ek hi bhool-an discussion about precap.. - Page 2

Originally posted by: ashish.sachi

I think CVs are correct. If that person is Sameer and he mistakes Mandira for Indira , why he will speak up and ruin his chance. He will definitely take advantage of situation and will keep his moth shut.

do you think mandira is so much stupid.?/will not she at least identify he is sameer??

Originally posted by: jjkg

Infidelity is the WORST BETRAYAL in a relationship.

Infidelity is extremely hard to recover from (forget that it happened with one's own sister and ll the complications therein). We know this from numerous examples in real life. Some people do stay in their marriages, but it is because of kids or financial security or societal stigma of a divorced woman. But life and love are never the same again. Bitterness and cynicism that enters the relationship is of immense proportion.

Physical relations is THE most intimate act between a man and a woman. If there is a love bond, then the expectation is there that it will only be between the two of them. A third wheel, even if it for one night with no emotional relationship, is hard to absorb. Even in the case of swingers, where people sleep with others with permission of their other halves, there is lot of psychological damage that is inflicted. When studied deeply, it is found that one dominant partner convinces the reluctant on swinging. The resulting fallout is usually tragic.

Secondly, it is not a question of ek bhool. It would not be "ek bhool" if Indira slept with Sam. It would be extremely hard for everyone to absorb, even if Rishi accepted Indira.

Thirdly, there is never the case of man being seduced. He has to be a willing partner just because of his physiology. There is a biological reaction, but barring him being tied down and woman doing the deed herself, it is very hard to convince people that the man was innocent. For females, it is a different story as even comotose women get raped.😡

Fourthly, in the precap, it was shown that the man was being an active participant in the act of seduction of Mandira. So, this is NO INNOCENT bhool.

Having said that barring some strange somersaulting by the CVs, I do not believe that the man in teh scene was Rishi. I can imagine him getting the blame, but not doing the act

cvs need to blamed for adding this track.

it is so much stupid.

even in dark you can identify a person.

so it should not be called unknowingly.

so it should happen with full knowledge of both.

Originally posted by: Surbhi123

i think this will all end up being one more mandira's dream...and nothing will happen...fingers crossed 😊

if they show it as dream then it is good for hd.

but if they show it is real then --they are going to ruin at least one character in the show.

Originally posted by: 100raj

i agree with every word of your post.and i am happy one girl truly believes in moral and traditional values.in my generation whatever you said have 100% applied.

but todays generation it is different.
sex is no taboo for them.sex before marriage becoming very every common.and now a days love actually lost value by seeing how many break up happens between bf and gfs.

so now a days indian movies for more bold concepts but tv world still not accepted reality.
fashion-saat khoon maaf or murder and so many other movies started to show today's reality.

but only tv world showing old traditional values.
and by the way i love there serials.
i almost stopped watching movies from last 10 years as movie become bold and bold.

but today i some how feel --cvs becoming so much backward looking.
these type scenes i watched in 70 and 80s

when pran and jeean etc used these type of cheap tricks.

dear nothing has changed...if many moved forward. adopting western culture... than too many are sticked to the old values...like i am myself 18...so i represent today's youth only and whatever i wrote is what i feel...so see nothing has changed...and trust me no one around me is like that...still going for sex without marriage is a big thing...girls are alarmed in such a context...marriage is still a beautiful relation...the respect for values is still there...it's just the way we look at things...i know some changed but many are not...i can understand about gf bf because that happens around me too but i am glad that i am not involved ...but those gf and bf know their limits very well...i know indians starting aping foreign culture ...the worst scenario in front is live in relationships in india...but living relationships are still not welcomed by families...i can bet on that...
ya you are right...movies try to carry every aspect with it ...which actually give wrong messages.,...even tv word disappoints a lot of time...like i said about love before marriage...it has been shown on television so many times...and that's wrong...completely wrong...its about a girl respect...she needs to be strict and even the guy should have much dignity...and they should wait for marriage...moreoiver i took the post in some another way shayad...but i just said what i felt about these things...for me being modern does not mean forgetting your family...insulting your values and culture...what is wrong remains wrong forever...

agree with u raj i also dont want again same story ...

Originally posted by: Surbhi123

dear nothing has changed...if many moved forward. adopting western culture... than too many are sticked to the old values...like i am myself 18...so i represent today's youth only and whatever i wrote is what i feel...so see nothing has changed...and trust me no one around me is like that...still going for sex without marriage is a big thing...girls are alarmed in such a context...marriage is still a beautiful relation...the respect for values is still there...it's just the way we look at things...i know some changed but many are not...i can understand about gf bf because that happens around me too but i am glad that i am not involved ...but those gf and bf know their limits very well...i know indians starting aping foreign culture ...the worst scenario in front is live in relationships in india...but living relationships are still not welcomed by families...i can bet on that...
ya you are right...movies try to carry every aspect with it ...which actually give wrong messages.,...even tv word disappoints a lot of time...like i said about love before marriage...it has been shown on television so many times...and that's wrong...completely wrong...its about a girl respect...she needs to be strict and even the guy should have much dignity...and they should wait for marriage...moreoiver i took the post in some another way shayad...but i just said what i felt about these things...for me being modern does not mean forgetting your family...insulting your values and culture...what is wrong remains wrong forever...

@ bold
my basic question is in this post is that-if rishi and mandira [sameer and mandira as some others predicting] is in that act then will they should be forced to marry??

it may not possible to force these guys to marriage as it is mandiras stupidity.
and mandira needs punishment for this adventure.

Originally posted by: 100raj

@ bold
my basic question is in this post is that-if rishi and mandira [sameer and mandira as some others predicting] is in that act then will they should be forced to marry??

it may not possible to force these guys to marriage as it is mandiras stupidity.
and mandira needs punishment for this adventure.

i knew i took it about love before marriage...🤣ya and my answer to your question is ...ya it is her mistake but the guy should be equally blamed...he should have controlled himself and not get seduced ...she wasn't forcing...it never looked forced from precap and if he did the mistake...like a gentleman he should accept it and get married to the girl so that the girl's life is not ruined because basically our mad mandira did it for marriage thing only...waise rishi hoga hi nahi...but in general...what i wrote is my openion...😊
and about forcing becoming difficult...indira hain na...woh shaadi karwa kar rahegi...😉

Originally posted by: Surbhi123

i knew i took it about love before marriage...🤣ya and my answer to your question is ...ya it is her mistake but the guy should be equally blamed...he should have controlled himself and not get seduced ...she wasn't forcing...it never looked forced from precap and if he did the mistake...like a gentleman he should accept it and get married to the girl so that the girl's life is not ruined because basically our mad mandira did it for marriage thing only...waise rishi hoga hi nahi...but in general...what i wrote is my openion...😊
and about forcing becoming difficult...indira hain na...woh shaadi karwa kar rahegi...😉

though mandira ki shadi though pakki hai 9th march ko.😆

but rishi going to blamed for sure as mandira going to take his name only.🤣

I think CVs have created another suspense & mystery... my question is what was the point of showing that ricky left with his bag & belongings from the house... but mandira successfully kept his shirt in the closet...which went unnoticed by rishi...

Originally posted by: 100raj

though mandira ki shadi though pakki hai 9th march ko.😆

but rishi going to blamed for sure as mandira going to take his name only.🤣

mandira nahi indira 🤣