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Posted: 12 years ago
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Both Indira n Rishi need to seat down with Indu n talk her instead of urging of How bad Indu is rise , Indu needs a time out 2 got some reality check, she think being called chotta hitler is a good think . Her mother became hitler for a reason .
She is only 8-9 but acts like it .

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nana101

Both Indira n Rishi need to seat down with Indu n talk her instead of urging of How bad Indu is rise , Indu needs a time out 2 got some reality check, she think being called chotta hitler is a good think . Her mother became hitler for a reason .

She is only 8-9 but acts like it .

exactly tabhi to kaha ke smartly handle karna parega usey
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ranjinikishan

who is chipku to take indu with her?? indu's parents have not yet died to take her..they know how to take care of their daughter





But they must talk it out with Indu , they need to talk her ASAP, or else they will lose out on her , though I know they will handle it . I don't want 2 c any problem with this cute family . Indira / Rishi have never seen their parents happy together so they should know better n stop this from happening to their child .
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nana101


But they must talk it out with Indu , they need to her ASAP, or else they will out on her , though I know they will handle it . I don't 2 c any problem with this cute family . Indira / Rishi have never seen their parents happy together so they should know better n stop this from happening to their child .


dont we know about inshi..they will surely take responsible of their daughter properly..i have no doubt about it..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: sweetinshi

yes u r right she is d daughter f rishi n indira too tabhi she is hitler by nature n badtameez too n all these traits she got frm her mother Indira only.



😆 that is the wrong assumption created by CVs.. Indira is strong but not badtameez(in your language) by birth - she became stubborn due to circumstances 😉 similar to Indu who is strong and bold like her mother but badtameez became of her parvashi and getting ignored, you can call circumstances 😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I have a real problem with parents who think they love their children and so hitting them is totally justified. its a big NO. In this respect Rishi is better than Indira. (i don't want it to be interpreted as Rishi is right, Indira hasn't shown us any other aspect of being a mom yet) And like someone has mentioned in above comment , Indira needs time. Really? i have a serious problem with that. you are a parent and you don't have that liberty to take time off. I know someone who failed and was treated like a shit pot by her parents. I know parents might have been really depressed too but who will see to the fact that it is leading to a suicide. A parent should know what he/she is up to. No time off. They think that they were hurt by their children, betrayed and what not but that's so stupid to think that their harsh attitude won't pin a child who is already stressed (from your lessons Honey! They are so stupid to think that their shit does not stink ! )


I just copy pasted my comment from another post because it was in the same context.

To add: expecting a child to be mature and ignoring their parent's mistake? is that what we want to say? Rishi with his set of reasons ignored her, well of course that can not justify his actions and Indira is tryingto get the best out of Indu by beating her, right, is it?
Arushi Talwar's murder case is just an exaggeration of similar events.

P.S.: Rishi aur Indu ka bhi DNA test karana chahiye 😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: _saumya_

I have a real problem with parents who think they love their children and so hitting them is totally justified. its a big NO. In this respect Rishi is better than Indira. (i don't want it to be interpreted as Rishi is right, Indira hasn't shown us any other aspect of being a mom yet) And like someone has mentioned in above comment , Indira needs time. Really? i have a serious problem with that. you are a parent and you don't have that liberty to take time off. I know someone who failed and was treated like a shit pot by her parents. I know parents might have been really depressed too but who will see to the fact that it is leading to a suicide. A parent should know what he/she is up to. No time off. They think that they were hurt by their children, betrayed and what not but that's so stupid to think that their harsh attitude won't pin a child who is already stressed (from your lessons Honey! They are so stupid to think that their shit does not stink ! )


I just copy pasted my comment from another post because it was in the same context.

To add: expecting a child to be mature and ignoring their parent's mistake? is that what we want to say? Rishi with his set of reasons ignored her, well of course that can not justify his actions and Indira is tryingto get the best out of Indu by beating her, right, is it?
Arushi Talwar's murder case is just an exaggeration of similar events.

P.S.: Rishi aur Indu ka bhi DNA test karana chahiye 😆


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Posted: 12 years ago
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of course Ranjini di , sab log itne sure hai ki uski har galat adat uske baap se ayi hai . mujhe toh uski har tahzeeb apni ma par gayi lagti hai. par agar baap par gai hai toh surely DNA test kara lena chahiye.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: _saumya_

of course Ranjini di , sab log itne sure hai ki uski har galat adat uske baap se ayi hai . mujhe toh uski har tahzeeb apni ma par gayi lagti hai. par agar baap par gai hai toh surely DNA test kara lena chahiye.


issey faida kya hai..ofcourse baap-beti ki DNA ek hi hota hai..indu ka badan mein rishi ka toh koon hai
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Few days back i was watching a pakistani film,where a girl was hanged for killing her torturous father and she raised a question to to media before dying AGAR MAARNA GUNAAH HAI TO PAIDA KARNA KYU NEHI?

Now Indu's situation is not severe like that but its almost same.Here Indu is the victim of improper and immatured upbringing where 75% is Shweta's fault and 25% is Rishi's fault.I don't have to mention the reasons here,as all know.

Now some are blaming indira for taking that strict action.I support Indira's act of slapping her because Indu committed a crime like that but the demoting act was a bit too much it was not at all necessary.Some are shouting that Indu is just like her mother so she behaved like that.But was Indira,really a spoilt child like indu?Did she misbehave with elders?Did indira used to di GUNDAGARDI which Indu does.Indira was not born HITLER and in this show,the meaning of HITLER is not who dictates but,a person who fights with the whole world for her survival,who takes care of a big family single handedly.Did INDU had to do all these stuffs?NO,then how can INDU be compared with INDIRA.Indira is brave,courageous but never ill-mannered.But what Indu does,talks very harshly with her principal,using TU to a shopkeeper,beating her classmates.Yesterday I felt like slapping her.Now Indu is spoilt to a high level and bringing from 0 to 100 is not an easy job.Indira has to spend time and to reach Indu's nerves and then only she can rectify her.

About Rishi,what to say,I remember once I made a post on Indu where I blamed both the parents,at that time some of true Rishi lovers criticized me a lot and even said many things taking my name in FB.Now I want to say them that whatever I told about Rishi in that post,Indira repeated the ditto words yesterday.Now everyone will suggest me to imagine Rishi's mental condition at that time.So does that give you the alliby of removing yourself from your daughter completely?If he would have taken some involvement during 8 yrs,Shweta would have never got the chance of spoiling Indu.Thats why I said BIOLOGICALLY MA BAAP BAN JAANA BOHOT ASAAN HOTA HAI PAR SAHI MAAYINE MEIN BANNA BOHOT HI MUSHKIL.But yes I agree whatever Rishi said yesterday about what Indira did with her was correct.

Now Indira has to begin from level 0 and its not a one day job.Indu has to be taught in the language which shelistens and in the act which she understands but in a careful,matured and intelligent way.
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