If we were in their shoes what will we do ?

I just pray that no one should be in the position of laajo , nikhil or ishaana .

Ok i was thinking from some days that if i were in their place what i would do
seriously how i will react ?

If i was in Nikhil 's place and if i beleive that iam in love with ishaana in the first palce
i would never ever marry laajo . I won't marry her what ever may be the situation .
I will help laajo in all ways i could but i will surely won't marry laajo .

And if at all marriage happened the second case i won't run after my girl friend even
though i love her a lot . I definetely don't encourage her for relationship with me .
I would cut my relatioship with ishaana immediately after marriage .
I will accept my fate and work on my marriage never will encourage ishaana .

So i wont behave like nikhi and react like nikhil .

Second if i were in the place of Ishaana even though i love nikhil so much
more than my life and nikhil is everything to me after his marriage i would never
ever have interfered in his life . And i would never try to break nikhil' s marriage
i woud never have plotted evil plans to break his marriage and get him back .

I would have cried a lot curse him a lot for cheating me but after that i would haver
interfered in his life and his marriage . I would have leave him .
May be i would n't have succeded in forgetting him fast but with time i would have
moved on .

If my love is true i will set my love free . If it is mine then defienetely
it will come to me . If it did n't come back then that was not mine .
This i truly beleive.

but i will never behave like ishaana behaved .

Third if i were in laajo's position i would never agree for the marriage in the first
place in those situations . Ok even though if my marriage happens with nikhil
after knowing that he only married me to help me and with pity to save me and
he never ever can love me and he loves another girl more than his life
then i would never have taken so much time to take the decision of coming
out of his life like laajo .

But i would do the same as laajo did coming out of his life leaving him to his love
his girl friend .

So i will behave just as laajo even though iam not so selfless like laajo .

Now i would like to know about you also dear freinds . 😊

ok even though this is drama I have seen in villages such marriges do happen and unfortunately men are normally bitter with wives after this...

^Di,agreed .. even for me parents r everything .. and those who go against for parents will for so called love r fake ppl!

now coming to the post .. okay so i m not like Nikhil,so i can't predict that .. i m not taking pride but seriosuly i m not that cofused soul 😆 then come to Ishana , i also not a moron like her .. 👍🏼 and coming to Laajo ..we ll i understand everything ..and i have no objection with her seriously .. she took time but she step up and it is commendable .. and coming to parents part,she did all this for her parents only,her marriage was only for parents ..and after that when she fell for him , i can underrated ..it is easy to say that i won't take time,but honestly i may take even more time than her ..so i connect with her to the core <3

but main thing is,i won't make myself trapped in such web as i don't believe in such rubbish destiny thing..when things don't go our way we name it destiny and i don't prefer that .. girls r weak in society so they have to face such emotional tortures ..and it si their fault that they don't wake up!

well honestly it is really easy to say this i would have done this and that but in reality it is a very difficult situation to be in...

yes ..parents should come first an di agree with u on being able to relate to Laajo even though Laajo is much more brave than most of us but I think all of us can relate to her and that's why it makes her journey more touching and beautiful for us.

Originally posted by: sami01

yes ..parents should come first an di agree with u on being able to relate to Laajo even though Laajo is much more brave than most of us but I think all of us can relate to her and that's why it makes her journey more touching and beautiful for us.

Now coming to institution of marriage, I believe in janam janam ka rishta sans the romance😆🤣.May be ist cultural thing ..but I feel marriage is for forever and most holy relationship of all but one should stand up for one's self respect and absolutely not tolerate insults specially physical violence is where I draw my line. See for verbal stuff,i have experience, in reality you start thinking that as long as there is peace in house who cares about this dignity etc but never ever I would support violence against women.

But I have seen in real life and done it many times...self respect is last thing on your mind in a relationship...I could be wrong but somehow this is what I have seen and also done

agree ..ppl r ready to take up anything to make the relation work! :| marriage can only be janam janam ka rishta when both halves r getting equal love,respect and support ..other than that marriage also becomes just a boundary!