in then.. That is strange... An am noticed... Wonder if Sahir did too!