Gargi Sharma traumatised playn a rape victim artcl - Page 2

I can truely Understand how Gagri might be feeling playing this Role, tht too with the research she did abt the rape victims. Listening and seeing the Rape victims it really depresses us too, Their words abt their feelings really haunts us deep. Being a Doc i had come across few cases whn i was posted in OBG dept for 2 months and i still remember few cases which made me very upset for many days during tht time. And as Gagri told, evn i felt Disgusted with the world i live in, coz in this world there some beasts who dont evn spare kids!!! And no one can estimate the emotional damage tht occurs to such victims!!! Tht painful scar remains for entire life!!!

And as Rati di mentioned, majority of cases arent registered!!! Many dont seek for justice coz of society fear. Thinking tht whts the use of punishing tht person whn the damage is done and wht would it benifit the victim rather thn causing hatered towards her frm the society. Fear of the girl being rejectd by the societty, fear of the family being insulted, fear of the victims life being wasted without any chance of living makes ppl hide wht happen. Society has become like tht, whr none accepts the rape victim and more over makes her living miserable!!!

HD has seriously taken a concept to aware the families...given strength to the women's who are raped and they don't file cases just for the sake of their image... ...rape is frightening and traumatic. Someone who has been raped needs care, comfort, and a way to heal.But than healing isn't a easy case...it take years to get out of it and sometime whole life and womens are never out...i feel rati and gargi both will feel proud after this track...after getting the justice done...because they will be somewhere aware that they have actually send a social message...i can completely understand gargi's condition...the girl just got into the role...just thinking that someone raped you...its more of a physical trauma ...reading about it can surely left people in depression ...and so is gargi these days...and not just gargi...i feel the whole set would be calm and silenced these days ...they are dealing with a critical and sensitive issue...and i am glad that they did have involved the court scenes in...that means the whole ting will be put infront of the eyes...it is depressing yet i feel proud that illa bedi touched it...because surely not just the actors...but we will feel relaxed when mandira will get justice in the show...because most of us here are connected to the show ...

i would also like to put light on some issues ...


if a girl is raped...She feels like they've killed her soul and left her body alive. She stops feeling like a human being and start feeling like a thing.

If a girl never tell anyone about rape...what can she feel...

When you suppress an emotion, or a thought, it is natures way of telling you that it's 'too much.' It's not because you are weak, it is because it is too painful for anyone to carry. Unfortunately, when you suppress an emotion... it will return. Nothing can 'disappear'. It just hides for a while.

A buried emotion is in your subconscious mind. Subconscious in the way that it affects things you do and how you perceive things... without you being aware of it.

If a girl get's justice...atleast there will be hopes that wounds on her soul can heal ...

if the girl get's the justice done...and get's the criminal behind the wars...it's atleast that she accepted things for herself...and fighted back for wrong...it's a relaxation that a person who did wrong atleast got punished...a relaxation that atleast everyone got to know that the girl was not at mistake...
further society can help her many ways...by not discriminating her from others etc...atleast there will be some hopes for her wounds healing...else in these cases ...there is very less chances of recovery ...