Originally posted by: MOON_LYT
I tried my best but now I don't think it will work out any more coz it's like only I want it and according to greatness theory you better leave a person than to try ur best to stay with that person...if you feel you are not right for that person... toh according to this theory I will also do the same if I feel I am not for a person.. that's it.. I could not understand this theory earlier and thats y I used to force people to stay with me... and that way creating trouble for them.. 😊
now its your fault... you did not taught me how to behave with people... 🤣
now what kind of nonsense is this? 😡
what happened to you ? I will teach you??? I...? I got to know the definition of friendship from you.. and you have so many friends that sometimes you fail to remember who the person is wen suddenly somebody says you "Hello Pubali" ... it happened three times in past two days and then you remembered that he's somebody known to you when you are in class 7.. toh say me if you don't know how to behave then y people remembering you after almost 10 years??? so wat happened to you suddenly that you are ignoring your all friends only for some misunderstanding with somebody..
You just remain who you are... my Moon... you are perfect in the way you are, coz if you start to follow the theory you are talking about then only you will lose friends.. and if you think even after trying hard from your side things are not working out between you two, and he/she wanna leave then you have no other option than to accept it... I know its painful...but changing yourself in a wrong way only bcoz somebody does not wanna be with you is not a right thing to do... that means you are changing yourself for a person who actually does not need this relation anymore for whatsoever reason... then what about all the people who love you for who you are...
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If you think You have tried your best then that the only thing you could do.. now if that person is not satisfied with it and wanna leave... then you have to accept it... sometimes both people are right in their own individual way... but things does not match between them coz their pov are different... and its better if they aor someone btwn them tries to adjust and forget the things that does not match and always give importance to the thing that does match or that gives the reason of saving the relation,but if only one person dos this and and another gives up completely then things will not work out in future also even if you change yourself completely..
I don't know the person, I don't know what happened between you two and I just commented acc to wat you told me... as ur best friend my only duty is to make you feel better and suggest you the right way if you are going to select the wrong one... and even after this I will always be with you whatever the way you will select...