I did not like yesterdays episode! - Page 4

Originally posted by: knownturk

That exactly is her problem! She almost never arrives at conclusions...always rushes into them. Now that she was clear in her head about Sameer and Mukul's guilt and, therefore, Rishi's innocence, there was nothing to be said or done. She had analyzed the situation and come to her conclusion. That's how it is most of the time. To her credit, she was right this time.

This is exactly what I meant when I said she needs to think and introspect. She needs to consciously work on this side of her personality because it affects the people around her in myriad ways.

Originally posted by: iolahardy

(initially methinks rishi was waiting for rani, inder to leave so dat he cud talk to her in peace. later radhey tapkofied 😡 . n he did try to stop radhey asking him to go ahead n meet the press w/o him...he will join later...wud indeed have been better if they had talked right then n thr itself)

See,...so here, the situations dint allow them to talk properly!!!

'we cant say that 1 hadnt taken any efforts to talk to each other

(nothing dat filmy...but if u observe initially he was standing besides her...but @ the first mention of a pic in a newspaper...the besharmas swarmed around indu & slowly but surely pushed rishi away. wat i expected her to do here was hold his hand & stop him from getting pushed aside & hence leaving. a simple gesture would have said it all. no dialogues needed...the sort of silent communication InShi is best at & if she had stopped him then the press wouldnt have asked him was he family?...they wud have assumed watever they wished)

Yes...that would have really been a sweet guesture & it would look awesome too 😳 😉

but dont u think...Immediately Media would have question abt it, coz everyone knew tht he is Ricky Diwan by then. So it would obviously raise the question of wht he is for this family!!! Anywys...in tht scene again, i would still say...those besharam sharmas pushed him awy, while here too we could see Indira feeling bad abt it...and her eyes were only at him evn at tht time.

(yes, i had wanted her to say a firm Thank You to the press & leave with Rishi...n no i dont feel dats expecting too much)

She couldnt abruptly stop that interview Shruti, it would have sounded rude na

(n she thot rishi will be thr at home...as always she once again assumed rishi will be thr...kaha jayega...ghar hi hoga?😊 being responsible towards society is all fine, and she showed it excellently by fighting for her sister. now it was time to forget everything else & just concentrate on her personal problems. m sure the sharmas/ radhey, etc wud have managed dis thanku u session , she shud have left)

Tht Programme was organised sply for Indira, not for the other family members. And do u think they would have managed 😆 mazaak banake rak dethe 😆. And yaa...i do agree, Indira alwys has this feeling tht Rishi will be there for her, he would never go awy...so probably she was waiting for all other matters to finish, so tht she can calmly talk to him and settle things.

( i had been expecting ur comment. many a times wen i just cannot understand indira i do read ur various posts. i may/ may not agree wid all of them but ur posts do make me understand her better.😊

🤣 i myself did not expect to cmnt here 😆 thought of staying silent

i switched off my pc too...but thn again,i dint knw but just to cmnt i came here 😆

couldnt stay silent whn ppl arent thinking frm indira's side...so thought shd present other side too

i didnt like the sorry either im waiting for it to be a dream and im pretty sure it is
and then quaynat will bring its magic and bring them together indira will also realise how much he means to her

the way rishi left court even vidith bhaiya realised something was wrong im sure in the first few minutes only we will realise its just a dream
i really hope otherwise its just disappointing
after all that he has suffered he will be alright after that horrible sorry 😕

Originally posted by: iolahardy

@ bold: ishaans part worried me a bit. i know the boy absolutely loves rishi, but love isnt same as respect. if in the future rishi does shift into SN after marrying indira...the besharmas wont spare even a single moment to insult him & remind him that he is a 'ghar jamai'. i hope yesterdays gadha dialogue wasnt a precap of the future whr any tom ,dick, harry will come & insult rishi as & wen he feels. but i feel we r reading too much into a very simple scene😆

Don't worry about the besharmas...they just need to keep seeing money on a regular basis. That does not mean no friction. Rishi, if he marries Indira and hangs on in SN, will share Indira's fate of doing a thankless job of caring for his in-laws.

Originally posted by: jjkg

This is profound and so on the spot!

You hit the nail on the head. I feel that this is exactly what happened vis-a-vis her relationship with Rishi. she never took the time to understand her feelings, understand him, and most importantly what she was to him and what he was to her.

First rush to confession soon after realization was understandable. This was a woman who had never felt love. Now she was feeling it, she had to tell it.

But what followed subsequently was not. When she discovered his identity, he was immediately put in the "hate" basket without any meaningful whys/wherefores discussion after the emotions had cooled off. He remained in the "hate" basket even when she was being led in handcuffs. But as soon as he got her out of the jail, something happened and he was immediately put in the "love of life" basket, with all sorts of verbal promises. But then Vidith tragedy came out in the open. He immediately (and justifiably) went into the "hate" basket again. But there was no introspection, no need to discover why, how, when etc. She did not have one conversation with Rishi to find out what happened and why he hid it from her. He was in the "hate" basket and that was it. When she discovered the "poison drugs" thing, Rishi immediately went back into the "love" basket.

This behavior shows she is being led by circumstances, events. Today, if the event puts Rishi in a good light, she will love him, and tomorrow if something puts him in a bad light, he will again be in the dog house.

I am not saying Indira is not justified in her actions so far.

But time has come for her to stop rushing to conclusions. She needs to come to terms with who Rishi is, what he brings to the table for her. If she likes what she sees, then she should give all her love, her loyalty and faith to him. Truly put her "azma ke ekho..." to the test.

Otherwise all the promises made to each other or in front of others (like Vidya Balan) are just empty words

@red: really nice way of putting it :-)

@bold: I should like to see this happen after a phase of bechaini and tadap. That should help her realize his worth.

POOR INDIRA !!!!!!!!!!

ppl always read only her face!!!! they faiuls to understand her emotions .

THIS IS THE BIG PAIN of dat girl .neiother her family nor this forum EVER understood her ,her softside ,her love and care which she hides inside her hard nutshell.

she is living in coocon .where she herself tries to deprive herself from all positive emotions bcz in return it gives her only pain .

saying sorry is not easy for her!!!!!!! still she did .she always sour love in a stiff face n dats cant chnge wid rishi too!!!!

remember after macao track she had not thanked him but she let him living in her house,she took care of him when he was beaten by munna supported rishi infront of her family member accepting his friendship .

when his mother left him then it was only INDIRA who saved him .chandni chawk ki HITLER DIDI ...accepted his love ,hugged him infront of the world . later when her dream was shatered she again created that cocoon around her!!!!! being emotional again brought nothing but pain to her .

everytime her fate leave no other choice to her rather being stiff .

she lives in crutial states of mind ...alas LIKE HER FAMILY MEMBER no one gonna understan her state here too

the transformation from hitler to a lovey dovey girl is not easy for her .

Originally posted by: iolahardy

i know many here will hate me for saying this...but i had to vent out.

i did not like yesterdays episode & i liked the precap even less! the whole 'r u family' thing...whr indira kept quite, later in the press meet too she first thanks her family,inder, & then takes rishis name. frankly speaking he was the only one who deserved any thanks. even thr kutumb besharma says 'uss kanjiaankhwale ka naam leke ki kya jaroorat hai😲...uski ye baat sunke inder bhi hairaan ho gaya😲...seems he has more sense of shame than kutumb

i also didnt like wen ishaan called rishi a gadha...i know the boy has no malice in his heart...but kiddo...he is ur bhaiyya...n yes he does turn into a gadha wen it cums to ur bua...but dat doesnt mean YOU can call him dat...umar se badi baat mat karo!

n did indu need to turn all NETAJI yesterday...wat was more imp? giving statements to press & social messages to public & clicking pics wid family? or was it more imp to go n stop rishi, apologize to him & thank him as well.

in the precap did u see her face wen she says sorry? WTH! as if saying sorry is leaving a bad taste in her mouth...n saying...dis is the way hitler is wont satisfy me dis time! its high time some sort of equality is established in InShi relationship. she cannot get away with watever she does by saying 'i m hitler'

i m praying that the precap is a dream. saying 'i m sorry' (dat too wid such a sour face) wont suffice...atleast not for me! even the 'saying sorry' is not that important to me. just by saying sorry u cannot undo the hurt rishi must have felt wen u misjudged him. watever wrong indira does rishi forgives it even w/o her asking, but indira even after bad mouthing him gets away with just a simple sorry😲 i will never forget the way she sat quietly at her marriage when munna & sam beat up rishi. i want her to ask forgiveness properly...just 'i m sorry' & that too in such a stiff half hearted manner isnt enuf this time!

inshi, their love tracks, marriage track can w8...but its high time rishi gets some respect from indira! his self respect cannot wait any longer!

1st of all take a bow lady

Originally posted by: iolahardy

i know many here will hate me for saying this...but i had to vent out.

i did not like yesterdays episode & i liked the precap even less! the whole 'r u family' thing...whr indira kept quite, later in the press meet too she first thanks her family,inder, & then takes rishis name. frankly speaking he was the only one who deserved any thanks. even thr kutumb besharma says 'uss kanjiaankhwale ka naam leke ki kya jaroorat hai😲...uski ye baat sunke inder bhi hairaan ho gaya😲...seems he has more sense of shame than kutumb

i also didnt like wen ishaan called rishi a gadha...i know the boy has no malice in his heart...but kiddo...he is ur bhaiyya...n yes he does turn into a gadha wen it cums to ur bua...but dat doesnt mean YOU can call him dat...umar se badi baat mat karo!

n did indu need to turn all NETAJI yesterday...wat was more imp? giving statements to press & social messages to public & clicking pics wid family? or was it more imp to go n stop rishi, apologize to him & thank him as well.

in the precap did u see her face wen she says sorry? WTH! as if saying sorry is leaving a bad taste in her mouth...n saying...dis is the way hitler is wont satisfy me dis time! its high time some sort of equality is established in InShi relationship. she cannot get away with watever she does by saying 'i m hitler'

i m praying that the precap is a dream. saying 'i m sorry' (dat too wid such a sour face) wont suffice...atleast not for me! even the 'saying sorry' is not that important to me. just by saying sorry u cannot undo the hurt rishi must have felt wen u misjudged him. watever wrong indira does rishi forgives it even w/o her asking, but indira even after bad mouthing him gets away with just a simple sorry😲 i will never forget the way she sat quietly at her marriage when munna & sam beat up rishi. i want her to ask forgiveness properly...just 'i m sorry' & that too in such a stiff half hearted manner isnt enuf this time!

inshi, their love tracks, marriage track can w8...but its high time rishi gets some respect from indira! his self respect cannot wait any longer!

The first bad thing is her family.how a family can so cheap and selfish and always talk about money instead of relations.sometime i feel suspect that is indra her real daughter or not.and second sometime indra character become so harsh.