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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: preethimadhavg

@bold you are right Rishi cleared to shweta but it does not give him right to stop her from leaving the house for his benefit and on other hand tell her that he is not interested in her... if you remember Shweta was about to leave the house when Rishi stopped her for Indu, is this justified on Rishi's part...

it looks he is using Shweta for his benefit... i really wish shweta raises her voice on Rishi and Zara matter not to sit like a puppet and let Rishi use her for his benefit

I will openly admit that I like Rishi's character and obviously I am biased towards my interpretation of his actions and will try to find things that still make his character appealing. Yet I have stated in many of my posts that I am not fond of his behavior post-leap. That said, I still don't believe he has done any wrong towards Shweta, taken advantage of her, or used her for his benefit. You make it sound like Rishi has held Shweta in bondage or something. What can I do if Shweta's character likes to do all these things for Rishi and Indu. That said, if they ever show Rishi forcing Shweta out of Indu's life, I will be the first one to protest.

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: Walden

I will openly admit that I like Rishi's character and obviously I am biased towards my interpretation of his actions and will try to find things that still make his character appealing. Yet I have stated in many of my posts that I am not fond of his behavior post-leap. That said, I still don't believe he has done any wrong towards Shweta, taken advantage of her, or used her for his benefit. You make it sound like Rishi has held Shweta in bondage or something. What can I do if Shweta's character likes to do all these things for Rishi and Indu. That said, if they ever show Rishi forcing Shweta out of Indu's life, I will be the first one to protest.

Rishi never respected Shweta which she deserves, their is a way to treat his wife, no need to shower romance on her but respect is much more needed here... donot you think not letting her go from Indu's life when DNA report came wrong is not bondage her for his benefit (to look after Indu?)

coming near her to make her wear bangles just to show off infront of Zara is not using her to make Zara jealous for his benefit?

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Rishi never respected Shweta which she deserves, their is a way to treat his wife, no need to shower romance on her but respect is much more needed here... donot you think not letting her go from Indu's life when DNA report came wrong is not bondage her for his benefit (to look after Indu?)

coming near her to make her wear bangles just to show off infront of Zara is not using her to make Zara jealous for his benefit?

Can I pose a question to you? Can you explain to me why Shweta was rude to Zara all those times even though Zara had saved Indu's life countless times?

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: Walden
Rishi never respected Shweta which she deserves, their is a way to treat his wife, no need to shower romance on her but respect is much more needed here... donot you think not letting her go from Indu's life when DNA report came wrong is not bondage her for his benefit (to look after Indu?)

coming near her to make her wear bangles just to show off infront of Zara is not using her to make Zara jealous for his benefit?

Can I pose a question to you? Can you explain to me why Shweta was rude to Zara all those times even though Zara had saved Indu's life countless times?

i will blame Rishi here once again because he never gave shweta the confidence she needed making her insecure and fear of losing Indu if Zara (Indira look alike ) comes into their life... Rishi behaved with Shweta saying Indira came to save Indu and almost telling her that she is not need to take of Indu as Indira is back for that... who wonot become insecure at that time? and if you remember shweta apologized to Zara for her behaviour saying the reason as well

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: preethimadhavg

Can I pose a question to you? Can you explain to me why Shweta was rude to Zara all those times even though Zara had saved Indu's life countless times?

i will blame Rishi here once again because he never gave shweta the confidence she needed making her insecure and fear of losing Indu if Zara (Indira look alike ) comes into their life... Rishi behaved with Shweta saying Indira came to save Indu and almost telling her that she is not need to take of Indu as Indira is back for that... who wonot become insecure at that time? and if you remember shweta apologized to Zara for her behaviour saying the reason as well

Bingo. We can all understand Shweta's insecurity in losing Indu and her "marriage" to Rishi when an outsider threatens those bonds Well from my perspective, Rishi is just as insecure about losing Indira's memories and her value in his life and this is his reason for feeling resentful towards Shweta because she is the pirmary reason that Indira's existence or contributions are not even acknowledged in the house. I mean Shweta likes to pretend most of the time (not the recent episodes) that Indira did not even exist. If Shweta had truly tried to just be a friend to Rishi, he would have respected her a lot more. Instead they have shown us multiple instances where Shweta has tried to "replace" Indira. Not telling Indu about Indira is the worst example of this. And yes telling a child about their biological mother in simple words does NOT harm their psyche.

I have put forward my perspective in the most rational way I know. Will stop here as anything further will just be belaboring the point:)

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: Walden

i will blame Rishi here once again because he never gave shweta the confidence she needed making her insecure and fear of losing Indu if Zara (Indira look alike ) comes into their life... Rishi behaved with Shweta saying Indira came to save Indu and almost telling her that she is not need to take of Indu as Indira is back for that... who wonot become insecure at that time? and if you remember shweta apologized to Zara for her behaviour saying the reason as well

Bingo. We can all understand Shweta's insecurity in losing Indu and her "marriage" to Rishi when an outsider threatens those bonds Well from my perspective, Rishi is just as insecure about losing Indira's memories and her value in his life and this is his reason for feeling resentful towards Shweta because she is the pirmary reason that Indira's existence or contributions are not even acknowledged in the house. I mean Shweta likes to pretend most of the time (not the recent episodes) that Indira did not even exist. If Shweta had truly tried to just be a friend to Rishi, he would have respected her a lot more. Instead they have shown us multiple instances where Shweta has tried to "replace" Indira. Not telling Indu about Indira is the worst example of this. And yes telling a child about their biological mother in simple words does NOT harm their psyche.

I have put forward my perspective in the most rational way I know. Will stop here as anything further will just be belaboring the point:)

i will stop here too just wnat to say a simple thing mistake lies on Rishi as well as Shweta... shweta alone is not responsible for any insecurity or fear or not having even friendship relation between Rishi and Shweta 😳 Rishi is equally responsible in my POV

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Me too confused with yestrday's episode I think ila mam gone 100% mad…. I think she too confused or forgot about her story n the characters due to her stress n tensions of financial problems 😆….I never blame any characters, its 100% mistake of the story n script writer only….i will blame only them…😡 Other vise they should show zara as indira as soon as possible (its already late)…..Even I enjoyed zashi scenes I m still in confusion….😕

First they butchered rishi now zara…..then swetha,khan...they will ruin all characters...😭

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