Missing something in nikhil Dont u feel ? - Page 2

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Swapna dear, yes there is a difference, but a valid one.
I feel that when Ishana was getting engaged to Kunal, Nikhil was angry and frustrated with himself so he took it out on Laajo. He was dealing with confusion then as his long standing friend and childhood sweetheart Ishana was going away from him only because he was married . Barkha , Nani and Ishana had driven him to the edge, so the rage, anger etc to deal with his weakness and frustration.
Now Nikhil may be angry with himself but is not confused rather he is determined to win over Laajo. So how can he show rage? He is repenting, sad and ashamed so he has to tone down his emotions so as to connect with Laajo. So practically his emotions are not based on his relationships with Ishana or Laajo . They are just the manifestations of his conflicts between confusion and determination. It is to say that when you are confused and not finding a solution to your problem , you become impatient, angry and rage takes over sensibility. But when you are remorseful and determined to mend your ways, then you become patient, polite , compassionate and sensible. Anger has no place when you are repenting. So Nikhil portrayed these emotions. I may be wrong but practically speaking this is how it has to be. Having said this I am not overlooking Nikhil's mistakes , he was wrong then but know let us see how much effort he puts to correct all his mistakes and make Laajo happy!!!😊
About Chappals, sorry I don't think people on this forum are so cruel!!šŸ˜†šŸ˜† Aur eggs and tamatar? Kya ommlette banane ya Khane ka Irada hai kya?šŸ˜› šŸ˜†šŸ˜†šŸ˜† Jokes apart , I feel people on this forum are mature enough to assimilate different view points. They are so sweet and amazingšŸ‘. I think you also feel the same .😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: sami01

ok I watched it,nikhil is running on only one emotion at this time, his faith in Laajo that she loves him too,that is what is going on, he also is very ashamed in what he did before, I found his way ok.It was well predicted, his pain on seeing Laajo Helpless and about to die had to be more or when his supposed love ishaana was marrying kunal,in both instances he had fear of loosing person he loved forever...but his emotions of almost loosing Laajo were much more powerful, and if u remember correctly, as soon as he found out Laajo left him, he became more angry with her than ishaana business.SO Laajo's harkats affect him much more than ishaana's but here I found it appropriate, bec u cannot expect high drama ,all the time. Nikhil has to act bit mature also, I am thankful that it was not saraswati who found him sleeping on hay meant for parbati... but I found laajo bit cruel against him , I mean I understand but it is bit against her character who was telling her own mom that she shouldn't be angry at him ,as pyaar hi itna hai ke gusse ki jageh nahi hai...

I know it is made to enhance the serial but I found it against her character, though I feel that now she knows he feels something for her. it seems dam of emotions just burst through.


I Completely and totally agree with you. The intensity of his emotions towards ishana and lajo are different. His feeling were way more intense when lajo was dying than when ishana committed suicide and was admitted in the hospital..! I honestly did not find any sort of depth in his feelings at that time, yes he was sorrowful and sad but that can in no way be compared to the sadness he felt during the epidemic...everyone saw how tensed & depressed nikhil was at that time...he couldnt stand on his feet when he thought about lajo dying...does any one remember that scene...?

When lajo left him, the way he held her letter and said that she has left him forever was very intense too. He was angry at what lajo did... And now, when he has come back to her, i can see that determination in his eyes to get lajo back. Atleast he finds his "OWNSELF" when with lajo... with ishana he spent more than half of the time explaining and giving clarifications.

Now coming to what he is going through, he deserves this!!!...Lajo should not agree all of a sudden to go with him. What he has done to lajo is not right and he should suffer for it too...Only the test of fire makes fine steel...he needs to face this difficulty to get lajo back in order to understand her importance...this will make him realize how worse his mistake was to leave lajo in the middle of the journey...

And as they are the main leads of the serials, they are meant to be reunited..Typical indian serial after all šŸ˜† everyone knows they are going to be reunited in the end...its just that this path should be tough for Nikhil so he can realize...

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I loved ur answers all of u
varsha...so true it was anger and frustration, now it is calm acceptance of mistakes and determination to make it better.
Marvi--agreed huge difference in intensity, also anger towards laajo is always more intense as he just feels more for her than ishaana,ishaana he was more ji hazoor types...
Shania..true any thing beyond would be overacting.
Also I feel Nikhil should stop saying I love u like a idiot, he has told her now let it sink in and then they can move forward...but he should just show it in his actions...how much he loves her,kehne se jyada usko kar ke dikhaye..

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