Kithne door ...Kithne paas...

Originally posted by: ak75

Hi Varshita. Love your topics 👍🏼 make the brain work 😛 Its time for Laajo to sing 'Ye lo mein haari piya' 😆 again and this time due to a Milli.

Thanks Anu, actually I am tired of the immaturity of Nikhil!! I know his condition but how can he take Barkha's comments at face value!! I think Laajo will be tired singing "Ello main hari piya"!!

She better have it on a DVD or even better make it a ringtone on her mobile!!😆

First I will talk about Laajo. Apart from her professional commitments, she is totally dedicated to Nik. She spends the day at Ranavat's house as a cook, which is not an easy job. Barkha and Co may feel she is neglecting her own home when actually she is desperately trying to save their son by putting herself in great danger. Laajo's feeling for Nikhil is very clear. She loves him blindly and is willing to go to any extent for him. Like every woman multi-tasking comes naturally to her. From Laajo to Trishna to cook she does it all with remarkable ease and I admire her for it.

I agree Laajo is dedicated to Nikhil. She is multitasking being a star, then a CBI mole , then a wife...phewtoo much to handle. I admire her courage and selfless love. But when she has gone on a date with Nikhil..is it right for her to keep talking to Sagar..about her heroics when Nikhil signalled her holding her hand...I felt she was a bit unfair to Nikhil at that. I know Nikhil was acting like a child waiting for attention...seeing Mili!!😆 We cannot deny a child but Laajo could have asked Nikhil for a bite after Mili's ..that would make Nikhil feel included. Some small gestures often help to defuse tensions and apprehensions.

Right now Nikhil's confidence level is very low due to all the mess that he has created for himself. He feels helpless and insecure. So, his love for Laajo comes in the form of possessiveness and childish behaviour. When Milli hugged Sagar , Nik too asked for a hug from Laajo which was quiet silly. Sagar's expression said it all 😆 He is worried about her safety when she is at Ranavat's house and he is scared of losing her in all the glitz and glamour when she is Trishna. Laajo's rapport with Sagar/Milli is something Nik has to accept as it is. They are an important part of Laajo's life. Nik getting unnerved by a small kid and craving for Laajo's attention is not suiting his character.With Barkha adding more fuel to it, Laajo has to do something before things go out of hand (seems impossible though) . I have a feeling the ramp walk and Mumbai trip will be utilized to the maximum by Barkha

Nikhil is insecure due to circumstances at the same time Barkha is fueling the fire. Nikhil is in a situation where one looses ability to reason!! So Laajo has to take more care while dealing with him.

He loves her so much that he feels possessive as he has been lonely ...and still is feeling lonely.

I felt it funny that Barkha wants Laajo to be dedicated Bahu!! strange!!😕 Barkha should introspect as to what she has done being a bahu!!😡 Barkha will surely use the slightest opportunity to create problems!!

The sad part is Nik is still lonely even with Laajo around. Laajo being the stronger one should walk that extra mile or rather sing and dance that extra mile to make him happy and secure.

I also agree that Laajo should walk that extra mile..though we are being unfair to her by expecting this. But the partner who still has the ability to reason among Lakhil is Laajo and in a relationship there is no mine and yours but it is always ours!! 😊

Originally posted by: londonkababu

Laajo is currently working hard and is in life threatening danger and our Nihil is fully aware of this situation. He is being silly being insecure of the best friend he has. Barkha's little interventions

are working rather well in making Nik even more insecure than usual.

Originally posted by: Desigirl_21

Hi really nice topic, I think both Nikhil and Laajo have to walk together to sort out these differences that are arising between them involuntarily... I think that Nikhil is stressed out with the fact that Laajo is working as the cook and he is in some trouble so he wants to spend the maximum amount of time with her he does fear of loosing her again, and Laajo because of her work commitments might seem busy but she truly is with Nikhil but yeah what happened at the date was not right on her part either

Nikhil is going through an insecure phase at the date he felt out due to the fact that he wasn't there with Laajo when she was having these experiences then and Laajo is at a secure place so I do think that both of them have to talk to each other and I have read that in a relationship a secure person can help the other insecure person to overcome his securities it would be nice to see that happening

Originally posted by: londonkababu

In the current situation that Nikhil and Laajo are in, I think that it is Nikhil who needs to be more considerate and giving after all it is Nikhil who is being saved from prison by Laajo's efforts. It is Nikhil who should be dealing better with Barkha and it is Nikhil who should be the solid rock. Plus Nikhil neeeds to start using his brains more.

Nice topic by the way.