Relationships - Expectations and Limitations

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dramago

@dramago

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Posted: 13 years ago

We expect things from the people we love the most...this is something we all might have
heard,read and said umpteen number of times...but,many times expectations could lead to
pressure and disappointments..😭
.Indira always seem to pin all her hopes on the one person
she considers to be her support...we saw that before with Vidith and now with Rishi ...Its
not in everyone's ability and capacity to always surpass the expectations set for them...Vidith
miserably failed and he is not even worth to have any expectations so,lets leave him and talk
about rishi...I know our hero is multi talented but,then he is a human and have his limitations
too...he would certainly always stand by his mmji ❤️come what may...but,Is it fair to expect him
to bail them out and adjust every time..??
. When you are in love and in a relationship, Is it not important to acknowledge
the limitations of your partner in terms of ability and also tolerance along with setting up
the expectations...????
If one doesn't balance these two it could lead to pressure and tension
in a relationship as we have seen in recent episodes btw inshi and could eventually lead to disappointments...since this is a soap all will be well in the end but,in real life these expectations could many times be very detrimental as we see many times with parents and kids too..
This is my pov and would like to read all your views...feel free to comment...😊

Edited by himbin - 13 years ago

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Eliza_D

@Eliza_D

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: himbin
We expect things from the people we love the most...this is something we all might have
heard,read and said umpteen number of times...but,many times expectations could lead to
pressure and disappointments..😭
.Indira always seem to pin all her hopes on the one person
she considers to be her support...we saw that before with Vidith and now with Rishi ...Its
not in everyone's ability and capacity to always surpass the expectations set for them...Vidith
miserably failed and he is not even worth to have any expectations so,lets leave him and talk
about rishi...I know our hero is multi talented but,then he is a human and have his limitations
too...he would certainly always stand by his mmji ❤️come what may...but,is it fair to expect him
to bail out and adjust every time..??
. When you are in love and in a relationship, Is it not important to acknowledge
the limitations of your partner in terms of ability and also tolerance along with setting up
the expectations...????
If one doesn't balance these two it could lead to pressure and tension
in a relationship as we have seen in recent episodes btw inshi and could eventually lead to disappointments...since this is a soap all will be well in the end but,in real life these expectations could many times be very detrimental as we see many times with parents and kids too..
This is my pov and would like to read all your views...feel free to comment...😊

mere mutabik Inshi ki problem respect hai...wo kisi ki izzat nahi kartee and this is her bahut barra flaw...mian&biwi ka rishta is very nazuk...wo issey kuchal rahi hai or kuchalti ayee hai

har aadmi ka ek wajud hota hai...Indira ka hai, rishi ka hai...Indira gets so hurt when she does so much for her family and uskee family usey dutkarti rehtee hai...she did the same with rishi...rishi is working to save her house and she blamed him...what happens if rishi looses his temper and gives her muh todh jawab...nah use ki izzat rahegi aur na hi rishi ki.

people don't admire people who emotionally abuse others...and she will create much bitterness in her relationship...yesterday too there was something quite unsettling in the way she asked Sumer to stay and then manipulated rishi in that saying sorry scene.

Rishi ko bhe samajhna chahiye that he is not doing good to himself jab wo Indira sey darr kar chup ho jata hai...wo kudh apne nazroon sey gir raha hai roz...and one day he will wake up hating himself

relationship equal honey chahiye...ek dusery ki izaat karna is bare minimum hai...love ho ya na, izzat is first...

It is both fault of rishi and indira ...indira does not know how to give respect or love ...and rishi is not drawing any lakshman rekha to tell indira kuch cheezein are unacceptable

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Eliza_D

@Eliza_D

Beginner

Posted: 13 years ago

ek aur baat sey mujhe ghin aatee hai - Indira ka thapaad marna

This is physical abuse...it is ok to slap some goonda or sameer when he was touching her in the car...par har baat per apney boyfriend ya pati ko thapad marna accha nahi hai...it is revolting...

aisa kar key cvs are not showing indira strong...they are making her weak...aur kisi ko marna sab sey buri baat hotee hai...mainey usey Mandira ko...Munna ko...Sunaina ko...Inshaan ko kabhi thapad martey huey nahi dekha

but she has slap rishi many times...jo aadmi apnee aurat ko thapad marta hai, hum usey burra samajhtey hain...same in reverse case...jo aurat apney aadmi ko thapad marey wo strong nahi hai

cvs logon ko bahut galat impression dey rahein hai strong woman ka...this is not the strong women who fight society for getting their rights ...fight family abuse ...strong ka matlab kadoospana nahi hai, laraki aurat nahi hai... aur Indira comes across as more laraki aurat than strong woman

cvs ney bahut gandh bhar diya hai serial mein and are sending wrong message

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Heema22

@Heema22

Sparkler

Posted: 13 years ago

Every relation ship has its limits. Rishi's. Love is pure and unconditional , doesnot mean that Indira should slap him even when he helped her dress the wound.and just being free from kidnapping ordeal .that was uncalled for. She needs to show some attention that he is craving for. We know actors do what they are ask to do but domestic abuse needs to stop. It makes me very upset and cannot stand when she slaps him.

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dramago

@dramago

Inactive

Posted: 13 years ago

@Eliza_D

Agree with you respect is indeed very essential in a relationship...until this track they never
showed Indira disrespecting Rishi atleast not after she realised that she loves him...I think
her obsession with SN is not letting her do justice to any of her other relationships...her slaps
are a big put off too...Thanks for sharing your views...😊

@Heemachuri

yes,all Rishi needs is some attention from indu after the ordeal he went through...he craved
for his loved ones attention since his childhood and his insecurities stem from this...Indira
after being aware of this is still caught up in her obsession of SN and is failing to cater to
the emotional needs of her partner...Her expectations from Rishi and saying that he would be
responsible if she doesn't get SN really baffled me today...She came across as the other
sharmas - ungrateful which I don't think she is at heart...just hope the cv's would be more careful with the characters...Thanks for commenting😊

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siya

@loveinshi

Sparkler

Posted: 13 years ago

well said..
Hope cvs play it safely..

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forever.young

@forever.young

Sparkler

Posted: 13 years ago

Agree with you guys I think rishi needs to take a stand sometimes..in a relationship both partners have to respect each other's opinions...sometimes too much expectations from a person will lead to problems...like yesterday i dun know why indu behaved like dis with ?? I feel so bad for him...and then wo bhi gussa ho gaya tha

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-queen-

@-queen-

Beginner

Posted: 13 years ago

rishii jese ladke ne jo US me moj kar rha tha baddimag badatmij ugly si ladki ki khatir vasiat shano shokat ki life chod di usi ki sunta h hamesa thapadf khata h . rishi ko jor ka thapad use marna chaihe use b to pata chale kaisa lagta h . rsihi mandu jesi khbsurat ladki se sadi karke settle ho jana chaihe tha q is avara k piche h

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