Originally posted by: AllThingsNice
First of all, Surbhi, I need to clarify. I am not emotionally attached to either Rishi or Indira. So, my comments on them might seem to Indira (and at other times, Rishi fans) as though I have something personal against them. That's not true.
I will be truthful with you kanan...i was hurt and not just by today's words . Even in yesterday posts...you clearly pointed out indira...what about rishi who didn't believe her till the time she show proof . Is that trust ??????
I think you understood my post to mean that I am abusing Indira. But I am actually against the writers' abuse of Rishi. You seem to be totally convinced that Rishi is inherently selfish and can only think of himself and his daughter. Which is exactly what I am questioning. Its not as though he does not possess good intentions or is so excessively selfish that he can throw others (in this case, little girls) into danger without a second thought for his personal motives. This divide, to me, was totally unnecessary and exaggerated. They could have teamed up and made this easier for each other. That was the only point I was trying to make there. You disagree and thats completely fine.
All i want to ask is...if rishi would have been supporting indira in the case...the tables would have turn...and everyone would have felt that inshi have shown courage...they have taken the decision that they will save the girls . Ab kisi ko toh sach ke liye khade hona hoga etc etc . Just because rishi is not there...now indira will be ridiculed in the forum for the same act . She wants to stop something like human trafficking...and instead of encouragement...support...she gets this ...from us ...
About the point about respect for women in India, I am not sure when I said that girls should be left to die and rot and not be protected. Or that we should not fight back! Where did that come from?? Which part of my post made you feel that???
I am against platitudes. Thats why I find the naarebaazi that they regularly use in the show funny. I find melodrama funny. Whenever a character (like the railway station attendant or the psychiatrist) comes along and says "I tell my daughter to be like you" I find it funny. I find it really tough to believe that outside a police station, people just gathered around a commoner in a matter of minutes to get their problems sorted. I cannot relate to it. Maybe you can and again, thats fine.
Yup i can relate...i have seen narabaaji and this kind of support as well in real life . My mom is running a school just because she wanted to educate children from below poverty backgrounds . The fees their is negligible...its just my mom's heart is so attached there ...that she just want to run it ..She gets all of this...all this respect...and not just her...even when i go to school...i am treated with so much respect and i am just a child . I can proudly say she has earned it .and when people say i wish my daughter becomes like you...it makes me proud as well . And you know not just education...parents come their with other problems too and she tries to help them at their level best . Now its not her duty to entertain...and neither they should come to her . Its because they have trust in her . ..
About her joining politics, I was completely joking. Politics is not for people like Indira who call a spade a spade. Sorry if that joke hurt you, but no. She does not belong there.
I am happy it was a joke only. I did guessed that .
@bold: "every man in India is not a criminal" -- ages ago, when Zara was still around and Lahorewali had been kidnapped, they had given Zara a line "if you think that your daughters are not safe after a certain hour, then I would say the problem is with men" or some such. Don't remember exactly. But I do remember that Dia (Walden) and I had the same exchange. Are they trying to say that all men are rapists? Why should good men be under fire for the mistakes of some?
It was not about that...when zara said it ...it was just in a taunting way...as the father was accompanying the daughter...saying he can't leave her alone...and will accompany her back too...so she was like...khatra ladko se hain...unhe band kar do then . She dint meant it like ki band kar do actually .
About the performances, except the chap playing Rajrani, I think all were superb in their own way. Thats why we all tune in every evening and thats what keeps this show going!