honestly,bidaai scene isnt a fav of mine and ive always shied away from looking at it..reason ,the teary eyes ..ive always wondered why newly married bride has to shed off tears immediately after their newfound happiness..oh well,thats just me..yesterday s bidaai called out to me.no,if ure wondering,it doesnt concern my craze for indira . it was something else,the multiplex of emotion in indira s eyes grabbed my attention..the clause of rituals doesnt apply there.indira displayed an emotion close to a child leaving home for attainment of freedom,though in a sad way.for a moment,i felt like i was in indira s place,having a flux of emotions.i felt it so real.the words were strong and called for,the fact though remained of unwilingness.the moment her love shook her into proving her words real,the shocked expressions was a marvel to watch.the disbelief was truly endearing .indira couldnt shake off the realm of responsibilities,she knew her life halted due to that,she wanted a way out and in all this found a way in her love and when she did actually opt out,she couldnt seem to wilingly.why oh why? i could have easily blamed her being too attached and pass comments but i couldnt ,bcos in all probability.if i was in indira s place,i would have felt the same too..
indira took on the caretaker role from an early age in the family .She transferred that role into her life beyond the family and got stuck. A role in the family "the fixer", one who lends money and keeps the peace at all costs.Sometimes when the family needs a scapegoat, she becomes the one to be blamed on everything on like kicking the dog.sounds like a biography of indira? in all means,yes!
In just a few words...family defines indira. Unfortunately indira have been faced with the excruciating decision of whether or not to continue a strained family relationship. These relationships, when stressed or tense, are the worst to endure because her family means a lot to her. If she has to cut the ties, it's because she had no other choice and years of discontent,mental torture is too much to endure any longer. factually, interesting aspect about families is people can tolerate more bad than good. In this instance, sharmas can be the ones who drive indira nuts, and also be there in tough spots.fair trade- take the good with the bad. Family members are the ones who've seen us at our best and worst, and the love is consistently there...or should be. The key ingredients are unconditional love otherwise known as respect. These are ideal conditions though, and for some it's never been this way ..indira stands tall to this predicament too..the fact that she couldnt walk out wilingly was a testimony to her unconditional love..but when she couldnt endure it longer,she chose to cut her ties...It is more difficult, of course, to break close family ties, but those can be the ones that damage us the most- this is a double-edged sword and requires evaluating risks versus benefit.
a reason of enjoyment,the eventual walkout..she did with tears..i vaguely pondered at her telephone conversation with ishaan,all the i miss you phrasals completely thundering the graham bell invention..powerful effort to hide her anguish with orders..our hitler plays her title role there.what remains to be seen even after her efforts are sometimes a decision can be semi-final, as in the ties are cut right now, but may be later mended. Cutting ties isn't always an open and close, final case.the indira we know has traded on various paths,be it the caretaker,giver,cunning ,loving et al.but today when indira cut her ties,she vowed another avatar on,the revengeful one...revenge wise,if an eye for an eye makes up for good,certainly the avatar calls for victory!and once the victory occurs ,then i could safely cut my ties off with this topic of mine as well.. ishaaan...,the callout,after the cut of ties,has it made any hearts disturbed for her as much as it did to me?...Indira-time to cut ties!
-heights of perfection-Rati Pandey! dont ever cut your ties with the arts world cos brilliance is defined by your presence-
Itti Si Khushi Sab TV
Bade Achhe Lagte Hain
