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Posted: 12 years ago
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I agree with parts of what you said but I have to disagree with a few bits. Regarding Rishi being in love with Indira- I guess it depends on how you define love and how open you are to interpreting what love means- to me yes Rishi does still "love" Indira and cares for her deeply and honestly I don't see anything wrong in that. I don't think love is an emotion that you can turn on/turn off and if someone can do that, then they don't really understand love. People who believe only in a limited definition of "love" will not agree with me here. People say that Zara should leave Rishi because he cares for the LW. You know what I would say the complete opposite. Zara should stay with Rishi because he cares about the LW. I think it speaks more to the kind of person he is than any words he could say to Zara.
I totally agree with you here!!
Zara should be very happy to see how caring Rishi is , towards Indira and he did not abandon his first wife, during her very difficult time and he is staying with commitment . I think most of us like to have this trait in our man ". Commitment with out any hesitation" I solute him for this. .I think Zara should be committed like Rishi and help him with his difficult times and help him emotionally . I think she is behaving like a child! Throwing trantums and getting physical with Indira and mistreating her, was not very inpressive ! Or nothing to cheer for!!
I also have to disagree that Rishi is mistreating Zara because he still loves Indira. I think more than anything else, Rishi is absolutely disappointed in Zara because of her actions towards the LW (from the intial taking to the mental asylum to the recent outbursts). When you fall in love in someone, you fall in love with the kind of person they are. And the way Zara has been behaving recently is not the person Rishi fell in love with.
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Walden. This is absolutely right! I really think that he is really disappointed in Zara and he over reacted. I do not think that chocking her or being rough with her is right thing to do but he was in rage and every evidence was against Zara for him to suspect her
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Pari117

It is sort of same question i raised about zara, i get why rishi was in haste, definately its hard to miss the second chance which life gave you, but i dont get why Zara agreed to rishi and married the man about whom she didnt even know completely, neither she queried about his parents, his real identity, why shweta calls him rickey, why is he rishi for others, zara wasnt bothered about anything, so i will say if you accept someone leaving behind all social customs and rules behind this simply is called blind trust, i dont support harrasment in any ways but before getting into relations why were your sense organs didnt worked??? zara wasnt able to see the reality that he loves his wife indira a lot, and his statement to accept zara the way she is might be just because he didnt wanted to loose the reflection of indira, why was zara not able to think this way??


why zara didnt think that if he can call indira zimmedaari for her, whats the guarantee he will accept zara for the life time????

did zara knew rishi completely ever??? I big NO, still zara accepted without thinking anything, so for me it was fault of zara, prevention is always better than cure, a Lady committing such a blunder by marrying a man about whom she never knew clearly is itself a big mistake


I completly agree with you!! People keep talking about Rishi was after Zara and he force her to marry and love her!! How does any one forces to marry or love some one? Specially police officer. She is train to fight back !! Like you said, we never saw Zara discussing Rishi's back ground ! She saw him drunk as a skunk and even kidnapping Sarita. He was not nice to Sweta !! People on the forum say " he does not work " I think he put on Lawyers Attire and roams around all,day and comes home at night!! He was called"" bad father" and she still marry Rishi? I want to know, which women will marry any man knowing that he will not be a good father !!!! So we needs to look in to Zara' s need to marry Rishi before we start blaming Rishi for every thing . I absolutly do not like any domestic or any kind of violence.but I sure understand frustration led to this event . When he comes to know that Zara is innocent ,he will be very sad and guilty for doing it and will say sorry to her . But if you really see the chain of events, it leads to Zara being guilty !!!Zara did not come clean , she was not able to explain , why she was roaming around at night time , she did drag Indira down and threw her on the floor ( very mean thing to do to mentally imbalance girl ) She did threatened to kill any one who between her and Rishi .so she is Prime suspect in Rishi's eyes !! and we all know how sensitive Rishi is about Indira his first love !!!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ashish.sachi

Yes Zara deserves this.


She is a fully matured person.

Even then she started an Extra- Marital affair that too with a married man.

Rishi was married to Shweta then. And Zara never thought about Shweta , even for a minute , while continuing her extra-marital affair.

In a whiff , she completely destroyed the World of Shweta , inspite of being a women herself.

Saying that Rishi showered love on her , and she just fell into it is no excuse.

It is the law of Karma , and Zara fully deserves what she is getting.

Absolutely no Sympathy for her.


Ashish , I just cannot believe what I read here. !! I am shock and very upset that any one who is educated or not educated will insult A lady like this ! I do not think any lady deserves to be physically abused by any man and defiantly not from her husband , who supposed to be her sole mate !! Zara did not destroyed Sweta's married life. Sweta did not need any help she did it sll by herself !!!!She married to Rishi. Knowing his unconditional love for Indira . She did not refused Indira to marry Rishi when she knew Rishi was against this marriage and he was in pain .In 8 yrs she was not able to figure out that her marrige does not work. Most of only need few month to know and may be year to try to fix it . She positioned Indus mind . She is only one responsible for burning Indira alive!! ( This is worst sin in my eyes) . So I really do not need to write any more that this about Sweta!'
Now you are Talking about Zara's Karma??? What a shame. She has good Karma and that's why she met Rishi , which helped her get out of relationship which took premeditated belting !!! if Zara had not met RISHI then she would have been still married with MK and do not forget Rishi is the one , who first knew that MK was terrorist !!! I am sorry for drama and bring them closer together and to prove that Rishi is really loyal to Zara they have to put us thought this but this is show Bizz and we cannot help it but your thoughts really scares me , being a women and zero tolerance for violence I was highly disappointed !!!!!and very surprise to read this and people really approving your comment !!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Pari117

It is sort of same question i raised about zara, i get why rishi was in haste, definately its hard to miss the second chance which life gave you, but i dont get why Zara agreed to rishi and married the man about whom she didnt even know completely, neither she queried about his parents, his real identity, why shweta calls him rickey, why is he rishi for others, zara wasnt bothered about anything, so i will say if you accept someone leaving behind all social customs and rules behind this simply is called blind trust, i dont support harrasment in any ways but before getting into relations why were your sense organs didnt worked??? zara wasnt able to see the reality that he loves his wife indira a lot, and his statement to accept zara the way she is might be just because he didnt wanted to loose the reflection of indira, why was zara not able to think this way??


why zara didnt think that if he can call indira zimmedaari for her, whats the guarantee he will accept zara for the life time????

did zara knew rishi completely ever??? I big NO, still zara accepted without thinking anything, so for me it was fault of zara, prevention is always better than cure, a Lady committing such a blunder by marrying a man about whom she never knew clearly is itself a big mistake

Pari, you raise a really valid point. I would like someone to answer this question for me as well. Why did Zara marry Rishi??
People say that Rishi's love for Zara was based on physical appearances only, so I'd like to know what was Zara's love for Rishi based on. She seemed to fall in love with him in a matter of a weeks time!! It took her less than 24 hours after the LW's appearance to demand Rishi take LW to the mental asylum. Really, if this isin't the sign of a good human being, I don't know what is!! But trust me, we will never get an answer to these questions on this forum and we all know why. The answer to this question does not fit people's preset agendas.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Heema22


Ashish , I just cannot believe what I read here. !! I am shock and very upset that any one who is educated or not educated will insult A lady like this ! I do not think any lady deserves to be physically abused by any man and defiantly not from her husband , who supposed to be her sole mate !! Zara did not destroyed Sweta's married life. Sweta did not need any help she did it sll by herself !!!!She married to Rishi. Knowing his unconditional love for Indira . She did not refused Indira to marry Rishi when she knew Rishi was against this marriage and he was in pain .In 8 yrs she was not able to figure out that her marrige does not work. Most of only need few month to know and may be year to try to fix it . She positioned Indus mind . She is only one responsible for burning Indira alive!! ( This is worst sin in my eyes) . So I really do not need to write any more that this about Sweta!'
Now you are Talking about Zara's Karma??? What a shame. She has good Karma and that's why she met Rishi , which helped her get out of relationship which took premeditated belting !!! if Zara had not met RISHI then she would have been still married with MK and do not forget Rishi is the one , who first knew that MK was terrorist !!! I am sorry for drama and bring them closer together and to prove that Rishi is really loyal to Zara they have to put us thought this but this is show Bizz and we cannot help it but your thoughts really scares me , being a women and zero tolerance for violence I was highly disappointed !!!!!and very surprise to read this and people really approving your comment !!!


Zara Started her extra marital affair with Rishi at the time when :

  1. Neither Rishi nor Zara had any inkling that Shweta was somewhat responsible for Indira's death ( I will say only somewhat , because it can only be the case of negligence on part of Shweta , for not doing furthur tests on Comatised Indira. She didn't want to deliberately kill Indira. Waise Nobody could have imagined , that Indira wouldn't have really died inspite of being remaining in coma for one year that too after last stage of Brain Tumour. So I think it can be only negligence on part of Shweta , not deliberate killing. I think Benefit of Doubt can be given to Shweta in this case).
  2. Secondly , Neither Rishi nor Zara knew that MK was terrorist. For both of them , he was a nice man then , who had saved Rishi's life (at Railway Station) and was quite nice to Zara in their 8 years of married life , even if they were not close.
  3. Thirdly , neither was Shweta poisoning Indu's mind then.
  4. Infact , Shweta was even eager to leave the house if DNA Reports had come positive.

So Now , you tell me how this extra - marital affair of Zara- Rishi was justified at that time.

Moreover , when DNA Reports came. After that Shweta broke down , in front of Zara , and also opened her heart in front of Zara telling her about her insecurities. And then when Zara said she will leave SN , it was Shweta who stopped her , trusting her as friend.
And what Zara gave in return , she started flirting with Rishi from very next day !!!!!

I think that was the biggest back stab ever seen.😡
People also say Rishi was also equally at fault. I accept Rishi's fault is no less.
But Since Zara knew everything about Rishi's intentions that he is considering her as Indira and that is why behind her. So after coming of DNA Reports , she should have left SN. Also Rishi at that time has promised himself to move on in his life.

I strongly believe , had Zara moved on from SN at that time , Rishi would have tried to move on in life. Shweta and Indu would have been happily living. And Rishi would have also repaired his relationship with both Shweta & Indu slowly.

But by remaining in SN and flirting with Rishi. Zara hastened and completely ruined the world of Shweta

That is why I have said , it is Law of Karma , and Zara should be punished.

( P.S. : It will be good to discuss with you. But please reply only if you want to discuss something related to story or characters. Kindly do not give childish reasons like we just want to see RaSu together or Rati & Sumit are hero-heroine and Aasiya was side actor)
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Posted: 12 years ago
#36

When ur loved ones is kidnapped by the person whom u trust more, don't u get angry?????????

If the trust is broken, there is nothing to say abt it?

So I think that rishi is justified according to the situation.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I we have to wait and see why Rishi behaved like this,Since he told something to Indu, I think to reveal the truth he might have done thisZara will understand the situation later
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ashish.sachi

Yes Zara deserves this.


She is a fully matured person.

Even then she started an Extra- Marital affair that too with a married man.

Rishi was married to Shweta then. And Zara never thought about Shweta , even for a minute , while continuing her extra-marital affair.

In a whiff , she completely destroyed the World of Shweta , inspite of being a women herself.

Saying that Rishi showered love on her , and she just fell into it is no excuse.

It is the law of Karma , and Zara fully deserves what she is getting.

Absolutely no Sympathy for her.


Hmm...very interesting ...I heard this sentiment somewhere else too. Ops I remember ,it was a sentiment of one of the Indian politician who said women are partly responsible for being raped as they stay out after dark !! Since an woman stays out after dark, she deserves to be raped !!

Sorry for my dramatic & off topic comment !!

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Ace-


Hmm...very interesting ...I heard this sentiment somewhere else too. Ops I remember ,it was a sentiment of one of the Indian politician who said women are partly responsible for being raped as they stay out after dark !! Since an woman stays out after dark, she deserves to be raped !!

Sorry for my dramatic & off topic comment !!

Karma 🤣 I bet all the people who died in the tsunami also had bad bad karma and deserved eveyr bit of what they got. I bet all the little kids who get cancer also have bad bad karma and deserve every bit of cancer they get. After all its the law of Karma, don't you see.

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