Hi Pari , after I read this post, I came to know, why I wait for your posts. This is an increadible post for Rishi and INSHI !! I was just reading this as INSHI point of view in Rishi's eyes!!!
Rishi , character is written with so many flaws yet so lovable and admirable for definition of love. Loyalty and commitments!!!! . I just love his passion , his integrity .his purity, the way he tries to justify his actions .. He never hesitates to do any thing for his love. He was even ready to die . What a man !!! He is not perfect and that what I love about this character ! inperfect yet so perfect in my POV !!!
Man understands definition of love and need for love . he had his physical needs but they were never his priorities . Every one of us has need for emotional support , physical intimacy so did Rishi .every one of us cable of loving lots of people at same time !! Many people get torn between two people and forced to made decision to select one and we do based on our need at that time and nothing is wrong with this !! It just a human nature. It doesn't mean we are selfish or we are not " nice ". No action we take is without any motive ( this was proven in one Us sit com)
Rishi's love for Indira was unconditional . And as you said his actions proved it more that this words !! He was married to Zara when Indira came in his life again and he called his Zimmedari !! I never found any thing wrong with this. I hope some one makes me understand why that word he used was wrong. if he had neglected Indira , it would have been horrible !! When you are in love with some one as Rishi was with Indira you really never stopped loving that person . We always have special corner in your heart reserved for that person and as Rishi. And he tried to find Indira in Zara and because she was "look alike" it need not take long and he was convince instantly that she was his love but he was looking for Indira in Zara !! That's love for me !! Nothing wrong with looking for same emotional connection with someone else !!! We are just needy that's all!!
Real love is very different from movie love or serial love !! Love between man and women is very unique base on emotional needs, Physical attraction , need for physical intimacy, Need for comfort ! Needs for acceptance , needs to argue with each other without fear of loosing each other. Needs to propagate !! Rishi was living example of these needs but his physical attraction was never his priority !! That's the reason why I get upset when I read lots of post written on his " lust". I find big difference between Lust and physical Intimancy !! Forum appears confused!!!
I want to stop blaming Ila or writers. Yes, I was very upset with them and I would have handle things differently !!! after leap we thought that Zara was Indira but that was our wish and our needs! How stupid of me!! They played " Aahatney " That means only Aura !! Rishi made us think that was Indira and it was our needs to see InShi in Zashi , writer knew all along Zara was just a Oasis . It was our mistake that we are ran after this osasis and got very thirsty for InShi , our beloved Jody !!we never got satisfied bacuse it was oasis !! Just thristy !!! Hats off writer !!
Now they gave us our Jody back ! This is what we wanted! Get set and go for another wedding and Indu to tie knot !!! Get ready for short live happiness but just remember this is is HD . . Our INSHI !!!
AND BNHH !! enjoy!!! I am with you !!
Edited by Heema22 - 12 years ago